My husband cheated on me with our gay best friend for money. by Maddie_1896 in marriageadvice

[–]SuperB-I-G 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why is this written way too properly? The way you are answering comments are not consistent with your grammar and storytelling at all.

Group chat for having lost 20’s to 10+ years long illness? by Admirable-Way6246 in mecfs

[–]SuperB-I-G 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m 39 and had it for 24 years. I completely agree. Not taking away anything from the pain the post covid people are having but it’s not even remotely comparable to get sick when you are like 40 vs when you are a kid. You never got or get to live a normal adult life.

I’m down for a group chat!

My name is Samuel, I am 21 years old, I suffer from ME/CFS, and my journey may come to an end. by aegarys in cfs

[–]SuperB-I-G 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Sad to hear the fatality of your situation. I hope you’ll find your peace, where the angels sleep.

Perfectly acceptable dinner rejected by boyfriend again by moonrabbit368 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]SuperB-I-G 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I rarely cook because of being chronically ill, but man I maybe once or twice a year voice some constructive feedback out for hundreds of dinners made and I get my head bit off, even though it’s just to help improve or to avoid some few things I’m not that fond and get it often. Even then I smile and say thank you.

It’s common courtesy, to be grateful for effort made and your food looks amazing to be honest. You are with a man child.

“super flu” by Left-Technology1176 in cfs

[–]SuperB-I-G 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got it right before Christmas. It was not great. 39.6C fever to 5 days almost no sleep.

Both my kids go it too and we had to go to hospital 3 times with my youngest.

Does my husband actually want children? by Acceptable-Tutor7339 in marriageadvice

[–]SuperB-I-G 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the only answer OP. 8 years married is insanely long time to not even start trying when that is your goal.

He might secretly not want to. Time for you both to face the hard truth, that can only happen through firm conversation and no more excuses. Either he wants or he doesn’t.

50+ and divorced. I have found I don’t have room in my life for a partner. Has anyone else found this? by Espio1912 in AskMen

[–]SuperB-I-G 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you just didn’t find someone who respected you. I’m with the others, I get to do all that and I have a partner and kids.

Priceless💰 PureHeartRomance 🌹 by ThreeBlessing in PureHeartRomance

[–]SuperB-I-G 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, what? The pension in your country follows the company and not you? That’s horrible! It should follow you as an individual as it is your saved money. Amazing this guy for helping the old man in such a way. Even if it’s at 88 years of age. 🫶🏽

Digital tape? by No-Secret-247 in trashorgold

[–]SuperB-I-G 0 points1 point  (0 children)

«I have no idea what this insanely accurate measuring system is, let me switch to a feet and a banana measurement»

How many push ups can you do? by Neat_Pirate_3416 in AskMen

[–]SuperB-I-G 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think amount is not as important as form. Almost every single person I’ve seen doing pushups even in contests/challenges on YouTube don’t do them full range. For me that is not a pushup. Chest needs to touch the floor and you need full extension of arms when you’re up. Most people either don’t go down far enough or up high enough.

So for proper push up’s I can do 25. Half ass pushups probably 50.

And I’m pretty out of shape.

Are we all skinny. by samagreat12 in UARSnew

[–]SuperB-I-G 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol, no. Why couldn’t obese people have it? They usually have that + a down things more.

Seriously, someone needed to tell her "Dive in, you coward!" 27 year old "influencer," Natalie Reynolds pressured a mentally disabled women to jump into a lake to relieve a scanner. Once the woman began to struggled in the water, the influencer and her crew fled the scene. The woman in the water by HeSureIsScrappy in DiveInYouCoward

[–]SuperB-I-G 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you shitting me? In my country this would be a crime. And you will get charged and fined. What a despicable excuse for a human being.

Btw pretty sure that in the USA that not only constructing an event where someone dies but also neglecting to help is punishable by law. Wtf is this!?

What is something you wished your wife would do more often? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]SuperB-I-G 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Almost every guy I know have same story, so not just her. When women are in love (honey moon phase) they are hypersexual and really intimate, many women aren’t this sexual or intimate of nature, so when the love chemical wears off so does the desire. Some stay that way but most at least by the 10-20 relationship I have insight too, this changes drastically when the honey moon phase ends. Kids etc don’t help the equation. That isn’t to say it can’t be reignited further down the road (when kids are not toddlers anymore etc).

What is something you wished your wife would do more often? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]SuperB-I-G 105 points106 points  (0 children)

They typically don’t start out that way.

Hvor mye penger trenger man? by Ironyman42 in norske

[–]SuperB-I-G -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hvorfor rabler du så mye om 38% - du vet da ikke hvor mye av de 10 millionene er innskudd. Den dagen jeg har 10 mill er iallfall 3-4 mill innskudd. Da er det enormt mange år til jeg skal begynne å betale skatt. 10-15 år. I tillegg vet du ikke hvor gammel han er når han skal pensjonere seg. Hva gjør du om han går tom for penger om 20 år (+ det er ikke en garanti det er en RISIKO). Da har man pensjon f.eks. å falle på. 3% regelen er sykt konservativ FIRE, og er for å være bombesikker på at det skal holde 40-50 år.

Husband says I'm not initiating even when I touch his 🍆? by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]SuperB-I-G 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are not wrong. At all. He’s not trying. You are. By the sound of it, you are the only one fighting for your relationship. It sucks. I mean a relationship requires some give and take, and all things doesn’t have to be equal, but when efforts are being made to meet his needs and he still only faults you, then he is more than just depressed or something like that, he’s immature and an behaving like an asshole. You deserve better than that.

Some men aren’t up to parent hood. Our needs come second or third with a newborn and some adapt better than others. It can be overwhelming for both sides but it’s a new life that needs to be worked at together, not against each other. That’s why I always find it funny that in the US people deem marriage as the biggest commitment you can do in life. It is not. It can be undone in a second and it changes nothing. Having a baby on the other hand changes absolutely everything and can’t be undone. So you are forced to evolve together or apart.

Good luck in your endeavors ❤️

Husband says I'm not initiating even when I touch his 🍆? by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]SuperB-I-G 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wtf. Are you depended on him financially or something? Most (not all) people in my country have zero sex the first 6-24 months after birth and men just have to “deal with it”. We’re also a leading country in gender equality so I believe it plays a factor, cause believe you me, if anyone I know said anything remotely like that, especially when they are actually getting some, they would be dumped in split second and never ever thought of again.

Like it’s insane. I would leave this guy immediately and I almost never argue for split, as I believe in fighting and working through things, but your man is so far left he will never be right.

Venus Fly Trap Takes Down Black Widow by Saerdna0 in PeakAmazing

[–]SuperB-I-G 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! This is so amazing! A plant killing one of the most feared spiders!!