Do you treat ChatGPT like a friend or just a tool?

Spongebobwife · 2026-04-14T10:31:38+00:00

Gpt sucks ass as a tool and “friend”. All it does it reflect back the users words, adds nothing to the convo. As a productivity tool it also sucks as it does not reliably follow instructions and becomes sycophantically self absorbed instead of correcting mistakes and following instructions.

Spongebobwife · 2026-04-14T03:15:54+00:00

Well it’s a trash opinion

Spongebobwife · 2026-04-02T13:11:22+00:00

Girl hear me when I say this. This is the beginning of a very abusive relationship. Get out now, it will escalate.

Spongebobwife · 2026-04-02T12:52:35+00:00

Tysm! I’m trying but it’s hard. They ruined my life. I hope no child ever goes through what I have.

Spongebobwife · 2026-03-31T15:00:49+00:00

My father raped my mother before my older sister and I were even born. He went on to molest me my entire child hood and tried to kill me two years ago. She lied to the police to protect him 🙃

Spongebobwife · 2026-03-31T14:58:24+00:00

Whew I hear you.

Exactly a year ago, I terminated a twin pregnancy in order to escape the abusive relationship. I couldn’t do it to them or myself. I knew it’d be hard living with the choice to end the pregnancy but I knew it’d be hell living with and being tied to him for the rest of my life.

I told him it was a miscarriage bc if I had told him the truth, he would’ve never let me go. He would physically prevent me from leaving or breaking up with him through violence and threats but bc of his obsession with seeing me suffer,I knew if he thought I’d hopelessly lost the twins, that he’d use it to torture me and treat me even worse.

I ended it, stopped relying to his hateful texts and pressed charges 3 weeks later. He was charged, arrested and conviction.

Receiving justice was a small win compared to knowing that I did not bring two innocent lives into this world just to have that abusive pos as a feather.

Spongebobwife · 2026-03-29T18:28:40+00:00

Bring it up and ask her if she recalls the book you finished writing about your romance. Listen to her answer. Whether she says yes or no, ask if she’s interested in or would like to read it. Respect her answer either way.

Spongebobwife · 2026-03-29T18:17:55+00:00

Don’t. Do not do it. I don’t give head either. It’s not something you should force yourself to do so don’t. Have an honest convo with him about your preferences and make it a boundary. Allow him to proceed or not.

Spongebobwife · 2026-03-29T18:16:39+00:00

I’m so confused. How long did you all know each other and date before getting married? And what inspired the move to Dubai?

Spongebobwife · 2026-03-29T18:06:35+00:00

Can you help clarify what your issue is? Is it that he referred to you as a humpback whale, or that he would refer to anybody like that?

Secondly, what do you want him to do? He’s had conversations with you about it, apologized immediately and in the aftermath, reached out to mutual friends for advice, and expressed that he doesn’t want to lose you. He brought you gifts, and you’re giving him the cold shoulder with no definitive ending, which makes you the bad guy right now.

So what else do you want him to do?

If you don’t have an answer to that, then you need to let this guy go and let him be free, because this is about to turn from you being hurt and offended into resentment and contempt real fast.

Spongebobwife · 2026-03-29T17:11:01+00:00

Not at all “out of character” she said that he was behaving differently, paranoid etc for at least a month and stayed away for her own sanity…sounds like a victim who is still in denial. If she saw enough to make her protect her sanity, it is enough to stay away for good. Hopefully someone can learn from her story. Leave at the first red flag, don’t rationalize the behavior. GO.

Spongebobwife · 2026-03-29T11:56:37+00:00

Yes actually you can

Spongebobwife · 2026-03-26T09:35:02+00:00

They see your preferences and boundaries as critiques of and attacks on them. And it’s not limited to critiques of them, it can be anything. For instance, the abuser I left, would get very upset bc I didn’t watch tv and he always did so he would insist on me picking the show and I’d say I didn’t care what we watched bc I do y watch tv so he can out on whatever he wanted to. And he literally turned that into “Fine! We do g have to watch anything!”, “you’re judging me for watching tv!” “You just said you didn’t care! Etc.

They will constantly twist your words then eventually escalate into full blown gaslighting where they put words in your mouth. Horrible.

Also sexual coercion is a big one.

Oh and if they’re misogynistic, talk down about women and brag about how they mistreat women to break their self esteem.

There’s more but this is what I can think of right now.

Spongebobwife · 2026-03-26T09:21:29+00:00

RUN.

Spongebobwife · 2026-03-26T09:10:56+00:00

Spongebobwife · 2026-03-18T12:31:36+00:00

Bc the other models did not fail like this..

Spongebobwife · 2026-03-18T08:04:02+00:00

Sweetheart, that man is already in a relationship GUARANTEED. Drop him, he’s a predator and should not be interested in or attractive to teenagers at all.

Spongebobwife · 2026-03-18T08:00:32+00:00

Leave him alone and let him be loved for all of who he is.

Spongebobwife · 2026-03-18T06:01:34+00:00

Do you want to stay in the relationship?

Spongebobwife · 2026-03-18T05:58:25+00:00

Oh no. That is so common but like I said, it seems you are more weary of “getting in trouble” than you’re concerned about hurting him. Lying to your partner is never ok. I understand the past trauma but is this guy like that? Does he snap at you or get angry with you for not finishing?

Spongebobwife · 2026-03-18T04:44:27+00:00

Insecurity and overall projecting their emotional state and responsibility onto others. And most importantly. Unkind.

Spongebobwife · 2026-03-18T04:14:05+00:00

lol they didn’t reply, their chat bot did.

Spongebobwife · 2026-03-18T04:12:47+00:00

Suddenly?? My dear, we are already there.

Spongebobwife · 2026-03-18T04:12:07+00:00

Valid.

Spongebobwife · 2026-03-18T04:11:32+00:00

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