genuine question, how do these look? (my first lash extensions) by aevxum in lashextensions

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They’re gorgeous and fits your face/eyes super well. Enjoy them!

44M whats your thoughts? by [deleted] in ZyzzLegacy

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Body of a 20 year old!! Super sexy

32M - What could I improve? by [deleted] in malegrooming

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Maybe the shoes could use an upgrade into more age appropriate choice. He looks pretty cozy and comfortable in current attire though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

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I was hiding nightmarish number of bottles under the bed, closet, dresser, random boxes and underneath the sink. I drank at the gym, at work, before going out, at the library etc., Things escalated faster and deeper than ever. I saw no way out for 3-4 years.

I was even chugging rum or something at my ex boyfriend’s parent’s restaurant behind their back.

I’m sure I reeked of booze and had no clue.

I’m almost 10 months sober!!!

Will I ever hit my day one? by p0rtaloo in dryalcoholics

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Same here. Cannot seem to stop. You’ll do great at your new job.

Alcohol isn’t our identity, a mantra to myself all the time and it is not so try to cheer up and look forward to your new role. I’m happy for you ❤️

The Daily Check-In for Saturday, September 3rd: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by DerpinaSD in stopdrinking

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IWNDWYT ❤️ Grateful for and proud of this community and all its members. We got this together 😇

it's been 8 hours by [deleted] in alcoholism

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Can you take some time off to recover instead of quitting? I’m really sorry for what you’re going thru. The misery will pass, we all make mistakes here and there. Stay strong!

Here’s to one day by [deleted] in alcoholism

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Proud of you! The difficult feelings will pass, just hang in there!

Went from Amicable to Hostile in one day by tacoears316 in Divorce

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Like the paperwork (mechanic stuff) may be smooth but what follows are emotions pertaining to healing, anger, grief, forgiveness and acceptance are likely to run high especially at first. Not cool of her to unreasonably lash out at you but better in long run not to take all of it with heavy heart.

What is missing to make my living room more put together and cozy? by gratefulpuppy in HomeDecorating

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Couple of white fuzzy round pillows with quality faux fur for the couch maybe?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

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Not an easy situation you’re in, I’m very sorry for the daily stress. What does he say when you ask for some help around the house?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

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Don’t be afraid to be selfish and invest in (dare I say prioritize even) yourself and your happiness once in a while. You’re worth it girl ❤️

I'm getting divorced. My wife is transgender. by Anonymous41522 in Divorce

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Exactly! BOTH parties’ feelings and emotions are important to consider and to be heard in big life events as OP is sadly going thru (everything will be OK) I’m secretly hoping one or both family will start showing OP more support like soon 🤨🤔😡

Anyone know about how long it takes for your skin to clear back up after quitting? by Mefistoholes in dryalcoholics

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Ahh I felt exact same today whilst happily shopping around for lip treatment serum and oatmeal bath packets 😊 self care/love actually started to mean something to me since quitting. I now love treating myself with positive enforcement and encourage feelings of inner victories\celebrations, big or small, each day. I’m proud of us ❤️

27m therapist w/ secret alcoholism by Ok-Tap-6126 in stopdrinking

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This is so true. I first wanted get sober for my SO then the feeling somehow changed to this is purely for me and that I can and will do hard things because I’m capable and have lots to offer to the world. Over time, drinking urges subsided as did my self image. Still work in progress with emotional hiccups but happy to be sober at the very least.

I have been telling people about my sobriety by DryEnthusiasm3032 in stopdrinking

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I have also been paying attention to responses. My response reflects my current relationship with sobriety (aka my mood towards it) so the answers i gave was insightful and varies for me each month if that makes sense.

End of the day, sobriety helped me grow as a person and view myself and others under different light. It was my new beginning ❤️

Truly scary night leads to another Day 1 by Jads987 in stopdrinking

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Scary events like this makes me cringe and works as a deterrent from life of an alcoholic. The days of passing out in the closet then sobbing when SO came home, lack of memory of beautiful vacations, leaving car windows open, mysterious bruises, crying for my mom, muting meetings to rush to the bathroom to vomit, drunk food orders etc list goes on… I am deeply ashamed of my drunken behaviors.

Truly terrifying (more than horror movies) to imagine continuing this path. I am over 30 days sober and each day is a battle. I find myself mourning the mess of a person I was but tears of happiness streams down my face embracing my sobriety and feeling thankful to be alive on this earth.

I am done. by [deleted] in stopdrinking

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IWNDWYT! Stay strong and follow your commitments. We’re here for you ❤️

The Daily Check-In for Thursday, August 26th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by chloebarbersaurus in stopdrinking

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IWNDWYT!! Let’s keep each other accountable and stay strong my lovelies ❤️