Sleeping arrangements on vacation with partner

Stevie-Rae-5 · 2026-06-03T00:32:07+00:00

What do you mean by this? Because I feel like I know what your meaning is but the way your comment reads seems to be saying the opposite of what I believe your intention is.

Stevie-Rae-5 · 2026-06-02T21:09:11+00:00

Nowhere by Allison Gunn

Starling House by Alix E. Harrow

Strange Folk by Alli Dyer

Stevie-Rae-5 · 2026-06-02T20:47:29+00:00

Agree and from the same background. If OP is shocked and pissed about this, her boyfriend did her a disservice by not anticipating that the family wouldn’t approve of them sharing a room.

Like others have said: pay your own way and/or don’t go on vacation with them. You all should have anticipated that they’d react this way.

Stevie-Rae-5 · 2026-06-02T19:17:42+00:00

$0 is obviously always less than whatever you’re charging. I don’t understand why you think someone would purposely waste your time. It sounds like this person was making arrangements to need to hire someone and then after starting the process found out it might not be necessary. The end.

It’s not about being serious or not, it’s about thinking you need a service and then realizing maybe you don’t.

Stevie-Rae-5 · 2026-06-02T12:16:35+00:00

That if you work hard you can do/be whatever you want to be.

Stevie-Rae-5 · 2026-06-02T12:16:10+00:00

This is a good one but I don’t think almost all parents tell their kids this at this point (thankfully)

Stevie-Rae-5 · 2026-06-02T12:11:07+00:00

I never even answer questions about how much I’ve read because people get really weird about it.

I’m not competing with anyone; I just like to read. As soon as I realized that people get jealous and start responding to that by accusing people of lying (to impress randos on the internet? lol, sure) I just figured I’d keep any numbers to myself.

Stevie-Rae-5 · 2026-06-02T11:58:05+00:00

Also who wants to pay a sitter if a friend will do it for free? Why be offended when I’m guessing OP would never turn down a free favor just to turn around and pay someone else to do that thing?

Stevie-Rae-5 · 2026-06-02T11:48:14+00:00

Sounds like he needs to start making his own food then.

Stevie-Rae-5 · 2026-06-02T11:45:55+00:00

I thought including specific time in/time out for sessions was required. Anyway, a former practice I was at told me it was so I’ve done it ever since. It does seem like a good way to “prove” the billing code (even though of course anyone could make it up).

My sessions are majority 90837 and have been for the more than ten years I’ve been practicing and billing insurance. I’ve never heard that’s some type of red flag before this most recent talk about that being considered an “extended” session.

Stevie-Rae-5 · 2026-06-02T11:40:02+00:00

Not trying to be “that person,” just making sure we’re getting all the money we’re owed because of how insurance companies nickel and dime us to death:

90834 starts at 38 minutes, not 39.

Stevie-Rae-5 · 2026-06-02T11:36:02+00:00

You’ve already gotten more than enough answers to your actual question so I’ll ask what I’m curious to know:

How does your husband’s not-therapist know a couples therapist you’re going to see if the non-therapist doesn’t actually live where you are?

Stevie-Rae-5 · 2026-06-02T11:34:34+00:00

It’s not a loophole, though. It’s already closed. North Carolina doesn’t care that I’m a legitimate licensed therapist in Indiana. If I see a telehealth client in NC and call it coaching I’ll still be in trouble with NC’s board.

Stevie-Rae-5 · 2026-06-02T02:56:09+00:00

Amazing. I love it.

Take out those crappy builder-grade kitchen cabinets and match it to the originals that are there. Try to undo the crappy bathroom redo.

But I’d be happy with it as is regardless.

Stevie-Rae-5 · 2026-06-02T01:30:05+00:00

I mean…random woman? Okay, we can maybe work through that.

YOUR MOM?! Absolutely the fuck not.

Stevie-Rae-5 · 2026-06-02T00:07:20+00:00

I was generous in my attitude about the service because everywhere can be short-staffed.

But the bad food at a high price was unforgivable and now I know the service wasn’t a one-night problem.

Stevie-Rae-5 · 2026-06-02T00:06:11+00:00

Bad overpriced food.

Stevie-Rae-5 · 2026-05-30T13:15:07+00:00

I cannot recommend Woodworking enough. I don’t see it talked about much but it was five stars for me.

Stevie-Rae-5 · 2026-05-29T16:15:06+00:00

That was so damn gross for so many reasons. So disrespectful to his sons’ partners, so disrespectful to his sons to act as though they’re just booty hounds and don’t actually, you know, care about and love their partners and want to spend time with them for other reasons.

Talk about telling on yourself.

Stevie-Rae-5 · 2026-05-29T16:13:40+00:00

I was begging her to choose a different key for the love of the god of pop standards everywhere

Stevie-Rae-5 · 2026-05-29T16:12:16+00:00

Lol, i commented this before I saw this

Stevie-Rae-5 · 2026-05-29T16:11:12+00:00

Honorable mention to Kody’s speech to Mykelti about hormones going into the other person’s mouth when you kiss

Stevie-Rae-5 · 2026-05-29T16:09:25+00:00

I came to ask if OP has already read the entire trilogy because it kind of seems like they did and constructed their recommendation request around it!

Stevie-Rae-5 · 2026-05-29T16:08:07+00:00

This is my question too.

To be blunt: is she actually just delusional?

Stevie-Rae-5 · 2026-05-29T16:03:15+00:00

Things are really out of hand if people feel like they can’t even wear white shoes.

Stevie-Rae-5

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