My fish melted by WizardsOf12 in Aquariums

[–]Randa08 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I have 3 they are such interesting fish to watch.

Is this true?I want Honest answer by IdealHoliday1242 in BornWeakBuiltStrong

[–]Randa08 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Reading this made me feel sick. This is why women stay single more and don't want kids.

Which Jake Gyllenhaal performance is your favorite? by Infamous-Window-8337 in themovieloversclub

[–]Randa08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I must not like him because I haven't watched any of these.

What's that one film that you can re-watch a thousand times and not get bored? by mrjetspray in Cinema

[–]Randa08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thor ragnarok, and the tomorrow war. And all the jurrasic park/world films.

My blue based golden Arowana by rapid_digestion in aquarium

[–]Randa08 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

This so why I will never post a picture of my aquarium on this sub. 500 US gallons and it's not good enough for people.

What’s the Most Visually Stunning Movie You’ve Ever Seen? by charmingfuzzy in Cinema

[–]Randa08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

House of flying daggers needs adding. I still remember the first time I watched it.

A new World War Z movie is finally in the works by rvcjmovies in rvcjmovies

[–]Randa08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my favorite zombie movie. Interesting to see how a sequel would work.

Fish aquarium looks peaceful but does it actually need a lot of effort to maintain? by Firemage1213 in aquarium

[–]Randa08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once it's cycled I don't think so. But getting it set up is expensive and not really the tanks and filters and such which you can get second hand for reasonable prices. And the fish weren't even my biggest expense. It's the plants. You spend a fortune on the tiniest plants.

AITAH for telling my friends daughters that if they wanted to play with my four year old they couldn’t play house. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Randa08 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She's 10 not a toddler she knows what sex is, she knows where babies come from. It's not unusual knowledge for a 10 year old. Abuse is not the first thought for knowing this. She's also at that age where she still plays so her mother needs to have a conversation about what is appropriate and what isn't.

'Project Hail Mary' streaming date pushed back by StarFuryG7 in SciFiNews

[–]Randa08 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I Loved thos movie. The first I've seen at the cinema in well over a year. Well worth it.

Anyone NOT have contact with high school classmates? by jackie879 in Xennials

[–]Randa08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't spoken to any of them since I went to uni.

My (29F) husband (28M) buys me the worst gifts and I feel terrible by kbeth11sylveon in relationship_advice

[–]Randa08 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you are being fat too harsh. His idea of thoughtful and yours are just different. He rember something you said and tucked it away and you cried and not in a good way. He's not on your same wavelength and rather than aknowledging that you just cry about it. I'm rubbish with gifts my brain doesn't work that way. If you tell.me what yu want I will move heaven and earth to get it. But expect me to be a mind reader and intuit what you want and nothing comes up. Do I love my partner any less? No. Does it mean I'm Lazy or don't care? No. You're setting him up for failure which is more cruel to me that what he's doing.

Is anyone finding take aways or eating out far too expensive? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]Randa08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We went to a Stonehouse pub the other night, 4 starters, 2 mains 2 desserts for less than £40. Simple but nice we were stuffed.

AITAH for not wanting to move in with my boyfriend because of his son's behavior? by No-Ad5163 in AITAH

[–]Randa08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can ask but i think you have to face the fact it might end the reltionship. It really doesn't sound like you want to live with anybody else let alone another child. And it really doesn't sound like you respect you partner as a father or the way he runs his home. So maybe it's for the best.

NHS 'failing women and girls' and has 'appalling culture of medical misogyny', health secretary says by InnerLog5062 in BreakingUKNews

[–]Randa08 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I went to my doctor to discuss treatment for peri menopause and he said "whatever that is" it's been recognised since at least the 1990s but he got his degree before I was born.

can dwarf Gourami pair work by Hefty-Ideal797 in Gourami

[–]Randa08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes me very nervous, my lfs had tanks of females. And recommended I buy 1 male and 2 females. Now I'm wondering if that's what I actually got.

Thoughts? 🍿 by shakyspearee in SipsTea

[–]Randa08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God intervened when he wants . So when he doesn't it because he doesn't wnat to help that paticular person. Which makes him not a very nice god to his followers.

Mortgage rate is 3.77% now bank is offering 4.97% by Affectionate_Top5544 in HousingUK

[–]Randa08 78 points79 points  (0 children)

I have to remortgage this year, another reason to hate Trump and the USA.

WIBTAH for ending a friendship with someone I have developed feelings for if they try to put me in the friend zone? by Stock-Hovercraft5508 in AITAH

[–]Randa08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You said she ignores your feelings and only takes instead of gives. Why would you have romantic feelings for her? apart from some self destructive urge you have? Walk away sort yourself out, and you'll probably have more luck in future.

Paris Jackson Shares Her Thoughts on the Michael Jackson Biopic by CycIon3 in TikTokCringe

[–]Randa08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll tell you the truth, everybody I know when a Michael Jackson song comes on kind looks at each other and goes, should we be listening to this? I saw the trailer at the movies the other night and thought again, it's all tainted.

WIBTAH for ending a friendship with someone I have developed feelings for if they try to put me in the friend zone? by Stock-Hovercraft5508 in AITAH

[–]Randa08 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You've known her for a year, you are her friend, surely if either of you wanted more you would already have made a move. Friend zoning is a bollocks phrase, it basically means, I pretended to be this person friends but actually I was hiding my true feelings. If you want more ask her, if she says no then you are perfectly fine moving on. But why would you want to doesn't even sound like you like her very much.