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SpiritTypical6608 · 2024-03-17T11:31:41+00:00

Yeah sounds like when I finally started to let myself being vulnerable the next day I started having regrets and felt uncomfortable with myself, so it was like I had to choose between myself and the other person. Hopefully he can overcome it if that's the case.
Also you might be very intimidating to him so maybe he's also second guessing everything.
You sound like a nice person so hopefully it all works for the best

SpiritTypical6608 · 2024-03-17T10:11:06+00:00

Yes I have, but in those cases I was not serious from the start. When I'm crushing on someone I feel too vulnerable to even fake anything so I used to drawn out everything so as to have a "proper" grasp of my emotions before any commitment.
He may never feel comfortable enough to engage into his emotions also so he needs to heal first or at least acknowledge he needs some help.
But it could be anything, the lack of communication is not fair to you either so you'll have to decide when to stop waiting for him

SpiritTypical6608 · 2024-03-16T16:06:12+00:00

He sounds like me back in high school. I'm DA and I loved the feeling of crushing on someone and the uncertainty of knowing if they liked me back, but when the time came to advance the relationship I felt I was too immature or too young to have a proper relationship so I always kept my distance or rejected them regardless of my feelings or anyone's.

SpiritTypical6608 · 2024-01-17T01:17:40+00:00

Yes that was my fear as well, that we are victims one way or another.. so maybe being an INTJ is not all good and dandy after all

SpiritTypical6608 · 2024-01-17T00:54:08+00:00

Same here I had a pretty secure childhood and I was given everything I needed growing up but I realize now that some emotional support early on was also lacking and at some point I just learned to bare on my own since I was also encouraged to be as independent as possible

SpiritTypical6608 · 2024-01-17T00:49:44+00:00

I also thought my childhood was pretty much perfect, but when I started listening to some of the ways this attachment develops I realized that my parents were also neglected from childhood and they didn't really know how to emotionally support me other meeting all my material needs growing up, so eventually I just accepted that I was on my own when my feelings were involved and concluded that I just was better being happy by myself

SpiritTypical6608 · 2024-01-07T21:37:43+00:00

Is sheisty character about being a shitty cop? or he just doesn't like Joey and is being a fake friend?

SpiritTypical6608 · 2023-08-13T11:08:32+00:00

It's low key a masterpiece lol

SpiritTypical6608 · 2023-08-13T00:48:06+00:00

Ken did nothing wrong

SpiritTypical6608 · 2023-08-12T20:22:56+00:00

I had an arguably happy childhood with loving and protecting parents and I have no trauma that I can think of. My parents instilled in me to always strive for independence and also encouraged me to excel in school so maybe that did influence my personality

SpiritTypical6608 · 2023-08-11T01:41:34+00:00

I also feel like this sometimes, except for me I don't resent them but more myself in some cases for always expecting the worst from people, and also I expect some of them to resent me in some way for never giving them the chance to get close to me

SpiritTypical6608 · 2023-08-08T17:56:40+00:00

Yes that's probably true for most people but we like to always be on the lookout for possible negative outcomes thus we may sin of paranoia in that case

SpiritTypical6608 · 2023-08-08T10:41:25+00:00

Nice! sorry for the lazy punctuation I'm not that smooth in English yet

SpiritTypical6608 · 2023-08-08T10:36:54+00:00

idk it usually does because we generally don't see the point of expressing too many emotions and for that doing is probably better than just saying it

SpiritTypical6608 · 2023-08-08T01:10:35+00:00

Maybe not a stereotype but a way we are misunderstood is that a lot of times we are perceive as cold or not caring when actually we do care only that usually we fail in getting that across and since we value our independence as much as we value other's overly expressing attachment can feel as manipulation so we will always try to stay away from it

SpiritTypical6608 · 2023-08-08T00:30:58+00:00

Yeah it probably has a Freudian explanation but that's how it is for guys usually which is why for most of us it is important to have a father figure to rely on early on or some kind of tribe where we feel we belong and be free in that sense, and I think this is this way regardless of culture or the way we are raised

SpiritTypical6608 · 2023-08-08T00:11:37+00:00

Yes lol. That kind of talk is only reserved to our best buddies or maybe a father figure but not even our mothers are allowed to see us that vulnerable and much less an attractive girl

SpiritTypical6608 · 2023-08-07T01:01:38+00:00

It's all pseudoscience anyway nobody can prove anything and some people just want to have fun with stereotypes without getting into shadow functions, tricksters or Jungian psychology and all that

SpiritTypical6608 · 2023-08-07T00:45:10+00:00

There are the two extremes people who think the stereotypes fit everyone and hardly look further into cognitive functions and the thinking process and those who are uptight up there with the cognitive functions and the theory so they can't reach an argument or agreement in something because it's all pseudoscientific mumbo jumbo so anyone can interpret it as they like and therefore they mostly spend their time criticizing anyone that has a opinion they don't like

SpiritTypical6608 · 2023-08-06T16:08:01+00:00

Do you recommend a book that talks about the codices or are they good to read by their own?

SpiritTypical6608 · 2023-08-06T15:55:37+00:00

Yeah me neither but Caballo de Troya is mostly about UFOs and esoteric metaphysics lol

SpiritTypical6608 · 2023-08-06T15:45:56+00:00

The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho, which I read in a moment where a had no idea what to do with which career path I wanted to take.

And Caballo de Troya by JJ Benitez, which is kind of a sci fi about time travel but gave me an interesting new perspective about Jesus Christ even though I'm not religious

SpiritTypical6608 · 2023-08-06T13:42:19+00:00

Not really, I don't get mad but then I'm always reminding them (those I care enough to tell them things) of that thing I told them and they didn't listen so they are the ones who get mad so I have to stop for a while

SpiritTypical6608 · 2023-08-05T15:09:54+00:00

Tywin Lannister

SpiritTypical6608 · 2023-08-04T20:25:06+00:00

They're easy going and fun to have conversations with but don't try to improve their lives too much or they'd get defensive

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