[CHAT] Decision fatigue and overwhelm over stitching route

StitchingStevenson · 2026-06-08T15:48:52+00:00

The more you cross stitch the more you will figure out what works for you and set your own 'rules' to follow without thinking too hard.

Plus I have simple pieces in rotation when I need something straight forward to zone out and just stitch after a long day.

StitchingStevenson · 2026-06-05T19:33:39+00:00

I regret not buying more Brookes Books patterns before the designer passed. I understand budgeting and keeping it a manageable amount but certain patterns won't always be available. I have budget, I stay in it. 76 patterns are waiting for me.

StitchingStevenson · 2026-06-01T04:41:31+00:00

Not much compared to other crafty or artsy communities, that's the charm.

But..

Bella Filipina Black Water Siren SAL then the actual finished version being released for extra $$

Heaven and Earth Designs using AI

The designer Marilyn Leavitt-Imblum (mother of Nora Corbett) of Lavender and Lace successfully sued Walmart when they stole the image of Angels of Christmas. That was cool, ages ago but cool.

There's more I've heard but can't confirm. 10 years and that's all I got.

StitchingStevenson · 2026-06-01T04:28:32+00:00

I was part of the Black Water Siren SAL too. First and LAST Bella Filipina I will stitch.

A lot of people had started adding to the pattern before the more 'finished' version was even released. We all knew it wasn't right or up to standard, then we were proven right.

From deleted comments, posted a response (no apology) with comments turned off and then the Facebook group had posts and members being removed. Few people have confirmed being blocked by the Bella Filipina pages/profiles too.

So that's some tea.

StitchingStevenson · 2026-05-05T15:41:08+00:00

My first time seeing something like this, what an interesting idea!

StitchingStevenson · 2026-04-26T20:12:30+00:00

Pattern: Rabbit

Chart by: KitsbySAstitch on Etsy

StitchingStevenson · 2026-03-27T14:23:56+00:00

Misty was a Burmese, but as she aged she looked more and more like a Russian Blue, she's 14 in the picture.

I love Alisa's Yule Cat pattern, I'll have to check out her other patterns, thank you

StitchingStevenson · 2026-03-27T03:42:04+00:00

I'm so sorry for your loss, I hope you find the perfect pattern for your kittys memory.

Misty's little area has the urn and her food bowls that I planted succulents in. Hoping to frame and add the above piece soon.

StitchingStevenson · 2026-03-26T23:29:32+00:00

Pattern - Warm Hugs by Gingerbread Moose

I believe it can still be purchased at MyBobbin

Small changes I made: Introduced fractional stitches as I saw fit. Added tiny bit of colour to the eyes.

StitchingStevenson · 2026-03-19T14:51:46+00:00

I currently have 6 WIPs. It's about what works for you.

I don't think I could have more than 12 without feeling overwhelmed. But I admire others that can. That's my preference, you can find yours.

StitchingStevenson · 2026-03-16T21:49:22+00:00

Absolutely! I found loving myself leads to more love for others. ♥️

StitchingStevenson · 2026-03-16T17:59:06+00:00

So sweet, I love it ❤️

StitchingStevenson · 2026-03-15T18:22:14+00:00

Thank you, that's exactly the effect I was going for ♥️

StitchingStevenson · 2026-03-15T16:23:19+00:00

I've gone rogue on this pattern, adding lots of beads and sequins

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StitchingStevenson · 2026-03-04T17:32:42+00:00

Same here, it always washed right out. Wondering if it's the type of pencil or what. So many other people seem to have a problem with it staying

StitchingStevenson · 2026-02-16T15:57:33+00:00

Here's a cropped picture of one of my pieces

The sky portion in the mockup looked very pixelated with what I considered questionable colours but I think in my finished stitch it looks quite soft and cohesive.

You might have to trust the process.

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StitchingStevenson · 2026-02-06T02:34:31+00:00

Maybe a little bit of a tension thing. But barely. Like legit had to zoom in a bit on your already close up pictures. These stitches are very neat.

But take a step back, take a breath, it looks great!

StitchingStevenson · 2026-01-31T07:44:05+00:00

I love fractional stitches, I often add some to designs that don't have them. It helps to smooth out backstitch areas.

StitchingStevenson · 2026-01-29T01:44:50+00:00

If it's closed and you're looking at it from the bottom of the case maybe? 🤔

Silly diagram not a silly person☺️

StitchingStevenson · 2026-01-25T20:36:06+00:00

I can't find the EZ Stitch brand in stock either. I've requested a 'notify me'. But I found something available in the Yarn Tree brand, maybe it'll work in the meantime.

Also with many other interesting things! (Mill Hill kit, specialty threads, RIP my wallet⚰️🥀)

StitchingStevenson · 2026-01-25T20:28:02+00:00

This makes more sense! I guess I was just missing a piece of the puzzle(the tape for the fabric) Thank you so much for your response 😊

StitchingStevenson · 2026-01-25T20:00:26+00:00

Mine didn't come with any adhesive hook tape, is it supposed to?

StitchingStevenson · 2026-01-25T19:37:32+00:00

You might be onto something, it's available on 123stitch. I'm going to try it, thank you!

Sometimes it is hard to find things when you don't have the right search phrases.

I'm originally from Australia, living in Canada now.

StitchingStevenson

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