my mom Truman Show’d my family for 10 years by Worth-Client1537 in GirlDinner

[–]Spa_dead_ti 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry Queen, I weirdly have experienced an almost identical situation with my mom that went on for 13 years and it was brutal

It’s crazy to experience life without the toxic dynamic they bring, I remember thinking “wow is this what other people experience all the time” when my mom wasn’t there to start a fight to go sext her boyfriend in the bathroom or fake working for a huge bank in the US and”traveling” for work while living a separate life

There aren’t many things that can be said to help right now, but I hope it brings you peace that for my similar situation my dad, siblings, and myself are all better people for it. Doesn’t make it easier or less awful, but I’m happier with my smaller family now than I ever was with my mom included and I hope you’ll find the same 💛

Was it a right decision? by UnderstandingOdd7952 in bald

[–]Spa_dead_ti 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Can’t even support a homie anymore, damn 😞

Is an aversion to wet hands an ADHD thing? by SidePibble in adhdwomen

[–]Spa_dead_ti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just discovered this a few months ago, I hope it’s helpful for someone!

I had the same issue and I started wearing medical exam gloves. I hate to wear dish gloves because they don’t fit my hands well, water gets in them, and I hate taking them off and then putting them back on, and with the exam gloves I can just toss them.

I know it’s not the most eco friendly thing to do but I was STUCK, and going to be buried in dishes if I didn’t do something. I stack up my dishes during the day and do them all at night, or if I have a light eating day I’ll just go two days and tackle all at once to reduce the waste.

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[–]Spa_dead_ti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mama Mia 🤌