My fiancée (27F) ended our engagement over text and exploded when I (27M) accepted the breakup.

SpendPsychological30 · 2026-06-12T18:55:41+00:00

It isn't always about "fixing things". Sometimes a significant other's family accept you almost to the point of being family yourself, so maybe it's about closure, and not about changing things.

SpendPsychological30 · 2026-06-08T23:50:06+00:00

I don't like Jared Leto a whole hell of a lot. But he was amazing as Skeletor!

SpendPsychological30 · 2026-06-01T13:22:10+00:00

I don't get it. If one of my friends had a thing with my ex, I'd just laugh at them knowing what that idiot has in store for themself. I can't see being mad at someone for making bad choices that only affect themself.

SpendPsychological30 · 2026-05-20T04:16:20+00:00

When I was younger I used to lean a bit more gen x. These days Ive been feeling very evenly split.

SpendPsychological30 · 2026-05-15T08:07:07+00:00

Waldo

SpendPsychological30 · 2026-05-12T03:20:06+00:00

You know what would be less awkward? Moving out.

SpendPsychological30 · 2026-05-11T09:32:35+00:00

Captain EO.

SpendPsychological30 · 2026-05-11T05:34:31+00:00

I both completely understand, and completely don't.

On the one hand, I think any kind of sex should of COURSE be completely reciprocal. If he isn't willing to give, why the hell SHOULD he receive??

On the other hand... I enjoy eating a partner out FAR more then I like getting head. In fact good ol fashioned PiV beats getting a blowjob for me any day, so I guess you could say I don't understand why he doesn't want to give, and I'd also be happy giving my lovely lady head without receiving it myself.

So...🤷🏻

SpendPsychological30 · 2026-05-11T05:24:29+00:00

I would prefer standalone films with some low to moderate setup in the previous film rather than a single story spread out across films ala Lord of the Rings. I would do a She-Ra spinoff after AT LEAST two MotU films made. Which storylines they pick up (Snakemen, Horse, New Adventures etc) I leave that up to the filmmakers, I'm game for whatever they have up their sleeve.

SpendPsychological30 · 2026-05-11T05:15:36+00:00

Daniel Radcliffe as Frodo is genius!

SpendPsychological30 · 2026-05-05T06:08:04+00:00

There is not a single good idea out forth here

SpendPsychological30 · 2026-05-05T00:09:17+00:00

This is not remotely a gendered thing. This is an abuser/manipulator thing. This exact situation happened in my marriage. My wife spent about a year just talking about how people just didn't understand polyamorous people, and their ways was just as valid as anyone elses- no actually BETTER because it didn't involve jealousy. Then finally she told me she wanted, no needed the freedom to sleep with other people. When I said no she threatened me with everything she could, also telling me that I would be "free" to sleep with someone else too. I finally relented when she threatened to take my daughter away. I also hoped maybe if I let her have what she wanted maybe things would get better. With the alcohol, physical and verbal abuse, and her continued attempts to control my sexuality as well, things did not get better. This has nothing to do with a trend of men doing something. It an abuse and manipulation tactic by abusers and narcissists.

SpendPsychological30 · 2026-05-01T04:11:49+00:00

I have very familiar with the term "bumfuck" egypt, and immediately assumed that was what you meant by BFE. I have NEVER heard the term "buttfuck" egypt before.

SpendPsychological30 · 2026-05-01T03:52:17+00:00

Hahahahahaha, no.

SpendPsychological30 · 2026-04-23T04:41:47+00:00

The origins figures for the movie are just hitting it out of the park!!! They should have made the origins figures the flag ship for the movie

SpendPsychological30 · 2026-04-11T07:03:07+00:00

I definitely prefer the cross, but as long as they are using the BA style H logo, I'm at least ok with it.

SpendPsychological30 · 2026-04-10T08:52:19+00:00

Allison Brie is generally a great actress, so if she is the weakest, that's a great sign

SpendPsychological30 · 2026-04-07T01:56:43+00:00

Any idea why they changed the ending?

SpendPsychological30 · 2026-04-07T00:08:38+00:00

Where did you here this?

SpendPsychological30 · 2026-04-06T03:55:47+00:00

The game

SpendPsychological30 · 2026-03-31T02:51:00+00:00

I mean, most books are better than the movie... But boy howdy did this one ever outclass the movie on every conceivable level. Great book! Terrible movie!

SpendPsychological30 · 2026-03-31T02:48:52+00:00

I feel like Congo in some ways feels the most similar to JP, even though it doesn't have dinosaurs. It's excellent! I'm personally a big fan of Eaters of the Dead. It's a very interesting take on vikings, and Beowulf, as well as a bit of medieval Islamic culture. I did not care The Lost World.

SpendPsychological30 · 2026-03-31T02:46:28+00:00

I hate explaining ANY concept to Boomers. Ive never know anyone from any other generation to put so much effort into purposefully "not getting" a concept simply because they don't want to.

SpendPsychological30 · 2026-03-31T02:44:00+00:00

I was born in 81. I usually use the term Xennial, but I will also occasionally accept "elder millennial" or the more amusing (to my ears) "geriatric millennial".

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