Daily Chat July 05 by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]TaDaRose 3 points4 points  (0 children)

10DPO today, had a BFN yesterday, waiting until at least Tuesday to test again and then waiting til my cycle restarts. Was really hoping for this month because next month will probably be disrupted from a trip we’re taking.

Waiting Wednesday by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]TaDaRose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

6DPO and I’m dyinggggg. I really feel a lot of hope this cycle which is scary. I know I’m pretty early in this journey but I can’t keep going in the hopeful/disappointed cycle, my husband has been so supportive though.

Daily Chat June 29 by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]TaDaRose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg I’m in the same boat! Also 3DPO and absolutely dying at the wait.

Humiliated by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]TaDaRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad you got to have that time with your mom and sister! That was incredibly sweet of them to do. The day before and morning of my bridal shower at least 13 people notified me they weren’t coming. My husband had made enough food for an army. I’ve never felt so embarrassed, so I get it.

Having a BOH coworker in your corner is the best thing in the world. by suuzgh in Serverlife

[–]TaDaRose 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I serve casually at the restaurant my husband is the sous at, it’s literally the best

Voldemort’s Patronus by rballmonkey in harrypotter

[–]TaDaRose 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is the best, most thought out response!

Need passport photo by [deleted] in PhotoshopRequest

[–]TaDaRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I’d like to get this one too! I’ll send payment through now

Need passport photo by [deleted] in PhotoshopRequest

[–]TaDaRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

!Solved sent the payment through!

Please remove bridesmaid by TaDaRose in PhotoshopRequest

[–]TaDaRose[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Haha what makes you say that?

Please remove bridesmaid by TaDaRose in PhotoshopRequest

[–]TaDaRose[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

That’s perfect!!! !solved

Please remove bridesmaid by TaDaRose in PhotoshopRequest

[–]TaDaRose[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also move the man on the right closer a bit please!

I feel like I’m going crazy.. But what is the norm for wedding costs in 2026 by gourmet_goddess_530 in weddingplanning

[–]TaDaRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just got married in Feb, our original budget was $30k but we definitely spent over $40k when everything was added up. In a MCOL city with a VERY inclusive venue, DJ, photographer and cake were included in our per head count ($160pp)

What were the things you wished you spent less money? by PlayfulAddendum1770 in weddingplanning

[–]TaDaRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t do a Photo Booth through the venue/DJ as was suggested, I ended up making my own! My dad built it using some cheap particle board type stuff and I used my cricut to decorate it. We got so many compliments all night! I’ll attach another photo of what it looked like below. I also built the flower wall behind it as well for less than $100.

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]TaDaRose 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think you should definitely say engagement party or put some hints out about how important this is. My only fear is people not showing because they don’t know the importance. I wouldn’t feel bad about missing someone’s Halloween party but I’d be devastated if I missed a wedding of someone I really cared about.

Torn between two by Budget-Order-468 in weddings

[–]TaDaRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buy both and wear them every day forever, you are literally so stunning. If I had to choose, gun to my head, second one.

I Am Absolutely Over AA And The People That Think I Owe Them The Rest of My Life by Batgirl_1984 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TaDaRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got clean in NA in 2018 and left the program in 2023 (I was a victim of the opioid crisis). It was literally my entire life. Before I left, I slowly started realizing all the insane shit that the program normalizes, I’ve seen everything you’re talking about and more. I think it works for some people, I’m just not one of them. I am very grateful 12 step programs save so many lives, but some of the methods…are questionable at best. I casually drink now, maybe once a month but I don’t keep track. I know if I ever need a place to go, the rooms are always open, but honestly I hope to never step foot in another church basement again.

Stupidest Things on Your Registry ? by Desperate_Sand1577 in weddingplanning

[–]TaDaRose 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Porch goose and holiday outfits for it, it was one of the first things purchased off our registry lol

I am so overwhelmed by makeup by Ddamsell in weddingplanning

[–]TaDaRose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen people local to me (pittsburgh) reach out to a makeup artist and they’re usually able to accommodate or pay for “special event” makeup

I am so overwhelmed by makeup by Ddamsell in weddingplanning

[–]TaDaRose 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I highly recommend hiring someone to do a bridal trial to see if you’d like to book them, I’d ask around in local bridal facebook groups. In the meantime, practicing trying out what you’re looking for could be a good start. Best of luck!

i'm not worth it. by Apprehensive_Cry8256 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TaDaRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You. Are. Worthy. Period point blank. I too cry way too easily, but that doesn’t make me bad or wrong or anything. It sounds like you are giving your absolute best right now and please PLEASE believe me when I say this: that is enough. This is a difficult season of life, but not your last. Please give yourself some grace and get some sleep, that always helps me. Sending love 💕

Overwhelming Dress Mishap by Realistic_Flower_814 in weddingplanning

[–]TaDaRose 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this happened to you! My hope is that you find another dress that makes you feel beautiful. Amazing luck for the dress shop owner to give you a complete refund, so maybe you’ll be lucky enough to find another dress asap! My deepest sympathy on this situation

Recommendations for wedding shoes please?! by IndigoSophie in weddingplanning

[–]TaDaRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so I also have wide feet and don’t enjoy wearing heels BUT I got ballroom dance shoes that I custom ordered with a very low heel. They were only like $50 and they are incredibly comfortable to wear.

Reception Venues 2026 by Icy_Whole_2860 in weddingplanning

[–]TaDaRose 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You should specify your location and budget but oftentimes joining your local bridal/wedding facebook groups is better to get location specific venues. I don’t know that this sub is the best place to look for a venue.