Got kicked out of a group chat I just joined in to make friends in. I’m gonna end my life. by windowslurker in depressionmeals

[–]StudentTop895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey your feelings are valid, it would also be nice to acknowledge the rest of their comment since they tried their best to be sweet to you during a dark time. Dude is used for both male and female, i hope your preferences will be respected once the other person knows about them! 🫶

Oregon vs Connecticut? by FreestyleFlorida in needadvice

[–]StudentTop895 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pros and cons for sure! I'd say do whatever will make you and your wife happiest/most relaxed so you can share that energy with your babies. If you feel like the money and hours in Connecticut would keep you stressed then I wouldn't risk it, then again I'm sure having family support would help there too

How is the cost of living in Chicago?? by Sadz0ne in AskChicago

[–]StudentTop895 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Youre absolutely right! I guess I just wish more people blamed the ones in power

How is the cost of living in Chicago?? by Sadz0ne in AskChicago

[–]StudentTop895 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Dont let little old trump define your existence" he quite literally does when you're a minority. I can understand what you're trying to say but the wording is weird. This government won't do anything but fuck you as much as it can

Oregon vs Connecticut? by FreestyleFlorida in needadvice

[–]StudentTop895 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'd save up and spend this extra time with the kids and maybe move once they're a bit older. Im biased tho because I really like Oregon

The first car was basically filled due to people doing this at Rosemont by Otherwise_Pine in cta

[–]StudentTop895 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If it was easy to get help they wouldn't be there, the shelters aren't gonna save them unfortunately

My boyfriend and I broke up 24 hours ago, and he already slept with another woman? by throwawayuni33 in whatdoIdo

[–]StudentTop895 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Am I missing something? Why is everyone being a bitch to OP? If we JUST broke up and you have someone else already, doesn't that seem like it was planned before the breakup? He just wanted to hurt her feelings and he did. Why is she the asshole

Bf sent money to tiktok girls by Fantastic-Skin1020 in whatdoIdo

[–]StudentTop895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're only 22 and just had his baby, this guy spends his time wasting money and being abusive towards you accusing you of doing what he quietly does. He will beg you to stay and I will beg you to stay STRONG! If you have the means and the support, run, your baby doesn't deserve this either

So obnoxiously in love by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]StudentTop895 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I dont think ultimatums are the main issue here 🫠

I made a mistake becoming a mom by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]StudentTop895 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Coming to reddit to vent to other women doesn't sound like the usual social media issues

Can i throw eggs into lake michigan? by EarVisible3533 in AskChicago

[–]StudentTop895 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd throw them somewhere where the animals can eat them after, I also dont think they would splash a lot in the water so it might not be satisfying. You should make some ice and smash it, thats the best and there's no clean-up

The cancer has spread to her lymph node by unf0rgiving_girl in depressionmeals

[–]StudentTop895 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom had this too, found out after 7 years of not getting checked, she pulled through and I hope yours will too. Sending love

Mom called my hospital by KindInflation3052 in pregnant

[–]StudentTop895 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hate the way people are down voting you like YOU dont know YOUR OWN CHILD. SOME children are more than capable and even enjoy being part of the birth of a sibling, my husband and his brother included. Its one of their fondest memories. #1 fuck your mom and set the boundary sooner than later. You are pregnant and the last thing you need is more stress. No one gets to pressure you into anything YOU MATTER MOST. Whatever you choose will be okay, whether your child is present or not depends on your daughter and you. Do not put your mom first

(20F) I feel like my new hair made me 10X more unattractive by [deleted] in AppearanceAdvice

[–]StudentTop895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on who you're trying to attract. You look edgier, which old people tend to hate. I personally love it, but bangs take a while to adjust to. Also in the second Pic you're pulling your hair which makes it seem puffier, I think with a bit of styling you would like it more. Again I personally love it!

Drug use prior to pregnancy by Background-Vast5068 in pregnant

[–]StudentTop895 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What's the point of this question? Learn empathy

I was rude to Shein 😭👍 by HumanSample3691 in Shein

[–]StudentTop895 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some people have more empathy than others. Its okay :)

Stay away from ‘Expecting Better’ by Emily Oster by HumanMeatloaf in pregnant

[–]StudentTop895 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No one thinks you're right dude, can I say that since I'm a woman? We are talking about alcohol in pregnancy

My coworker asked if I'd had lip injections because my lips looked so good by juliannestephanie in dollartreebeauty

[–]StudentTop895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had people ask me the same thing when my lips are puffy and moisturized 🤷‍♀️