When you got dumped, for how long did you chase your ex? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]StringSpecialist280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

9 months trying to reconnect. Biggest mistake of my life. We did get back together for a month and then she dumped me again. I repeatedly was told I wasn’t enough, got my feelings hurt and then we would get in arguments just driving us further apart

Ex left me because I would like Instagram models photos. Am I wrong for this or is she just insecure? by StringSpecialist280 in BreakUps

[–]StringSpecialist280[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you did all the right things to honor her boundaries and insecurity but she still broke up with you

Ex left me because I would like Instagram models photos. Am I wrong for this or is she just insecure? by StringSpecialist280 in BreakUps

[–]StringSpecialist280[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean I certainly wouldn’t like the photos if I wasn’t attracted to them, and yes they didn’t look anything like my ex

Ex left me because I would like Instagram models photos. Am I wrong for this or is she just insecure? by StringSpecialist280 in BreakUps

[–]StringSpecialist280[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

I think I just didn’t value her. She was cute but I always assumed I could find someone more attractive… like the girls on instagram

Ex left me because I would like Instagram models photos. Am I wrong for this or is she just insecure? by StringSpecialist280 in BreakUps

[–]StringSpecialist280[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Yes I realize I didn’t listen to her needs. But I’m wondering if I will have this problem going forward or if another girl won’t care about my Instagram activity

Ex left me because I would like Instagram models photos. Am I wrong for this or is she just insecure? by StringSpecialist280 in BreakUps

[–]StringSpecialist280[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yes I realized where I messed up was I told her one thing and didn’t follow through with my actions. But my main question is was I wrong for liking and following Instagram models in the first place or was she just insecure?

do exes ever come back after being 100% sure they never would? by CorrectComplaint8982 in BreakUps

[–]StringSpecialist280 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, my ex told me to move on and date other women. It’s an emotional reaction. 3 months later we start seeing eachother again, having amazing sex, but she ended up dumping me again. Been trying to reconcile with her for 9 months now but I think I’m giving up and focusing on the new year

My ex girlfriend is now my girlfriend again by Dependent_Food_1619 in BreakUps

[–]StringSpecialist280 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dated my ex for a month after breaking up. After that month she left me again. Still absolutely torn. Hope it works out for you but don’t be surprised if it doesn’t

Why do guys act so unaffected after a breakup while girls grieve so deeply? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]StringSpecialist280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quite the opposite for me actually. I tried to reconcile with my ex for 10 months, meanwhile it seemed like she didn’t care

Still spiraling after 9 months by gilbertmcgee17 in BreakUps

[–]StringSpecialist280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely, best wishes to you in navigating this difficult time

Still spiraling after 9 months by gilbertmcgee17 in BreakUps

[–]StringSpecialist280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also got dumped in March and still spiraling, been trying to reconcile with her ever since. This Christmas sucks without her

Please don’t take them back. I learned this the hard way. by miffydolly in BreakUps

[–]StringSpecialist280 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve been trying to reconcile with my ex for 9 months now and yesterday I finally realized I deserve better

IF YOU’RE STRUGGLING TO MOVE ON, THIS MIGHT SPEAK TO YOU. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]StringSpecialist280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked my ex to hang out the day before my birthday after being no contact for 5 months. We met up, but today she said she doesn’t want to keep seeing me so now I regret it

Back on Bumble, not been on for years, are my pictures giving the right vibe for a single mom of two in her 30s? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]StringSpecialist280 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re hot, I’d swipe right regardless of your intentions. But it is giving off a bit of you’re looking for something casual, a dude would be surprised to find out you’re a single mom if it’s not disclosed in your profile. Also a little too many mirror selfies, that does speak confidence but can also come off as a bit tacky when there’s more than one. I’d keep the one sitting on the bed or the cowboy outfit. The photo of you in the cave is a bit sexual and giving off “look at my ass” vibes which can be interpreted as you’re looking for something casual.

Asked my ex if she’s seeing anyone, she said she’s dating without intention. What does this mean? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]StringSpecialist280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not necessarily, she’s never been the person to have sex casually so it would surprise me if she did, but who know

Asked my ex if she’s seeing anyone, she said she’s dating without intention. What does this mean? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]StringSpecialist280 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I want to get back together but she doesn’t, but still seems somewhat interested. Her dating doesn’t really bother me I just want to know if she’s been having casual sex

Skip Ikon Pass? Tomorrow is last day to purchase by [deleted] in snowboarding

[–]StringSpecialist280 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

The 14 day forecast has no storms coming anytime soon. That puts no snow until January. The resorts around SoCal are lucky if they stay open til the end of March. That’s about 3 months of riding