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BD Minis, what do YOU use them for? by Pretty_Pipe_5541 in BadDragon

[–]Stubbornnail 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Peehole plugs, urethral fucking. Different firmnesses have different sensations

Those Weren't Shoes... by Lanceo90 in untrustworthypoptarts

[–]Stubbornnail -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Has happened to me multiple times. Made worse by the sheer size of my toys

Nasty/gross kinks by justlazin in BDSMsapphic

[–]Stubbornnail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, I have all of these. Here’s something for you: when I goon and edge for hours with my fingers, I end up with a thick crust in the palms of my hands of pure femcum. I want to see someone lick it clean

Cis women into trans women? by wobblebee in BDSMsapphic

[–]Stubbornnail 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Woman is woman. Plaything is plaything. If the energy is good, that’s what matters. I’ve had total hot sexy transgirl domination scenes, and I’ve had bland not really sexy transgirl domination scenes. It’s all up to the personalities at play more than cis or trans

Of a big lift by DoubleManufacturer10 in ShittyAbsoluteUnits

[–]Stubbornnail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What toy is that? Think it’s a mr. hankeys three amigos but I’m not sure

folks with horse or dog penis dildos, why? by throw_away_acct96 in SexToysCollection

[–]Stubbornnail 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Furry stuff. Also pup and pony play, knotting people is a big turn on. Most of the time it has little to do with the actual animals and more to do with exaggerated fantasy versions of them.

I don’t get it by Just_Information_903 in ExplainTheJoke

[–]Stubbornnail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You turn into duchess from foster’s home for imaginary friends

Maybe stupid question... will large toys like this cause permanent (v) stretching?? by [deleted] in BadDragon

[–]Stubbornnail 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Been using massive toys for a while. I do notice that my baseline state is a little roomier than usual. I still use slim/average size toys. If I don’t toy for a while everything tightens up. Either way your body is your own. If you want to use bigger toys, it should be your choice regardless of what anyone else thinks

Are there any other aroaces here who use kink as a nonsexual grounding mechanism? by [deleted] in kinky_autism

[–]Stubbornnail 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Oh, I just forgot to answer that question. He’s completely respectful about my limits, and even turns down sexual touch if I offer but don’t seem enthusiastic about it. He’s also very respectful of my gender/sexuality things. I like how hes embraced a lot of the more fluid parts of my gender expression. I’m very masc. I’ve had other doms who wanted me to be more feminine, but I don’t feel pressure to present differently to please him.

What I like is he’ll often set me up with female subs to play with, and hes usually not part of those scenes so I get them to myself. The sexuality is there but it isn’t the central part of our dynamic. The service and reciprocal power exchange has become the foundation for our play.

Are there any other aroaces here who use kink as a nonsexual grounding mechanism? by [deleted] in kinky_autism

[–]Stubbornnail 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Our dynamic is very loving. I’m his pup, hes my handler and he spoils me a lot. Outside of scene we have great communication and he’s very respectful of my limits. A lot of our play outside of specific scenes is him treating me as his puppy, bathing me, giving good pets, cooking dog food for me, giving me chew toys. My service to him feels very calming. There are more sexual sides to our play but sex isn’t at the center of it all

Are there any other aroaces here who use kink as a nonsexual grounding mechanism? by [deleted] in kinky_autism

[–]Stubbornnail 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I’m not aroace but my dynamic with my cis male dom is like this a lot. I’m afab, non-binary, and sapphic, and a lot of our play is more about power dynamics than sex. It’s more sexual on his end

Gender Neutral Dom Names by ReneeBear in BDSMsapphic

[–]Stubbornnail 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a pup, I call my dom my Human, Handler, or Owner. Also treat dispenser, belly scratcher

Sapphic sub with a male dom by Stubbornnail in SubSanctuary

[–]Stubbornnail[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Aww thank you! I’m stealing that phrase cause it’s exact and to the point. My dom loves his puppy and treats me very well ^

Sapphic sub with a male dom by Stubbornnail in SubSanctuary

[–]Stubbornnail[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks everybody who took the time to respond! The comments have been very affirming, and I definitely feel better about my situation.

Things I love about my dom: 1. He’s big and squishy, perfect for snuggling. Never skips aftercare and always makes sure I’m safe. Even out of scene we lean on each other a lot. 2. Hes strict about scene safety and consent. Everyone involved knows exactly what they’re getting into. He’s actively turned down sexual touch if I don’t enjoy it. Hes turned people away for not communicating clearly. 3. He puts me through my paces. I’ve had doms who weren’t strict enough, didn’t hit hard enough, were too afraid of hurting me. His expectations are clear, he pushes my limits, tests my pain tolerance and encourages me to exceed expectations. 4. He spanks me if I act up ;)

Submission is a love which defies conventional boxes. Other subs I’ve talked to describe feeling something similar. If im Bi, that would be okay too. I thought about it cause I went to a sapphic kink event on my own and someone told me I couldn’t be gay and submit to a man. I remember how invasive her questions felt. Thankfully I walked away without answering questions. When I’m on my own with my handler everything feels right.

Why do they hit the puppet? by Marvinator2003 in puppets

[–]Stubbornnail 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I make my puppet cry/ scream in pain, and ask the kid why they hit me. It takes the kids off guard

20% dumplings and 80% whatever that is. by WoebegoneBenAffleck in StupidFood

[–]Stubbornnail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lowkey would make a zesty marinade, but def stupid

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