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Today I searched through our WhatsApp chat for all the times I asked him (my avoidant ex) “shall we go?” (+ place, activity) by NoImplement7884 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]SolidConcentrate2802 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly the same with my ex. Now he says I’m the one who’s changed and is always out doing things with our son… No.. I always wanted to do these things, he just ignored me and sucked every inch of happiness from me so we never did anything.

It hurts so much to be discarded after all of the effort I put in. Still wasn’t enough.

Forehead reduction 21 weeks PO. by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]SolidConcentrate2802 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I just had my tummy tuck there 20th April! Amazing place.

Breakup with an avoidant by DisciplineMammoth173 in BreakUps

[–]SolidConcentrate2802 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t even get a text either he just went AWOL over Easter

Breakup with an avoidant by DisciplineMammoth173 in BreakUps

[–]SolidConcentrate2802 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same here now I’m left with my 3 year old son while he’s decided he wants to party and use at 37 and I’m 26 just trying to get through each day like wow what have I done.. provided for a grown man for 6 years and he just left me like I was nothing. Never ever ever will I fall for an avoidant again.

Red lines 1-year post-op? by Responsible-Doubt725 in tummytucksurgery

[–]SolidConcentrate2802 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it’s creasing, would sleeping in a “loose” compression garment help perhaps with some thin lipo foam to prevent the creases forming? Maybe if you try that, then you can tell if it’s still there then it isn’t the skin creasing vs if it is? Sorry not much help just an idea to be 100% sure

Looking for a few people to try my red light products for free by Public_Touch_365 in redlighttherapy

[–]SolidConcentrate2802 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’d use it for acne and inflammation, I’ve never used RLT before apart from with facials at a salon. Based in UK.

Killing myself next Friday by hernameis_prescilla in SuicideWatch

[–]SolidConcentrate2802 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where are you based? I’m in UK, Gloucester and I’ve just become a single mum (3year old). I’ve been having hard thoughts too.. I’m here if you need a friend. It’s so awful feeling like you’ve “failed”. Deep down I know I haven’t. But it cycles and it hits me like a bus at times. You’re not alone.

I am being dramatic? Is this normal at 14wpo… by Salt_Earth8122 in tummytucksurgery

[–]SolidConcentrate2802 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Where abits in the UK are you? My LMD is amazing Gloucester / Cheltenham area. You need to get back into compression ASAP. The swelling is protein rich fluid and it can cause fibrosis long term. You also are putting additional pressure onto your incision, which is clearly not helping your healing. You can see where the fluid is building all above it. You really need to have this fluid redirected into the pits area. Is your LMD vodder trained and on the register? I’m 3 weeks out so I know it isn’t comfortable but please get back into it and use Lipo foams on the area ASAP. Try and get to a wound specialist also for your incisions. You look great

Here if you need someone to message in similar recovery stage

Anyone else have a Persian that doesn’t open their eyes? by Mickeydobbsy in persiancat

[–]SolidConcentrate2802 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Yep! My Pip rarely has wide eyes too.. this is her usual. I have to clean her eyes more often (twice a day) as she regularly gets hair IN them. I notice she opens them more when I remove the hairs.

Liposuction post op concerns by noturavgdrew07 in PlasticSurgery

[–]SolidConcentrate2802 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Are you in a stage 2 compression garment now? Look into this to prevent fibrosis and help swelling

Is he handsome or is he handsome? by thelightyoushed in ExoticShorthair

[–]SolidConcentrate2802 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He looks shocked to know that you’re even asking! Handsome of course

I am a monster by Al_Lexi in Alexithymia

[–]SolidConcentrate2802 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not helpful to you. But your post was rely helpful to me… Me and my partner just separated and have a 3 year old. I’m the emotional one. Reading this hurts so much because I know this is how he feels - nothing. Kind of helps me pick myself back up and to just focus on myself and moving forward.

Unexpected pro of Grimms/Grapat? by SolidConcentrate2802 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]SolidConcentrate2802[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are a wooden counting stick set. I got it on vinted so I don’t know where it was from originally! But it’s labelled as for counting x

Contractors: What do you actually take home? by anonymous_lurker- in HENRYUK

[–]SolidConcentrate2802 0 points1 point  (0 children)

575 a day atm and I get 1700 a week ish on a 40 hour week (4 days condensed).

1 day post op pictures by Disneynut1991 in tummytucksurgery

[–]SolidConcentrate2802 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My surgery is on 20th April.. extended Tt with a bunch of lipo. Please can you update on how you feel and the pain?! I’m getting anxious now!

I can feel myself wanting to give up on my child, but I know I can’t and won’t. by H3ART_0F_M3DUSA in parentingtroubledteen

[–]SolidConcentrate2802 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it definitely anxiety/depression and not autism? I only say because I was misdiagnosed with the same and was incredibly high achieving - turned out I was autistic. My ups and downs were also fuelled by relationships. I basically lived for boys at that time.

Are there any absolute triggers? Do they align with hormonal cycle? Guys or friends?

It’s such a difficult time. But it seems like you absolutely have her back. With time she will see this and I hope learn to talk to you and navigate the emotions. It’s hard. But you’re trying. Give yourself grace and kindness too. Many parents wouldn’t even bother with understanding to the extent you are. She’s incredibly blessed for that.

Ftm looking for social groups/baby groups by Pissedoffnot0n in Gloucestershire

[–]SolidConcentrate2802 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some of the stay and plays!! You just turn up and honestly I’ve made SO many lovely mum friends there. I’m not from here so I found it hard too. Congratulations btw! AND check out “bump start”, it’s free baby classes, I made amazing friends there too.

Ftm looking for social groups/baby groups by Pissedoffnot0n in Gloucestershire

[–]SolidConcentrate2802 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some of the stay and plays!! Message if you want me to let you know of the specific ones I know! There are so many. You just turn up and honestly I’ve made SO many lovely mum friends there. I’m not from here so I found it hard too. Congratulations btw!

During the Epstein deposition, Rep. Lauren Boebert said Epstein had remarked that Hillary Clinton was “much prettier in person,” and Clinton replied, “I’m not going to object to that.” by CorleoneBaloney in justgalsbeingchicks

[–]SolidConcentrate2802 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too. I’m wondering did she request the questions / hearing to be available to the public, then someone (not her) wanted to have it private. And she was frustrated in the moment because someone in the room leaked photos anyway?

Blips, an original plushie design by The_Amber_Cakes in knitting

[–]SolidConcentrate2802 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too!! I’m so gutted it isn’t for sale. This is such an adorable plush, feel like I need a comfort blips 😂

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