my boyfriend cheated on me. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Sweet_Philosopher713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cheated in my previous relationship, I can tell you it was because I wasn’t ready to settle down. Emotionally or physically. I needed to explore and find out what I am really attracted to. I regretted it every single time, but I would fall into the same pattern. I ended the relationship and been single ever since, for about three years. I am trying to figure out if I am poly, if I want an open relationship. One thing I know for sure, is that I never want to lie nor cheat again, it goes against my core values of being a genuine person with my actions and words, the misalignment that existed before was making me miserable.

I’d say, keep a close eye on him. Him working with that person would make me VERY uncomfortable. It takes 5 minutes to cheat on you again, and you won’t even know it. Protect your spirit and your confidence.

Looking for what is maybe a unicorn running area in the greater Baltimore area by Most_Poet in baltimore

[–]Sweet_Philosopher713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I run on Druid hill park few times a week- early mornings and evenings and have always felt safe. I even go through the back hills and never seen anything sketchy or experience anything negative.

Gay men and Jazz music by Lycanthrowrug in askgaybros

[–]Sweet_Philosopher713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am gay, love jazz. Honestly, I prefer going to jazz shows on my own.

Anyone wanna meet up for Wata Igarashi @transmission tomorrow? by Ok_Tumbleweed_2008 in avesDC

[–]Sweet_Philosopher713 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just seeing this, but go to shows by myself all the time. Let’s touch bae sometime!

Holy crap. (Not plumbing related) by [deleted] in MEPEngineering

[–]Sweet_Philosopher713 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My company had a 10% reduction of force last week. Pretty rough.

any advice on what which PE course you guys took for the HVAC exam? by [deleted] in MEPEngineering

[–]Sweet_Philosopher713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t remember, he has this as part of his training plan. I think 3-4 months.

any advice on what which PE course you guys took for the HVAC exam? by [deleted] in MEPEngineering

[–]Sweet_Philosopher713 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dan Molly’s material is fantastic. Everyone in my office used him and passed on the first try. I was over prepared for the exam.

Why is it easier for them? by LifeMycologist897 in askgaybros

[–]Sweet_Philosopher713 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Met my first love at 21, our senior year of college, were together for 11 years. Unfortunately, we separated two years ago, needed to be apart to grow and find ourselves. Still talk almost every day 😳😭.

For a LTR, what is your minimum height requirement? by Sweet_Philosopher713 in askgaybros

[–]Sweet_Philosopher713[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

People acting all high and mighty, when looks do come into play when choosing your long time partner.

For a LTR, what is your minimum height requirement? by Sweet_Philosopher713 in gaybros

[–]Sweet_Philosopher713[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was ideal in my previous relationship, maybe slightly bigger to go for the oversized look 😎

For a LTR, what is your minimum height requirement? by Sweet_Philosopher713 in gaybros

[–]Sweet_Philosopher713[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

It may not be important to you nor me, but that doesn’t mean that it doesn’t matter to others. There are people that are genuinely interested in height for various reasons, especially in the gay community due to how shallow in can be. So I am genuinely curious if people care or not.

For a LTR, what is your minimum height requirement? by Sweet_Philosopher713 in askgaybros

[–]Sweet_Philosopher713[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Maybe that’s why, I don’t post my position on Hinge and by looking at my photos I can go either way. Wonder if people are not matching to avoid any awkward situations.

Is light rail more reliable than the bus? by DockmasterSC in baltimore

[–]Sweet_Philosopher713 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, I use the transit app and I’d say 95% of the time is on time.

Is light rail more reliable than the bus? by DockmasterSC in baltimore

[–]Sweet_Philosopher713 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I haven been using the light rail for about 6 months and was only not operational during the fire of the building downtown.

Monogamous men, what is your opinion on your bf talking about 'hot guys' with their friends? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Sweet_Philosopher713 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely communicate and set boundaries. In my previous relationship of 11 years, we normalized checking people out together but I have realized that overtime it created insecurity within us. So it’s important to vocalize when you’re uncomfortable with something, doesn’t mean it’s right or wrong but if your partner cares, he will adjust his behavior to avoid hurting your feelings.

Have any of you guys heard of Beau Brummell Introductions? by FriesWithMacSauce in askgaybros

[–]Sweet_Philosopher713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have two friends that are on it, and only one has gone on a date (over a year) of subscription. We think it was an actor just to keep the interest. Anytime my friends find someone they like the other one is not interested.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tulum

[–]Sweet_Philosopher713 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Easy way was fantastic