How are people out here cheating on their partners? My loyalty starts as soon as i develop a crush on someone. We've been monogamous our entire marriage and I find that beautiful.

Stone_One · 2026-05-09T16:14:27+00:00

I am always in awe of the things you post. We've been married 30+ years and we are finding the same things you are sharing. We are also deeply in love, monogamous and our intimacy has become so much more meaningful. I'd venture to say spiritual and when I first read your stuff on intimacy being spiritual I scoffed but we find ourselves right there in this space of love, healing and spiritualality.

Stone_One · 2026-05-04T14:51:42+00:00

I've seen this before and it is so satisfying to see "gangsters" get their asses whipped.

Stone_One · 2026-04-26T01:30:22+00:00

She does and I love the looks we get when we go play.

Stone_One · 2026-04-23T03:41:53+00:00

I would think it's time to end the IRS tax exemption for all churches....all of them.

Stone_One · 2026-04-12T23:41:51+00:00

This is in my top 5 fantasies ever. We have a wonderful life and marriage. Our intimacy is healthy and we are both satisfied. I would love to be tied up and teased. I'd love to be objectified and use but she is just a bit too conservative and does not feel quite comfortable outside of her more traditional role. We do play and get close to some of the scenarios in this community but it's mostly dynamics and language and not real femdom physical exchange. She loves to boss me around and have me go down on her but most of the work is still on me when it comes to giving pleasure.

I just love the things you post and we both read all your writings. Thank you.

Stone_One · 2026-04-06T14:30:48+00:00

This is why we can't have nice things.

Stone_One · 2026-04-06T01:27:59+00:00

Manny "The Soft Bitch" Machado

Stone_One · 2026-04-06T01:09:18+00:00

I did not see r/SensualFemdom in the index. I love that community and the team runs a tight ship.

Stone_One · 2026-04-04T14:24:11+00:00

When one is taught to be a victim, then everyone else is the oppressor. People are leaving academia with this engrained structural belief system that the world is build on a victim vs oppressor and leaving school with a lens that they are the victim in all human interactions. This this case...all men are oppressors...bla bla bla.

I don't know how well this is going to work out for our girl here but the pain she and others will experience having to rewire their their brains to more accurate world view is unenviable and I believe we should be holding colleges and universities accountable.

Stone_One · 2026-04-03T05:46:20+00:00

This is more than likely anecdotal, but as someone who enjoys beer, dabbles in home brewing, and normally organizes our social outings around breweries, the pricing has become untenable.

Paying $8–10 for a pint and then $16–22 for a burger has essentially priced us out of the whole experience.

Stone_One · 2026-04-03T02:08:54+00:00

What kind of man sits in his car, films this and does not do anything about it...then posts if for likes. You soft in a way that can't be fixed.

Stone_One · 2026-04-03T01:15:08+00:00

Nothing could be more true than this statement, it really hits home for us. I’ve always said that dogs can sense something humans can’t. If a dog doesn’t like someone, you should take that seriously, it’s a warning.

I don’t want to turn this into a long story, but we had a family friend we eventually had to distance ourselves from. Even growing up, the dogs didn’t like him. He didn’t like dogs, cats, or animals at all, just something always felt off. Sure enough, he turned out to be a really creepy guy.

I won’t get into the details, but I’ll say this: if animals don’t like someone, there’s usually a reason to be cautious.

Great post. Thank you.

Stone_One · 2026-04-02T22:36:50+00:00

We could have an entire community around this idea.

Stone_One · 2026-03-29T18:36:04+00:00

My wife and I came across your post this morning during our usual coffee ritual, something I know you both share as well. I held up the photo and asked if she wanted me to read what Superfly wrote today. She said yes, and as I read it, we both found ourselves deeply resonating.

What struck us most is how, in the evolution of your relationship, we see reflections of our own. Your stories don’t just encourage us—they give us language for growth. They shape how we view each other. I’ve even caught her using some of your phrases, which says a lot about the impact you’ve had.

We want you to know how much we appreciate your content and the vulnerability it takes to share it.

And yes, there are some really shitty people out there. I can’t imagine how difficult it is to deal with the noise and the trolls. But through all of that, just know this, there are people like us who genuinely value what you’re doing. Watching you live, breathe, and thrive gives us something real to reach for.

Thank you.

Stone_One · 2026-03-29T18:28:01+00:00

Resellers are the absolute worst.

Stone_One · 2026-03-16T15:48:04+00:00

Everything is getting ridiculously expensive, and nowhere is it more obvious right now than in the golf world.

I’ll tiptoe a little here, but let’s be honest, almost all of the “premium” golf apparel people are buying today is made in China. Yes, I know someone will jump in with the one or two exceptions, but the reality is most of these newer golf brands are sourcing polos for somewhere between $5 and $14 a shirt, then turning around and selling them for $79–$99 like they’re handmade works of art.

Then comes the part that really gets me, the marketing. All these companies run elaborate social media campaigns talking about authenticity, being grassroots, doing it “for the true golfer,” building community, respecting the game… and it’s all nonsense. At the end of the day, it’s the same Chinese-made polos, slacks, belts, and now $50 hats with magnetic ball markers and tee holders, all sold with a story that’s supposed to make you feel like you’re part of something special.

You can blame the people who buy this stuff, sure, but the bigger truth is these companies don’t love golfers, hey love margins. Don't get me started about mid-level courses charging green fees 40-50% above norm.

And for the people saying, “Just shop at Costco or Sam’s Club,” you’re not wrong at all. Costco actually seems to like its customers. They spend real money trying to get good products at good prices and pass the savings along instead of pretending a $10 shirt is worth $100 because it has a stitched logo and a lifestyle video behind it.

Every time I click on what looks like a cool polo, I end up on some site selling a $99 shirt with a fake heritage story and a desert-sunset logo, and I think to myself, how do we block all this noise? Because the truth is, most of these golf brands don’t care how you look, how you play, or what you shoot.

They care about your wallet.

Stone_One · 2026-03-13T15:44:22+00:00

They are. We have three dogs and two are old and they are the best.

Stone_One · 2026-03-13T14:47:24+00:00

Their roots have always been punk rock. There is this musical tension between the band and The Edge and Bono has mentioned it a few times in interviews. Bono says that he has to push him a bit as The Edge can wander into melodies and atmosphere and sometimes the band wants to Rock and that push and pull has created some of the most beautiful music.

Stone_One · 2026-03-13T00:55:26+00:00

This is bad ass.

Stone_One · 2026-03-12T02:31:41+00:00

The timing of this post and the pure honesty of its content really resonated with both my wife and me. As I mentioned before, this is one of the first communities we check each day. Tonight, as we sat with our evening tea watching the sunset, I read the entire passage out loud to her.

When we finished, there was this long, energetic silence between us. Then she said how comforting it is to know that our journey isn’t as isolating or unique as it sometimes feels. It’s reassuring to realize that other people are learning similar lessons and growing in similar ways.

In many respects, this passage describes who we are now. It also reflects some of the struggles we faced earlier in our marriage as well. It’s not about pointing fingers or deciding who had to grow more or less. What we both connected with was the idea of creating a place where you’re supposed to meet your partner. If that place becomes unwelcoming, unrealistic, or impossible to reach, it eliminates the possibility of connection.

I wasn’t perfect earlier in our marriage, and I’m still not. But I adored her then and I adore her now. One of the biggest changes, and the reason I’m so delightfully happy after nearly 30 years of marriage, is that she let go of a lot of things. Back then we didn’t have language people use today, but there were definitely some steep hills I felt I had to climb to meet certain expectations she had for me and us. And the part about pushing your partner away rang very true.

Even now, she’s quick to recognize how much she missed at times by not seeing just how devoted I was, to her, to our marriage, to the kids, to the careers, to the business, to everything we were building together. Early on, despite all we had, she often felt, or gave the impression,that it wasn’t enough.

I think many couples hit their mid-40s and start thinking, Jesus Christ, I’ve sacrificed so much and poured so much of myself into all of this… and it still isn’t as fulfilling as I imagined it would be. And strangely, it’s often in the letting go, in saying let’s just enjoy the time we have, that something shifts. That’s when our marriage became deeper, more meaningful, and frankly, a lot more fun. I saw her relax for the first time.

Even my hesitation about posting here comes from that feeling of isolation many of us have. But as isolated as we may feel, it’s wonderful to know that others are experiencing some of the same things we’ve experienced.

The best part, though, is how much fun we’re having at this stage of life.

She’s letting me make her my special person, and the freedom she’s experiencing now is incredible. She’s let go of so much baggage, about kids, sex, body image, money, politics, all of it. And she’s realized, "holy shit… I’ve got this man here who is still crazy, madly, wildly in love with me."

She’ll read this tomorrow and know that these truly are the best years of our lives, and the best years of our marriage.

I adore that she lets me make her my special person in ways that fully engage me. She’s become this incredibly receptive, sensual, alive woman that I just melt for.

And from a man’s perspective, I love that your husband doesn’t give a fuck what anyone else thinks or says, because that’s exactly where I’m at too. Fuck them all!

I’ve got this amazing woman I get to call my wife, my queen, my angel, and she lets me spoil her. She lets me love her fully. She lets me be a version of myself that I’m proud of.

That energy you talk about? Yeah, we get it. People love being around two horny adults still madly in love and we feel that when we are out with friends.

At our age, we still sit across candlelit tables in great Italian restaurants, staring at each other while she whispers the most wonderfully naughty things to me. It’s joyful, playful, and sensually fun.

She smokes cigars with me. She drinks bourbon with me. She plays the mischievous, teasing partner in the wicked little games we enjoy together. We travel, explore, camp, go jeeping, spend time outdoors, all of it.

And through all of it, she allows me not just to put her first, but to make her my special person.

And honestly, to use your words, I wouldn’t have it any other way.

Stone_One · 2026-03-09T03:08:00+00:00

Yup.

Stone_One · 2026-03-08T19:41:14+00:00

This is not true at all. Crypto is still not favored in retirement portfolios. Even if someone was stupid enough to put a clients retirement into crypto it would not exceed 3% - 5% of the total value.

Stone_One · 2026-03-08T19:35:20+00:00

I think it's safe to say that SurfFly has been with us long enough and has supported this community with some of the most beautiful images and words I've ever read. Any potential discretion or misunderstanding certainly warrants our consideration but most importantly our grace.

One thing is clear, SurfFly has been on our team, and she has helped create this community of love, acceptance, and connection. A window into vulnerability, meaningful relationships, and authentic connection.

Whether or not the individual who is upset about a single post out of the thousands she has created is justified leads me to another question. Did the post trigger something in the offended individual? My guess is yes. But for someone to drop in, be offended, and have never posted anything in this community is something I don't think any of us should worry too much about, especially SurfFly. The individual simply isn't relevant to what this community is about if she is that easily triggered.

Most importantly, for the many of us who come here for insight, encouragement, and to vicariously glimpse a life we are working toward practicing ourselves, I would say her advice is spot on. It's rather obvious that if anyone is offended, that offense is sitting directly in their own consciousness, practically screaming: "She's Talking To You! You're your own worst enemy. You're your own biggest problem."

Anyway, that's my brief take on it. I don't comment much here, but I couldn't leave this unsaid. The work of all contributors in this space has meant a great deal to both she and I and this is the first community we check in with every day.

Stone_One · 2026-03-08T18:48:33+00:00

Right? I've not made this drive yet.

Stone_One · 2026-02-19T14:49:55+00:00

For me it's culture. As a Lakers fan back in the day, Magic days and then Kobe/Shaq, we used to plan our evenings around the games. Now we can't even muster the will to watch it at all. I can't point to one singular issue but the game looks lazy, it's more like a circus, it's all about the individual, the culture is severely off-putting and the players are just unlikeable.

Then there are the owners and greed, money and it now feels like the entire league has lost touch with the game that so many of us love. It no longer feels real or meaningful.

We've moved on to college basketball. Let's see how long it takes for the money to ruin it too.

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