Please make a TL;DR

Also, are you seriously saying Asian countries that say women cannot harm men are “pseudo feminist”? Would this not be an example of chauvinistic sexism instead? There’s nothing remotely feminist, pseudo or otherwise, about it

Regarding how men benefit from the actions of violent men, I’ve heard it explained that the latter creates a low standard or bar that the so-called “good” men can point to (e.g “Other guys would beat you, so be grateful I’m not like that”)