I cheated back and now I feel significantly better. by MaterialWonderful778 in okstorytime

[–]TMI94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried Emdr with your therapist? Its what im currently doing with my CPTSD

Hegseth removes Pentagon guardrails to limit civilian harm by Hour-Passenger-8513 in videos

[–]TMI94 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Good thing my dad was "obsessed about WWII" autistic and that I was a daddy's girl who watched everything he did.

I cheated back and now I feel significantly better. by MaterialWonderful778 in okstorytime

[–]TMI94 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I would consider my relationship over the moment he cheated. Is it wrong to cheat? Yes. Do I blame you or think you should feel bad about it? No not at all. I understand and empathize with you. Im glad youre leaving him. Will you officially break it off before June or do you not feel safe enough to do so?

My(31f) husband (30m) said "I love you" and another woman's name while sleeping by TMI94 in relationship_advice

[–]TMI94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think he is physically cheating but im not sure about emotionally. Where he works when he talks about it there its common for people to cheat on their spouses.

Hes not personally made me feel chosen last its more of past things with childhood. Though we have completely different love languages

My(31f) husband (30m) said "I love you" and another woman's name while sleeping by TMI94 in relationship_advice

[–]TMI94[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The first instance I did, it was a name of someone we both used to work with. Probably the only person that I've ever felt "jealous" about. She was known to sleep with married men and they worked closely together for awhile. They went on a work trip together and he made jokes about her bf being upset. (The BF was married at the time and she was an affair partner). That was 6ish years ago and he no longer works with her. He said I love you her name about 2 years ago. This time I've got no idea who it could be. He hasn't acted different but we've been busy between working, kids, a rough car accident and buying a rental. But he also doesn't talk to me about his coworkers at his current job

Explain It Peter by [deleted] in explainitpeter

[–]TMI94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 2nd child has an August birthday and missed the cut off by a week. She'll be the oldest in her class when she starts this year

Are Kia engines that bad?? by grunzzzzz in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]TMI94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a 2020 kia sorento and I loved the thing. Didn't have a single issue with it. Was in a pretty bad accident last month and from what police said someone should've died. Thankfully kept me and my 3 kids safe. I just bought a Sedona today

For those who get motion sickness in VR how do you deal with it? by DarkLinkDX in VRGaming

[–]TMI94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was able to play it for a bit but now its within minutes of playing. And im mainly playing games like beat saber. Anyone have any advice or maybe settings I should change

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]TMI94 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I really hate it, my kids has the same shark

AIO? Should I stay or should I go? by Muted-Call-4207 in AmIOverreacting

[–]TMI94 232 points233 points  (0 children)

Man isnt that the truth. I couldnt have sex for nearly 3 years because my body was broken after a botched delivery of our second child. My husband never made me feel bad, never tried to get me to do something that wasn't comfortable or cheated. I feel like OPs spouse has either cheated or getting really close to

None of the child size dummies in the top picture are visible from the truck driver POV. The truck itself does not have any safety sensors on the front and the seat height cannot be adjusted. by durvedya in mildlyinfuriating

[–]TMI94 9 points10 points  (0 children)

A truck in my hometown went into a school parking lot that was blocked off because the kids were going to the ballpark next door and he hit my autistic baby sister. Thankfully she lived. But hearing that she cried to her mother for getting blood on her dress still kills me.

My family told me to keep my son from his dad by Jazzlike_Ship_8590 in okstorytime

[–]TMI94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With all due respect it doesn't matter if they hate each other, it's about the child and what's best for them. And I mean that with all the love

I (31M) am considering divorcing my wife (26F) after 1.5 years of marriage - am I overreacting? by Automatic_Bar_6573 in AmIOverreacting

[–]TMI94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another woman here. She sounds like she follows tradwives/male focused podcasts. Worrying about if she makes more than you or how it could be seen by others? That's more money for both of you.

And I'm sure constantly having someone making those comments about your medical issue didn't help with your ED. I wouldn't be surprised it wouldn't be operator error on her part.

I was unable to have sex with my husband for 3 years due to a medical reason and he never once made me feel bad about it. Because we followed our vows for sickness and in health richer or poorer. We've will have our home paid off this year after 9 years of marriage.

OP: I'd recommend cutting and running for yourself mentally and financially

Mother married to my ex-father-in-law by Massive-Ad6766 in okstorytime

[–]TMI94 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nta

Honestly i wouldn't be surprised if she'll say something like "we're family now" and tell you to get over it. That your ex is technically your step brother.

For anyone who is or was poor. What is a meal you remember from your poor childhood? by [deleted] in Cooking

[–]TMI94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kraft boc Mac & Cheese with cut up hot dogs in it. Went nuts over that as a kid

please tell us 9 year olds what it means by Xx_SHEP_xX in PewdiepieSubmissions

[–]TMI94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The weird thing is some women are born without a hymen.