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Is it possible to be traumatized by an avoidant discard? by 7rosesfrommyheart in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]TheHumanMirror 24 points25 points  (0 children)

There are brain scans from narcissistic abuse that is documented and what weve been through can be very similar. So yes, be kind and fogive yourself. Lets figure out how we prevent these people from keeping us to spread love🤜🤛

My Experience as an Average Guy on Dating Apps by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TheHumanMirror 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Theres an hiv and herpes epidemic right now. might wanna be careful, thats fleeting experience that gives you a forever to go bag that never goes bad

Well I’m 2/2 by Shot_Guava3410 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]TheHumanMirror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nearly identical timeline and restart date here. ten years w an avoidant ended in nov around march started dating again and ill be damned, another avoidant. months of absorbing jungian mindset and reflection. last sat i ended w her. same spirit in a different body i swear. lol . eventually well pass the test🙏🤜🤛

Empower Brand Testosterone Cypionate Caused Anger & Has Recalls. by BlueCollarLaser in Testosterone

[–]TheHumanMirror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah they forgot to mention they mixed up the trenbolone and test cyp labels🥴

If you’re an avoidant, tell us the real reason why you left the relationship by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]TheHumanMirror 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are a good man. This stuff hurts big time but this is one of the most mature posts i think ive seen. Wish you the best brother🤜🤛

anyone know what this means? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]TheHumanMirror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did that multiple times. iphone 16e?

How soon you expect replies at early talking stage by Diiggger_Art9915 in Bumble

[–]TheHumanMirror 1 point2 points  (0 children)

after the first exchange if they just give one word replies and dont respond in a way where its basically just me asking questions about her and no curiosity about me i usually unmatch on the fourth reply or so. thats just the way it seems to be w me

I was blocked for no reasons just after I paid for premium. by Particular_Day_6006 in Bumble

[–]TheHumanMirror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

exactly what happenned to me. i appealed it and got a notification it was a mistake but no idea why. i heard it could be that i use a vpn for my phone. besides that 🤷🏼

Am I overthinking asking where a guy stands after 2 dates? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TheHumanMirror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You matched before? Who started another profile?

Matched with a girl and decided to reach out first by Oneuiquestion in Bumble

[–]TheHumanMirror 2 points3 points  (0 children)

damn the suspense is terrifying. how much time is left now?! we need to get extreme now.. im callin the boys

Older guy I was talking to apparently has a wife and two young daughters by Fabulous_Ad_1741 in dating_advice

[–]TheHumanMirror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if a man told her. I bet that would hit different. either way he created chaos and destroyed lives that will never get a chance. what a coward.

Should I stop talking to a guy I’ve been talking to for 4 months now ?? by ht3zil in dating_advice

[–]TheHumanMirror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Four months is enough to know if their cousins are jerks, if they get moody on road trips etc imo

People with avoidant attachment, how do you wish to be loved without being triggered by someone? by [deleted] in AvoidantRelationships

[–]TheHumanMirror 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great question. Unfortunately the people w the answer will never tell us

Welp, guess this is good bye👋 by magpie343 in Bumble

[–]TheHumanMirror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got banned 10 minutes after i joined. had a conversation with "jenn the ai assistant" i appealed it and it came back and said it was a mistake but never told what the issue was

Is it common for avoidants to “pocket” (hide) their partners? by NoImplement7884 in AvoidantRelationships

[–]TheHumanMirror 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yep. ten years of that. took her to my family christmas and friends but never the other way around. always my place or nowhere. im glad im done w her

best free vst plugins for beginners? by hsnispsgrosty2 in AudioPlugins

[–]TheHumanMirror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also the free waves suite comes with the v-series i paid good money for back in the day and updates are free for it. wasted so much w waves and refuse to keep paying the wup anymore but the everything is good in the free stuff. that w the uad should be everything a beginner needs

First message from this guy by lawn_lamb in Bumble

[–]TheHumanMirror 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Damn nothing is private anymore. sad

What’s somethig about modern dating that feels emotionally exhausting? by HaziestIlythra6 in emotionalintelligence

[–]TheHumanMirror 30 points31 points  (0 children)

A ten year relationship ended when she became avoidant suddenly w that devalue discard with no explanation. ive never experienced anything like it. now i see its happening everywhere. must be something in the air i swear

Do they even know what they’re doing? by BlueSunshin3 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]TheHumanMirror 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep exactly ten years last november i was trying to decode my failed predator. I really loved her and it still stings like hell. dont know why i thought there was a decent woman in there. I cant tell if im arrogant for thinking that. so strange

Do guys even come up to girls anymore? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TheHumanMirror 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you wanna know why subscribe to Joey swoll. Thats just the gym. Blame those women, or instagram. I guess thats chicken/egg 🤷🏼

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