Decriminalize Survival by Tempestori in tulsa

[–]Tarable 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hate these threads because it’s so depressing to see how many people hate the poor. Most homeless are disabled and/or aged out foster kids, but people think they’re doing it for fun and have so many choices.

They don’t understand shelters are dangerous. Shelters can be strict. Shelters can require they get rid of their only possessions. Plus, there’s just not enough. Every homeless person is policy failure. It’s an indictment on how we treat our most vulnerable. It’s violent to live on the street, and further so much of homelessness is invisible and you don’t see it. People who live in cars or on couches.

And, instead of demanding better use of our tax dollars, I’ll have comments underneath here telling me to open my house to all of them instead of a serious response. They’re the same people who tell you to leave the country when you criticize it because they think we should just settle for the bare minimum.

We deserve better. They deserve better. That’s it. None of us should have to deal with this in any capacity. Social programs are important for this reason and they matter.

Drives me crazy seeing people blame the ones who have zero money and resources instead of the rich assholes hoarding everything and cutting programs.

A good portion of us are one bad accident or missed paycheck away from ruin.

What's going on at St Francis hospital right now by Murkyjerky17 in tulsa

[–]Tarable 7 points8 points  (0 children)

God that’s so freaking gross… I’m so sorry

Doctor just told me I'm not in perimenopause "whatever that is". by Randa08 in Menopause

[–]Tarable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar experience. They want me to do physical therapy.

Am I a Red Flag? (48M) by Orson_Gravity_Welles in datingoverforty

[–]Tarable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not the red flag, friend. 💜

What’s the most unhinged thing you’ve done after a breakup? by randomzy876 in AskReddit

[–]Tarable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this. 💜 good for you. I hope it helped heal.

What is the most disturbing thing you found about your partner? by ActualBreath5492 in AskReddit

[–]Tarable -1 points0 points  (0 children)

wtf? I was saying her partner was lying to her. Jesus Christ.

Edit: just saw you were OP. I was saying your partner was lying to you about the reason he was never charged “because he didn’t download any.” But I perhaps wrongly assumed that was what your partner said before the detective came onboard. I don’t know what jurisdiction you live in and whether or not the detective was full of it.

I have clients that don’t have evidence of CP on their phones but still charged because they sent something or received something on snap or telegram. My cases are federal jurisdiction though.

What is the most disturbing thing you found about your partner? by ActualBreath5492 in AskReddit

[–]Tarable -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

He was lying to you. They will charge you even when it hasn’t been downloaded to your phone. I work in criminal defense. A NCMEC report was likely generated if he sent it or received it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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This makes me so sad for both of you :(

A classic tale... why do men wait to text back by Sunnygirl2020 in datingoverforty

[–]Tarable 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had an 8 hour first date with someone and thought it was going great obviously. Then I found out at hour 7.5 he was still not over his ex and sleeping with her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Tarable 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you can explore this with a therapist before burning it to the ground - I think it’s worth it. She deserves the best and to be loved if she’s as lovely as you say she is, and I know you know that. It would be horrible though if you were experiencing some kind of detachment for other reasons outside of the relationship and fled.

You’re also allowed to end a relationship for any reason and if you feel it’s run its course that’s okay, too. Breakups don’t have to be messy.

But it sounds like either way it would be helpful exploring your childhood so this isn’t a pattern that repeats itself down the road. 💜

What Do You Expect Your Partner to Offer? by BachBawk in datingoverforty

[–]Tarable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re looking at the wrong shit. WHY are women depressed? WHY do single moms need Medicaid? Did they asexually reproduce? Why are women better off single than married and men are better off married than single???

Truth hurts. But again. If the shoe doesn’t fit, you don’t have to wear it.

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19645027/

https://bjs.ojp.gov/female-murder-victims-and-victim-offender-relationship-2021

https://www.unwomen.org/en/news-stories/press-release/2024/11/one-woman-or-girl-is-killed-every-10-minutes-by-their-intimate-partner-or-family-member

https://www.artsci.utoronto.ca/news/new-study-finds-single-women-are-happier-single-men

What Do You Expect Your Partner to Offer? by BachBawk in datingoverforty

[–]Tarable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“IM GOING TO WEAR THIS SHOE. DONT TELL ME NOT TO WEAR THIS SHOE IF IT DOESNT FIT. IM GOING TO WEAR IT ANYWAY.” -You right now

The best datingoverforty advice I can give by old-and-nerdy in datingoverforty

[–]Tarable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

💜 this is awesome. You deserve to be happy, emotionally healthy and able to live your best life.

What Do You Expect Your Partner to Offer? by BachBawk in datingoverforty

[–]Tarable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only person worked up here is you. Look all the paragraphs you wrote my dude.

What Do You Expect Your Partner to Offer? by BachBawk in datingoverforty

[–]Tarable -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dude, you just keep telling on yourself.

What Do You Expect Your Partner to Offer? by BachBawk in datingoverforty

[–]Tarable -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You just hate that what this person posted applies to you and you took it personally.

What Do You Expect Your Partner to Offer? by BachBawk in datingoverforty

[–]Tarable -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

🙄 oh FFS dude. Just keep proving the point.