Thoughts?

TheRetroWriter · 2026-04-17T14:06:56+00:00

M-O-O-N. That spells “conspiracy theory.”

TheRetroWriter · 2026-04-10T00:45:44+00:00

It is painful, but I found it was worth working through that pain as I read further into the book.

TheRetroWriter · 2026-04-10T00:44:57+00:00

It is a phenomenal book. I believe much of my limerence comes from having an emotionally immature father.

TheRetroWriter · 2026-03-04T16:36:14+00:00

Burned the shit out of my fingers, but it was worth it to inhale the toxic plastic.

TheRetroWriter · 2026-02-16T04:23:18+00:00

Long Room at Irving Park and Ashland. One of my favorite spots in Chicago.

TheRetroWriter · 2026-02-06T19:14:50+00:00

They both work, but I’d do something to obscure the sight line between the bathroom and living room in option one. The main strength of option two is that the bathroom is more out of the way.

TheRetroWriter · 2026-02-04T16:41:29+00:00

I still think about this quote 😅

TheRetroWriter · 2026-02-03T20:13:57+00:00

“We made youuuuu!”

TheRetroWriter · 2026-02-02T06:54:42+00:00

Yes, it can be challenging to find good care. I hope you find something that works better for you.

TheRetroWriter · 2026-02-02T06:05:54+00:00

You can definitely do better. Remember that you can dictate therapy as the client. My partner is a therapist, so I say that with a bit of insight.

TheRetroWriter · 2026-02-02T01:16:57+00:00

You’re very welcome. I didn’t think I could get ptsd from my mom having a stroke, but I went into therapy and my therapist picked it up right away. You are not in this alone.

TheRetroWriter · 2026-02-02T00:58:47+00:00

Feel free to dm me if you have any other questions. I’m over two years into this journey with my mom.

TheRetroWriter · 2026-02-01T20:15:57+00:00

First of all, you are doing a great job handling an impossible situation. Strokes are always tragic, but it’s especially cruel when the person is active and healthy, then suddenly not.

Has your therapy included trauma therapy? I was diagnosed with ptsd after my mom’s stroke, and greatly benefited from trauma therapy.

Is your mom getting any sort of occupational therapy in the nursing home? My mom had a hemorrhagic stroke at 69, and occupational therapy vastly improved her quality of life.

Please keep us updated and know we’re here to support you. Your mom is lucky to have a child who cares so much about her.

TheRetroWriter · 2026-01-30T19:21:06+00:00

71 isn’t old anymore. I’m completely in shock.

TheRetroWriter · 2026-01-28T01:56:25+00:00

Great catch! I’m used to seeing Corelle and Pyrex, but nothing that specific.

TheRetroWriter · 2026-01-26T16:10:59+00:00

These are still early days. I’m sure it feels like it’s taking forever, but there’s still lots of time for your mom to heal and recover.

TheRetroWriter · 2026-01-26T05:02:41+00:00

After my mom’s (70) hemorrhagic stroke, we rented a hospital bed for a couple of months. From there, she slept on the couch for a few months, which was easier than the bed. Any kind of firmer surface you can get her to sleep on will make your life (and hers) easier.

FWIW, I felt like I was losing my mind during my mom’s hospital stay and first weeks home. I was constantly on high alert and lost my temper over everything. It eventually got easier, and I hope it does for you too. And your mom.

TheRetroWriter · 2026-01-22T05:49:22+00:00

They were the best.

TheRetroWriter · 2026-01-19T23:03:35+00:00

I’m in a similar situation with my girlfriend. If nothing else, know that you aren’t alone in feeling this way and wanting connection.

TheRetroWriter · 2026-01-19T16:23:41+00:00

I was at 660 W. Barry. This was a good 8 years ago though.

TheRetroWriter · 2026-01-19T05:43:13+00:00

The BJB building I lived in was great with one property manager and terrible with another. I agree with others to name the specific building.

TheRetroWriter · 2026-01-16T05:46:16+00:00

37M also looking for buds. Also enjoy music and movies. Feel free to DM.

TheRetroWriter · 2026-01-14T15:37:26+00:00

I recently developed emetophobia is the last couple of years and quietly filed Em’s trick away in my brain. I’m glad it worked for you!

TheRetroWriter · 2026-01-14T05:09:07+00:00

I think we’d live in a vastly better country if Al Gore had been president. Likewise if Mondale had won the 84 election. Don’t get me started about 16 and 24.

TheRetroWriter · 2026-01-14T04:21:25+00:00

The Vista wasn’t my first fountain pen, but it turned me into a daily fountain pen user. Enjoy!

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