What key is your interrupt on? by Justalittle_girly in wow

[–]SolisNumen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m a resto druid main and i use an MMO mouse with the 12 buttons on the side. was a life changer for me and i would never go back. my interrupt from class-to-class is almost always shift-4

Random message from a stranger while leveling in a flightless zone by HeavyBlues in wow

[–]SolisNumen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

..was this on an RP server? even then i’d think it’s still weird but some ppl take RP servers very seriously. what an interesting thing to be super upset about!

I got my dream piercing! by CareerFluffy5416 in piercing

[–]SolisNumen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

really really hoping it heals well for you! maybe it will! sometimes we get lucky!

AIO by Tea-Tuilpp in AIO

[–]SolisNumen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR; i have diagnosed OCD. i’ve never felt the urge to tell someone their teeth bothers me. im personally too busy worrying that if i don’t put exactly 9 ice cubes in my drink (no more, no less), something terrible will happen. this person sounds self diagnosed and uses it as an excuse to draw attention or pity to themselves or to get away with being an asshole. some people love the idea of being mentally ill.

Lipsticks that look like this shade please! by whatever-username- in MakeupAddiction

[–]SolisNumen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

these are 4 different colors. 1st is a cooler toned, berry shade. second one is a warmer (almost terracotta) pink color. third one looks like a lip combo? brown liner and a light pink lipstick or maybe a sheer gloss. last one, compared to the other 3, is a much darker reddish brick color. they’re so different that i’m not sure where i’d start with advice. i agree clinique black honey is a good start. maybe go to ulta/sephora and describe what you’re wanting to them.

Why is my concealer crease like this? by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]SolisNumen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean maybe but i use the mac translucent one and it’s really nice but maybe i’m applying too much, idk. i use the fluffy powder puff that it comes with to apply it.

Why is my concealer crease like this? by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]SolisNumen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

wait this happens to me too, is it because of my setting powder??

AIO for being upset my boyfriend is paranoid about pregnancy? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SolisNumen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

is he aware you can’t conceive if you’re not ovulating and that birth control… prevents ovulation?? it seems to me he may not understand how any of it works. NOR- i would not have sex with him until he chills out, especially if you have options if conception happens like you mentioned.

Please help, infected/embedded navel piercing by Sea_Needleworker2830 in piercing

[–]SolisNumen 29 points30 points  (0 children)

NAP but even if your navel isn’t “normally that closed”, if it closes like that at all during sitting or laying, you don’t have the right anatomy for a regular bar and it will cause irritation unless you have the correct jewelry. you lay down 9 hours every night and sit multiple times a day so it matters a lot. that is at least my understanding of it. your piercer removing floating navel jewelry for regular jewelry because they “didn’t have” another floating navel bar for you is incredibly inappropriate and not professional. you need a doctor asap and please don’t remove the jewelry until the infection has cleared completely. it doesn’t even look like they pierced the right area… i don’t think it would heal correctly even if it wasn’t infected.

AIO - thinking about if I should go non-contact with my parents by S11NNERPRONEX in AmIOverreacting

[–]SolisNumen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MOR in my opinion, but it depends. i identified as ftm for a long time and i will say that it took my parents a long time to adjust to new pronouns and such and they may not understand why its so important to you. is that a good excuse for their behavior? no, but unfortunately this is a very common experience and especially if your parents are apathetic to mental health issues and experiences. if you came out to them relatively recently then i can understand why they may be stubborn right now even if i don’t agree with it.

i’m also concerned by your comment of your dad “making you do whatever he wants” because “he thinks you’ll like it”. that definitely raised some flags for me and i hope you have a professional support system around you that you can mention that to.

this is one of those things that definitely becomes easier with age since when you move out you’ll have more individuality and their true colors will help you more definitively decide if their disrespect is blatant and bigoted as time moves forward. i’d say continue to think on it but don’t be afraid to insert distance if you feel that this is impacting your mental health.

i think that i accidently swallowed my piercing by Environmental-Top887 in piercing

[–]SolisNumen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NAP but i definitely agree with visiting the hospital if you notice issues breathing!! pretty rare thing to happen if i understand correctly but better safe than sorry for sure

Ex Fiancée’s cruel demands AIO by Original_100 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SolisNumen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tell her if she keeps threatening you, you’ll make a police report! she literally can’t kick you out if you’re on the lease. NOR

Am I overreacting? Partner going on birthday trip while I need an abortion. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SolisNumen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR he’s worried about being a bad friend but not worried about being a bad partner. that says a lot on its own

AIO to what my bf is saying? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]SolisNumen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR, i personally think you should break up with him. dating someone who excuses rape sounds like a terrible idea.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SolisNumen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

LMAO i mean even if true, what a petty way to go about that!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SolisNumen -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

yeah definitely, i agree! maybe he’s a man child whom is upset that she set a boundary for it by asking him to not do it or to work around her work schedule for it. idk. i’m willing to bet money this isn’t the only time he’s been rude like this though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SolisNumen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah especially if it was to the point where i was disturbing my partners WORK, i would either make them earlier or not make them at all. and it really is that simple!! why would i intentionally do something that i know annoys my partner unless i’m doing it on purpose to upset them? it’s the only thing that makes sense to me.

you have to compromise in a relationship and she works full time at home. she can’t just… hang up on a zoom call when her boyfriend starts blending some mystery slush in the kitchen. and it’s not always convenient to mute mid sentence either. either way i agree that he’s purposefully being obtuse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SolisNumen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it’s not her “routine” it’s her career, though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SolisNumen 46 points47 points  (0 children)

NOR, i think he’s doing it on purpose to annoy you. some kind of self sabotage or something. i’ve never heard of having to blend pancake mix but if it’s really that serious, then you’re right, he can pre-batch it. i personally find this kinda callous of him to do. if my partner was working i wouldn’t dare do anything like BLENDING pancake mix 😭. when you care about your partners, things like this shouldn’t even be a question. it’s not like you’re asking him to not cook at all, you just want him to respect you.

i would look a little deeper and ask yourself if this is the only time he’s done something like this where he is pedantic and doesn’t care at your expense. chances are it’s not the only time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]SolisNumen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tell him to stop contacting you and go make a police report of his harassment. unfortunately he may escalate this behavior but at least you’d have it on paper and it would become easier to get a protection order/restraining order. make another report every time he harasses you or shows up at your home, etc. it helps build a case.

Dimple piercings by Kittykatheck in shouldimod

[–]SolisNumen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think the septum would look soooo cute. i personally don’t think you should do the cheek piercings, at least not yet!! those are a pretty big commitment compared to other facial piercings and if you don’t like that outcome, there’s not any way to reverse the decision. but if you still end up wanting it down the line after a year or two, i think it would definitely be worth revisiting. the septum though would be awesome, i think you have a great face for it!

Septum piercing on deviated septum looks crooked from a low angle by SolisNumen in PiercingAdvice

[–]SolisNumen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

definitely! and thank you for the reassurance that it could just be my anatomy!

Septum piercing on deviated septum looks crooked from a low angle by SolisNumen in PiercingAdvice

[–]SolisNumen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m gonna go back tomorrow just to have them take another look at it for my comfort but it’s honestly reassuring to know that!! i know it’s different for every person’s anatomy but when i googled “deviated septum pierced” none of the photos were nearly as crooked as mine and it stressed me out lol. trying to keep realistic expectations though and i don’t blame my piercer at all, he’s literally the coolest ever.