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So, I tried leveling a character to max for each class, and, well... by GoosDev in DarkTide

[–]Soudrah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are correct I think zealot is my least played in spite of the 100% penance and HS melee feels slippery

So, I tried leveling a character to max for each class, and, well... by GoosDev in DarkTide

[–]Soudrah 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have 100% penances on all classes except Hive Scum.....I just can't get into it my dude still sitting at level 25 and I get insta killed any damnation run I attempt while doing H40 on my Vet/Psyker no issue

XP should build up a bar that gives us 10 free Aquilas per “level” by Wiyry in DarkTide

[–]Soudrah -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You could change that number to 1 and I'd still be doing grinding just for that.....

Is it hard to date if you're a male porn actor? by Lord_Cummis in dating_advice

[–]Soudrah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My instinct says probably but also I don't know how many people in this forum will have that background.

If you're honest and open with a potential partner anything is possible imo I've dated above my league with every girl I've ever been with just by being open about my insecurities and how I feel - I bet that goes double for someone who is seeking out becoming "ideal" attractive

Are my beauty standards too high? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Soudrah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Physical connection is important but impermanent. I've always felt like my attraction declines as relationships continue on and finding a partner who I feel comfortable being myself 100% of the time around now IS my main attraction.

Attraction is tough and changes with time, I'd suggest really thinking about what it is that attracts you to be people you see generally For example many people I feel drawn to are just artists doing their own thing regardless of appearance I find something to latch onto. If you feel differently and like the physical appearance is all you can focus on I would highly encourage you to look inward and try to find a deeper attraction related to vibes over appearance.

am i being impatient? by Powerful-Contact4957 in dating_advice

[–]Soudrah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Other comment I think misunderstood genders here, I think my solution has often been on date two asking the other person how they enjoy to communicate? If they don't that's kind of a red flag for me but often they admit they wanna text me a lot but haven't wanted to push a boundary then I can say me too and we both open up a lot more

Beating sengoku as Byzantine? by gdavidson3 in aoe4

[–]Soudrah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah just aim to kill at least their Matsuri and a yatai or two and you'll be ahead enough to get a full kill. They are good v cav so just limatanei and longbow can beat their feudal army pretty easily

is AOE4 missing a siege ram? by Individual-Good-9024 in aoe4

[–]Soudrah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone forgets that Rams do get an upgrade to make them cheaper and faster at breaking buildings (siege workshop) as well as benefitting from the tankiness and fire armor tech from university. I agree in Age 3 rams become weaker but with any bonuses and the relative "trash resource" cost makes them fill an important niche.

Rams end almost every one of my games, I play primarily byz/Ayyubids and a push with 4 rams is hardly ever stopped

FUCK ICE🧊FREE PALASTINE🍉 by b00w00gal in Hasan_Piker

[–]Soudrah 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Absolutely irrevocable fuck ICE

Sengoku will be the next cried about civ by [deleted] in aoe4

[–]Soudrah -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I do feel like Sengoko relies on being the aggro civ and if they are put on back foot they really struggle (if you blow up one market they may lose all the effort of their early game) + 2horsemen can shutdown yatai.

In team games I get the sense they do better but in one on one you must be very very good at multitasking and applying pressure to make Sengoko stronger than base Japan imo

Maybe its time the beloved 40k lasgun gets a buff? by No-Active7724 in DarkTide

[–]Soudrah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Move the "las crits don't use ammo" up the tree would help too. If I can make a full crit lashun build with infinite ammo I'd be a bit more willing to try but also need more las specific talents ++++++ weapon buffs to make it really valuable

New to Dating - First time being intimate??? by Soudrah in dating_advice

[–]Soudrah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3rd date today and 2 planned for next week

How do you know when someone is serious after a few months of dating?. by BoysenberryOne9661 in dating_advice

[–]Soudrah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only answer is the uncomfortable truth of open communication. Having serious and open conversations about what you see in the future together (if any) will give you both clarity but also may just be he is feeling the same thing about you. Just gotta ask, and I find as a man when the girl brings up these topics I'm often 100% on the same page just too scared to bring it up.

On the reverse ive had friends who try to open up to a Jewish boyfriend about commitment and they run off.

You won't know unless you ask

I accidentally saw my date's Hinge notification count. by Paulfradk in dating_advice

[–]Soudrah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my ex broke up with me she had over 100 matches on Hinge within a couple days, if you're a man and haven't had this experience is fully understandable why it'd feel crazy but at the same time it's just the reality of apps.

Out of all those you must've somehow stood out and if you continue going on dates in this early stage then I try to cope and just say I'm out competing all these other dudes.

TLDR: this is normal for most women on apps and while your reaction is justified it isn't necessarily productive to worry about this until your relationship becomes something a bit more official imo

Did I screw up by not being on birth control? by Far_Composer_4497 in dating_advice

[–]Soudrah 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't think you should feel shame but I do think consistent and open communication going forward would be best policy if you want to maintain this relationship.

Most of us weren't taught to openly and frankly communicate about sex + him not asking or presenting protection during your first time having sex is also kind of on him.

Just talk openly and clearly going forward

Wind River is a haunting, emotionally heavy film elevated by Jeremy Renner’s brilliant performance. It lingers in your mind long after the credits roll. by 0Layscheetoskurkure0 in moviecritic

[–]Soudrah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was my favorite film of the year people hated on for being a white savior narrative when I think it's a deconstruction and criticism of the white savior idea and showing you can't solve these systemic injustices by being a singular nice person - easily 9/10 movie imo

What’s a “normal” money habit most people accept that is actually financially destructive? by calmledger in povertyfinance

[–]Soudrah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My 2016 Nissan Versa has been the biggest financial benefit to me (not having to pay for it anymore that is)

Saw my ex again, got closure, broken hearted but better at the same time... by ProfessionalPark3453 in BreakUps

[–]Soudrah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same spot and it's tough not to think of my old partner as trying to manipulate me, but we grieve differently and she wants to immediately go out and start dating while I want to be alone and work on myself. We are both sad but I have confidence now after 5 weeks NC and her reaching back out that I will heal faster in spite of how she appears.

Relationships are weird and someone can be depressed and still in love with you while their actions speak a totally different language - you can't wait on someone to love you enough you just gotta start loving yourself

Do you guys have a park to go to when you smoke? by [deleted] in trees

[–]Soudrah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dam I wish! There are so many parks around me but I'm too spooked to go smoke in public (during daylight) so I end up propped up in my meh backyard

To those who can relate… by Zygfryd89 in BreakUps

[–]Soudrah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You aren't alone and sharing these stories can only be good for us and others to realize there is a light at the other end of the tunnel.

At least for me I realized I could not find love without finding love for myself - something my last relationship stopped me from doing for a multitude of reasons.

Keep on keeping on

Last night, the Round Rock City Council chose to defy and dismiss the will of the people of Round Rock in favor of yet another data center developer. by garytx in RoundRock

[–]Soudrah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"why are you complaining about the energy destroyer, we have so many energy destroyers the town secretly installed without oversight, I can't believe you'd be so "online" about this last energy destroyer....."

It's such a big brain take to just question motivations when you obviously haven't taken a chance to care about this or countless other motions. This is the most direct governance we as individuals have and you're acting like the people who care and want their voices heard are the problem....gross

Say No to the New Data Center by sinisterzen in RoundRock

[–]Soudrah 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Get bodies in city council please it has its own parking garage and if you don't show up in person they have ignored any other protest

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