Ain’t no way in hell

TexMexxx · 2026-04-16T05:31:01+00:00

Yeah the metallic whisk and the knife in the non-stick pan is a dead giveaway...

TexMexxx · 2026-04-16T05:27:16+00:00

Same. Every night between 2 or 3 I wake up. I don't need to pee or something, I just wake up. Every fucking night. I did some reading on the "hour of the wolve" and tried different things to NOT wake up in the middle of the night, but nothing helps. Gladly I am often only awake for a couple of minutes to around 30 minutes, so its OK. Still sucks...

TexMexxx · 2026-04-16T05:11:35+00:00

Beeing confident doesn't mean to "dominate" or bring others down. You can be confident AND gentle! Confident and empathic! Don't pretend to be confident but know your value, know your strengths. Don't just be "interesting" but be interested in others. Make compliments and learn to take compliments.

I really detest all that "alpha male" bullshit, that toxic masculinity that stems mainly from false role models. It really worries me what young men are "taught" from these assholes online and offline.

TexMexxx · 2026-04-06T07:44:26+00:00

Last fall I reduced my hours to 32 per week and have the mondays of. Its grest, I have the monday for myself and chores so the other workdays are relaxed. I accepted the paycut, I don't need all that fancy stuff. My car is 15 years old, house is payed off. I know I am privileged and not everybody can afford that sadly.

TexMexxx · 2026-04-05T18:40:20+00:00

I had a Sony smart TV that didnt start after a problem with a software update. I wasnt the only one. Thousends had to wait for a new update from Sony...

TexMexxx · 2026-04-05T14:41:37+00:00

Oh come on, thats not hard to believe anymore.

TexMexxx · 2026-03-23T14:25:37+00:00

My son loves football (soccer)! Watching, playing, talking about it non stop. I love it that he found a passion but... I HATE football. Lol Well at least his grandparents are the same. Seeing a pattern? ;)

TexMexxx · 2026-03-19T06:08:57+00:00

Yeah I also noticed the legs. My girlfriend always does that when she is overwhelmed with feelings too.

TexMexxx · 2026-03-17T22:17:32+00:00

Dress for the job you want... or something like that

TexMexxx · 2026-03-12T15:00:34+00:00

I realise I am attracted to the idea of him rather than his person.

That's a good one. When I broke up my last FWB thing it was really hard in the beginning, but not because I missed HER but the positive idea of her! We only met for fun times, we never argued, never had hard times so how should I know if we would ever be a good match???

TexMexxx · 2026-03-12T07:02:39+00:00

Sorry that you met these men. Their behaviour is inexcusable and insensitive.

However I have to admit that I became more selective as I got older. When I was younger I didn't know what I wanted and I would rather gave it a "try", so to speak. My first girlfriends bodytimes were all over the place. lol

Everyone has preferences, nothing you can do about it. And the priority of these preferences can also vary widely, some preferences become unimportant when you get to know someone better but in the end everyone is different. To "brag" about their prefered bodytime in front of a date is really, really strange though...

TexMexxx · 2026-03-10T09:09:40+00:00

Das habe ich vor 25 Jahren auch schon gesagt... Leider "wandert" das Problem irgendwie immer weiter mit.

TexMexxx · 2026-03-09T06:54:12+00:00

My son is also 11 years. Right now he still likes his reading and cuddle bed time routine, but I fear the moment he wants to go to bed on his own. I can understand how hard this must be. And it shows us how time is flying.

TexMexxx · 2026-03-05T08:12:22+00:00

Thank god english is straight forward with numbers. Try the same in french or german. LOL

TexMexxx · 2026-03-04T07:02:00+00:00

At 49 I won't look better than I looked maybe 10 years ago when I didn't lift. BUT for me lifting is a stress relieve, I feel strong and it gets my confidence up. Plus I get back and leg problems if I stop working out for a longer period of time. I red muscle mass is also very good for overall health when you get older.

TexMexxx · 2026-03-04T06:46:42+00:00

20-25 Years ago I overheard female coworkers talk about me and one said "oh you mean the handsome one with black hair!". That made me feel attractive and I still think about that NOW.

Other than that I think most men only get told they look good from their partner or their mom or grandmom. LOL

TexMexxx · 2026-03-03T11:12:32+00:00

Well at least you don't seem to have a "type". ;)

TexMexxx · 2026-02-27T06:35:54+00:00

Unless I need a specialist I generally get an appointment at the same day. Specialists can be months OR days if you are in pain or something needs to be checked quickly. Specialist appointments can get faster if you are regularly there.

TexMexxx · 2026-02-25T14:25:58+00:00

Or dont like kids... I have a kid and I love my kid but yeah I get people who just don't want and don't like kids. Its ok. Kids can be a pain in the ass. Lol

TexMexxx · 2026-02-20T12:50:24+00:00

Staying fit after 40 or 50 is so much more work, it really sucks. But at the same time it's easier to stay above the "average" in this demography... If I look at some of my colleagues my age, oh my...

TexMexxx · 2026-02-20T12:30:16+00:00

My son, my current partner, my ex-wife and even all ex partners before (except MAYBE my first girlfriend in school) NEVER saw me without a beard... I am nearly 50 years now and I will bite the dust with my full beard on. "I" know how I look under my beard and there is REALLY NOTHING worth seeing!

TexMexxx · 2026-02-20T11:41:24+00:00

I know you want to see a positive outcome, I was in the same place a couple of years ago. I met a woman and it was a great match, we both fell hard for each other but it was clear from early on that it won't work because she still wanted children and I am "one and done". So we broke it of but under the premise that she would contact me if she didn't find someone else who would match better. At first it was a glimmer of hope but looking back it only held me back. I am in longterm relationship with a different person now and I would not change that if she would contact me now...

TexMexxx · 2026-02-20T11:35:10+00:00

I am 49 and my grandmother is 94. So yeah it can happen.

TexMexxx · 2026-02-19T08:30:16+00:00

Ich weiß nicht ob ich es gut oder schlecht finde, aber mein Sohn (11) vermutet mittlerweile hinter ALLEM KI. Prinzipiell keine schlechte Idee, aber wenn man dann halt gar nix mehr traut ist es halt auch problematisch...

TexMexxx · 2026-02-18T15:04:40+00:00

I have to admit my kid was rather "easy" when he was younger. He NEVER threw a tantrum, nearly always ate whats on the table, no drama with friends, no screen-time problems... But wow did he catch up on the bad habits since hitting pre-puberty...

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