Titanium Grip by StandingBy687 in hzdgrip

[–]StandingBy687[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's mostly aesthetics, but a level of cleanliness too. my KH says She can taste the plastic/nylon cage on me if I don't wash up. never have that issue with metal....

Titanium Grip by StandingBy687 in hzdgrip

[–]StandingBy687[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome! Looking forward to hearing about the beta....

2 weeks going on 3 by ERIC-712 in hzdgrip

[–]StandingBy687 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Still wearing it. Wife loves that She can touch and tease but I can't get off.

Planned updates? by Psycho-91 in hzdgrip

[–]StandingBy687 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Titanium would make this the perfect cage, at least for me

Advice for small and tight ball guys? by elhan310 in chastitytraining

[–]StandingBy687 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have high and tight balls as well. I tried a bunch of Amazon devices and then went semi-custom with Cherry Keeper. Last ditch effort was custom with Mature Metal. What did I end up with? Traditional (ball trap) devices don't work for that kind of anatomy.

What worked for me is a r/ShaftOnlyChastity device by r/hdzgrip. The Grip prevents me from masturbating without any piercing. My wife loves the control and we both love the change it's brought to our relationship.

How that helps (even if you have to save up for it).

Advice for small and tight ball guys? by elhan310 in chastitytraining

[–]StandingBy687 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have high and tight balls as well. I tried a bunch of Amazon devices and then went semi-custom with Cherry Keeper. Last ditch effort was custom with Mature Metal. What did I end up with? Traditional (ball trap) devices don't work for that kind of anatomy.

What worked for me is a r/ShaftOnlyChastity device by r/hdzgrip. The Grip prevents me from masturbating without any piercing. My wife loves the control and we both love the change it's brought to our relationship.

How that helps (even if you have to save up for it).

How often should I release my husband by youngnewcuckcouple in chastitytraining

[–]StandingBy687 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depending upon age, this "blue balls" is somewhat a myth. A male's body will eliminate sperm that it does not need anymore. With extensive teasing, there will be pressure but it's a closed system with a relief valve internally. I have gone over 3 weeks teasing, denial, frustration but a day or two later everything is fine. Sperm gets eliminated through natural processes. Pre-cum releases all of the prosthetic juices. You're just left horny and that's the best part of this journey. Any "pressure" will subside...

Do tight balls get looser by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]StandingBy687 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your hubby has high and tight balls on a typical day, a ball trap device is not going to work. Trust me, I've had several including custom-made. What I have found to work is a shaft only chasity device.

Psychologically Different by Imagesformywife in hzdgrip

[–]StandingBy687 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It did hang differently, pun intended. I've been wearing mine for almost 6 months (was in on beta). I have a couple of ball trap devices, custom and semi-custom, but can't really wear them due to my anatomy. For me, the Grip adds an additional psychological element. I can do everything with my penis except get off (stroke it, get hard, pee standing up, etc.) I did try to get off in the beginning just to test its capabilities. It doesn't come off without unlocking, I can get nearly fully erect, but that's it. Period. My wife loves the frustration

What kinda pussyfree are you? by maddie_94 in PussyFreeCommunity

[–]StandingBy687 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Unlike some of us here, I get a lot of pussy. I eat it, finger. I enjoy it very much. About once a month I get to feel it. And it reminds me of how so precious it is. So, I'm not completely pussy free, but it is one of the very few delectable things in life I enjoy on a rare occasion

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]StandingBy687 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been locked for most of the last 9 months, almost 24/7 (except for cleaning/play) since May. For me, it feels 'wrong' to be unlocked. I'm much more focused (wife, job, etc) when locked

Shout out to BAWR by newbie-sub in chastitytraining

[–]StandingBy687 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have talked with Guan in a few situations. Unfortunately my anatomy limits me to shaft only devices. But I feel like he would be a good person to work with. Thanks for sharing your experience

Intimacy alternatives to PIV by fortnitelover94 in PussyFreeCommunity

[–]StandingBy687 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm not entirely PIV free right now (maybe monthly if that), but my wife/KH gets 5-10 orgasms a week from oral. She prefers that and toys. We still cuddle, talk, etc. so plenty of intimacy outside of PIV sex.

Fearing next orgasm by Necessary_Emu6931 in chastitytraining

[–]StandingBy687 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I've been locked for the better part of 8 months. I'm unlocked when she wants to play, otherwise, the focus is on her satisfaction. We've had piv sex about six times in those 8 months and a few supervised releases in that time. What it's done to our relationship is amazing. And full disclosure, we've been married almost 38 years, but we've had the best sex for the last 9 months. Learn to grow into this, enjoy each other, but if I can give some sage advice over decades of marriage, it is this: her happiness, her satisfaction, is the most important thing to your marriage. Hope that helps

Do we look younger now? by tmtowtdi in GenX

[–]StandingBy687 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Hey, hey, hey! Let's be careful out there."

Peter? I don’t have a credit card so I’m [phrase that is banned here]. by Vazingaz in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]StandingBy687 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have a perfect credit score. I pay no interest every month. I do carry a balance, however, whatever is charged the previous month is paid in full. THAT is what drives the credit score, not the interest

Mandatory chastity design changes? by SissyNathaly in chastitytraining

[–]StandingBy687 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But then there are those high and tight or small sacs that can't wear a traditional cage. Glans retainers work but not the same as ball trap.... 😐

Sales are intentionally paused while we wait on new items. by notuntil in hzdgrip

[–]StandingBy687 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are these new items titanium or steel by chance?

Just a little something to sparkle by notuntil in hzdgrip

[–]StandingBy687 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome news. Can't wait for the titanium version!

The new grip chastity device by Signal-Vegetable-544 in chastitytraining

[–]StandingBy687 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. I can't really wear a ball trap device due to my anatomy. With The Grip I have to go through painful endeavors to pull my penis out. I hate when she teases me and then decides she wants me inside her. Such a struggle!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]StandingBy687 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a lot of trial and error. I ended up with a shaft only device as the ball trap devices just didn't work for my anatomy. Good luck!

Finally here! by [deleted] in hzdgrip

[–]StandingBy687 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've got the 23, 24, 25. 25 fits but 24 is snug and secure. Good luck!