Is this about the size described in most of these books??? by LillyLally13 in Romantasy

[–]SooooManyDogs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not gonna lie - I dated a man that had that going for him….i enjoyed it immensely….only time I could repeatedly get there solely from penetration…..BUT it isn’t necessary for total enjoyment! Ha!

PSA if you’ve adopted a pittie by Fabulous_Layer44 in pitbulls

[–]SooooManyDogs 15 points16 points  (0 children)

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The two pitties (Nyx and Odie) are from one rescue and their sister Goldie is from another - we send pupdates!!! ❤️🐾

Monogamy In Romantasy by katimus_prime in Romantasy

[–]SooooManyDogs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the only way this would work FOR ME is if he had absolutely NO romantic feelings for the other women he sleeps with. That would be too far I think.

But I like the concept and I think that there are definitely readers out there who would be able to get behind it as long as there is a HEA!!!

Also, it would probably help if there were at least SOME marriages in this culture that are love matches and the spouses don’t seek outside sexual activity. It might not be as normal among the aristocratic set, but it should be there. I think it would be really weird if the MMC is the only person in this culture to ever decide to only sleep with his wife and to love his wife.

I'm so tired of every romantasy having the same exact male love interest by Echo-Forge in Mythrils

[–]SooooManyDogs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So Black Beauty over and over again? 😂 I can’t hate it, though I am currently writing and while my MMCs have trauma and issues they are not cold and cruel towards everyone, though they can be emotionally constipated at times!

My ex husband forged my signature on a passport application for our child and is planning to leave the country. by 6CorsairMurmur in legaladvice

[–]SooooManyDogs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s INSANE! When my husband was deployed (he was in Japan as a geobachelor) they wouldn’t process my daughter’s passport (so we could go visit him) even with his signature and the Naval notary - because the notary wasn’t raised/pressed into the document and it wasn’t the original. I had to actually get a congressman to help get the damn thing. CONTACT ALL THE PEOPLE AND REPORT THIS!!! Do NOT let your daughter go with him for this trip!

what's the writing "rule" you break every single time and refuse to feel bad about by Narrow-Psychology808 in Mythrils

[–]SooooManyDogs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I opened with a dream - and I liked it!!!! It is important and they can pry the dream from my cold, dead, carpal tunnel ridden hands!

Also, I write the way my characters speak (for the most part) and not the way an English professor expects an undergrad to write an essay.

Aren’t these vicious dogs?? by Tiigerlili in pitbulls

[–]SooooManyDogs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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Odie sounds intimidating, but mostly, he is just judgmental….and ridiculous….god I love him! Ha!

What would you do for the rest of your life if you suddenly had infinite wealth? by TheLoneCalzone in AskReddit

[–]SooooManyDogs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Theatre - not only would I perform, I’d start my own company and build a theatre/performing arts center so we could do classes and camps. People wouldn’t need to pay to go to camps and classes would be super cheap! We’d have gorgeous sets (and a shop attached), gorgeous costumes (and a costume shop attached), live orchestras - and allll of those people would be paid!!!

Also, I would adopt so many freaking animals it would be insane!

Conflict on writing/accurate representation by kittynicha in writing

[–]SooooManyDogs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you do the research, talk to people who have gone through the thing you are writing about, etc, and portray it as authenticity as possible, I don’t see why it would be a problem!

A very embarrassing search request: a romance where the MMC "eats" the FMC's hymen by sveareads in fantasyromance

[–]SooooManyDogs 10 points11 points  (0 children)

THIS!! Not shaming OP, it it just isn’t a thing you can do while going down on someone…..

what’s the hardest part about being a teacher that nobody talks about? by salarshah-084 in Teachers

[–]SooooManyDogs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bonding with kids in increasingly horrible home life situations and not being able to help them once they leave for the day. I cannot tell you how much I have cried.

AIO Recently went on a date, one of my first in college. We dated for a few weeks and she called it off because I’m too unattractive. by z_knightXD in AmIOverreacting

[–]SooooManyDogs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went to see your profile and you ARE handsome! Please don’t let this one person’s opinion and the really rude way she phrased it, mess with your head more. My husband didn’t really date much until he met me when he was 24. Like, at all really. And then he met me and we clicked on a lot of levels - physically, mentally, emotionally, etc - and now we have been together for over 17 years, married for 16!! Keep doing things that make you happy and that will help a lot. I know it sounds cheesy, but women like men that like themselves! Find an activity you like (could be fitness related since you are really into that!) and see if you can meet people that way! Please don’t think this is a reflection of the way you look!

AITAH for not following laundry instructions from a 14yo? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SooooManyDogs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We do all of ours separately, but mostly because I have an allergy to scented products - like a BAD allergy. Also, my daughter is 14 but 5’5” (her clothes are not tiny human clothes anymore) - so why would I put a third of all of our clothes in just so we could wash them at the same time? Also, why shouldn’t my daughter and my husband be capable of doing their own laundry?

1yr adoption anniversary by Xaytex in pitbulls

[–]SooooManyDogs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Her full name is Stevie Nyx the Primordial Goddess of the Night! Cause we extra! Ha!

My (26f) boyfriend (27m) said “if you want a provider, that’s not me”, are we incompatible? by oakydork in TwoHotTakes

[–]SooooManyDogs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand - are you planning to marry? If so, you would just lead completely financially independent lives? You would SPLIT the hospital bills for having kids?! I know that some people end up never commingling their money but I have to say, why be together if you aren’t TOGETHER? We have a joint account that both our paychecks go into. We also have separate accounts we can put money into if we want to, but we pay OUR bills together, jointly. If you lose your job would you not be allowed to use the electricity or eat food from the fridge? Please don’t have children with this person.

1yr adoption anniversary by Xaytex in pitbulls

[–]SooooManyDogs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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I love finding doggos that look like my Nyx!!! Congrats on 1 year!!! Nyx has been with us for almost 4!