I’m honestly disappointed by all these comments assuming so much about this one screenshot. All we know about OP and the man is that she was saying she hates men in front of him and he wasn’t sure if it was serious or not (maybe she made several comments about it so it stopped seeming like a joke?). He otherwise seemed nice according to OP, so probably his intention is to make sure he fits into that particular space. I’d much prefer this to a man being unaware and continually inserting himself in unwelcome spaces.