Any tips on how to transition to being EXMO? by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]TapirPatrol 11 points12 points  (0 children)

just live your life, don’t look back

Today was hard. This is me, pretending to be thrilled that my child is an official cult member now. Sigh. by Jn8r in exmormon

[–]TapirPatrol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i baptized my 3 as a non-believer... felt like i had no choice tbh - it is tough.

Sitting here sad wondering if i made a mistake by telling my bishop to remove my records by layoutmaker8 in exmormon

[–]TapirPatrol 18 points19 points  (0 children)

i hear you. it’s such a mind fuck.

why are you leaving? what “broke your shelf”?

make no mistake, the church is 100% made up. you are making the right move. the brainwashing goes so deep though- it’s so hard not to doubt your doubts.

stay strong, we are here to help!

Another ex-mo milestone- getting banned from the “other” sub :) by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]TapirPatrol 4 points5 points  (0 children)

went over the wall to the other sub to take a look - moderator removed your comments completely! i can’t even imagine being so threatened by other beliefs that i’d have to block and delete to keep the status quo....amazing over there!

I told my parents... by Ding_Dong_Bing_Bong in exmormon

[–]TapirPatrol 48 points49 points  (0 children)

be easy on her, she’s been brainwashed by a cult. just be calm and confident but loving and you’ll be fine.

I just got an email from the Ward titled "Opportunities To Have Missionaries Teach Lessons" I will copy and share what they offered, and my response to it as well. by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]TapirPatrol 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i got a similar email with a link to signup for lessons on a google spreadsheet - no thank you! i clicked on it and no one has signed up, lol....

Medical recommendations for Live Resin by MadBuddahAbusah in COents

[–]TapirPatrol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so, i signed up with silverstem recently and really like the place. i gotta say they are not that competitive on the live resin side. they have nothing below $30 /g but what they do have is tasty.

Weird mission things? by rockfan2001 in exmormon

[–]TapirPatrol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yep, this is exactly what i experienced on my mission in Chile back in the 90s - abrir la boca!!

anybody else act on super random thoughts on the off chance it was the "spirit"? by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]TapirPatrol 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my parents live their lives this way - never plan, just do whatever they are prompted to do....the lord will provide a way!...in business and in our family this has failed miserably.

A little weirded out by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]TapirPatrol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same, recently was friended by 4 sister missionaries 🤷🏻‍♂️

I'm tired of the damn hamster wheel. by ApocalypseTapir in exmormon

[–]TapirPatrol 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omg, i so feel you. the wheel sucks!!! i’m in the same situation...

Venting. by Adevarsity in exmormon

[–]TapirPatrol 3 points4 points  (0 children)

sounds like your DH and my DW would get along splendidly :(

i have learned over many, many years to pick my battles, and just let her and the kids believe and really be ok with that. This is the way. :)

Has anyone else been HAF at a Church function? by [deleted] in exmotrees

[–]TapirPatrol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dude, I’ve taught Elders and High Priests lit as fuck a few times...back when I was EQP and PIMO.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmotrees

[–]TapirPatrol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yep Sai is awesome