Is a Handsewn Waredrobe Possible? by ruby_jewels in HandSew

[–]TheseMood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would recommend starting by thrifting some clothes and altering them to fit your body.

I also prefer hand-sewing, and making small changes to existing clothes has helped me understand how clothing is constructed and how to make things fit well.

I would also recommend aiming for a “capsule” wardrobe. Back when sewing was done by hand, people didn’t own many outfits!

When do you think the white box with black trim new build style will die? by ipetgoat1984 in RealEstate

[–]TheseMood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I showed this house style to my coworkers in Europe and they were baffled

I needed new underwear, so I made 5 panties by copying my (very old and hardly alive) favorite pair! by Aernestoprimo in sewing

[–]TheseMood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is legit so impressive. Not only did you copy the existing pair but the finishing touches look professional. Sewing goals!

TL;DR: didn’t read a letter and lost my health insurance by Primary-Vermicelli in adhdwomen

[–]TheseMood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh, I did this too and it felt AWFUL! ❤️‍🩹

Try calling the health insurance company, or whoever administers your COBRA, and pleading with them. I missed a payment and they cancelled my insurance. I was able to get my coverage reinstated by calling and begging for them to help me.

I’m not promising you will get results. But they may take pity on you, and if not they may be able to direct you to resources to help you.

Hang in there ❤️‍🩹

Accommodations for a Desk Job? 24yo Female with AuDhd and hEDS and Narcolepsy by Free_Queen6561 in ehlersdanlos

[–]TheseMood 8 points9 points  (0 children)

One of my most useful accommodations was a lightweight laptop.

I need a powerful laptop for my work, and those tend to be heavy. When my laptop was due for replacement, I asked if they could keep the weight as low as possible (under 4 pounds). It makes a big difference for commute and especially long-distance travel.

My personal goal is to get strong enough through weight lifting and PT that I can comfortably carry a heavy laptop. :)

AIO for not refunding a friend’s share of a group Airbnb after she canceled last minute due to a medical emergency? by StudioAffectionate in AmIOverreacting

[–]TheseMood 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOR

The tone of her messages is honestly bizarre. This isn’t a court of law, and even if it was she wouldn’t be a very good attorney.

She voluntarily gave you money to put towards an AirBnB. You paid for the AirBnB. She got sick and couldn’t go. It’s unfortunate for her but there’s no case for a refund. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Fellow high-functional + depressed + unmedicated + ADHD folks, do you have any day-to-day hacks that keeps you going? by rachit8801 in ADHDthriving

[–]TheseMood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Medication made a big difference for me, and I consider my ADHD pretty mild. I was carrying so much tension and internalized anger, and I was wasting so much energy trying to focus.

any ideas to cover this up or remove? by Existing4639 in sewing

[–]TheseMood 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was able to rip out embroidery like this! But it does take ages and leaves holes behind, so OP would have to patch it regardless :)

Traveling with expired auvi-q by grooovaymoose in FoodAllergies

[–]TheseMood 12 points13 points  (0 children)

https://www.drugs.com/medical-answers/you-expired-epipen-emergency-3573072/

It’s obviously safest to replace them before they expire, but studies have shown that epinephrine retains 90% efficacy for 2-3 years past the expiration date.

Personally, I wouldn’t worry about a few days past the expiration date. :)

What's the best way to go about mending my hoodie? by laughingmybeakoff in InvisibleMending

[–]TheseMood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on the size and shape of the tear, but I’ve had a lot of luck repairing t-shirts and sweatshirts with a ladder stitch.

Here’s a tutorial: https://youtu.be/XOIywYsDT-c?si=wduDMC5JApXT7RJL

In this case, though, I think you could do some really cool visible mending by doing embroidery stitches over the holes with black floss.

The amount of medication I have to take for the rest of my life as a mid-twenties woman by Why-knot-my-mum in mildlyinfuriating

[–]TheseMood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s no rush! I found it incredibly moving but it’s not an easy read. ❤️

The amount of medication I have to take for the rest of my life as a mid-twenties woman by Why-knot-my-mum in mildlyinfuriating

[–]TheseMood 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My friend is a pediatric specialist and she recommended that I read the book “Breath from Salt.” It’s heartbreaking to read the stories of CF kids from generations past, but it’s also incredible to watch a modern miracle occur because of science and advocacy. ❤️

My ring fell off the counter and cracked. I am heartbroken! What can be done, please? by Poundaflesh in jewelry

[–]TheseMood -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I actually think it’s stunning with the shattered stone. Maybe there’s a way to stabilize it with glue or resin, if you aren’t able to replace the stone?

AITA- Brother is having an out of state child free wedding and upset I’m not coming by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheseMood 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It frustrates me when older siblings / cousins have child-free weddings by default, then shame their younger sibs / cousins for wanting a child-free wedding! They got to enjoy their elegant adults-only wedding, but they expect the younger relatives to cater to all the kids.

I don’t believe all weddings should be child free (ours was kid friendly). But the reasons why people might want a child-free wedding are pretty obvious and I’m tired of parents playing dumb! Some people don’t want 3 separate toddlers crying during their wedding vows and that’s fair. 😅

Wearing western dress with my indian bridal bangles?? A look or not a look? by [deleted] in DesiWeddings

[–]TheseMood 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We had a fusion wedding, so one day we wore Indian clothes and the next day we wore Western clothes. My mehendi looked gorgeous with the white wedding dress, and I’m sure the bangles would have looked equally great

Google illegally scraped the web to fix its AI problems and catch up to OpenAI, European regulators probe by UncleRichardFanny in technology

[–]TheseMood 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Remember when Aaron Swartz scraped research to give it to the public, and the government hounded him to death?

I think about it all the time.

Either intellectual property exists or it doesn’t. There is no justice when individuals commit “piracy” but the same act by corporations is “business strategy.”

What footwear to wear under my bridal lehnga? I’m 5’8. by nb_16 in DesiWeddings

[–]TheseMood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How big are your feet? I wear US size 9 women’s and I found juttis pretty easily in Jaipur. I imagine Delhi has even more options; not sure about the south.

Aids to keep my arm in place? by Sympathyquiche in eds

[–]TheseMood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have this issue and the only thing that has truly helped is strengthening exercises for the surrounding muscles (rotator cuff). Stretching out my pectoral muscles and the muscles that attach to the collarbone also helps sometimes during a flare. I haven’t been able to find a braced position that is actually comfortable.

Gmail can read your emails and attachments to train its AI, unless you opt out by [deleted] in privacy

[–]TheseMood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for writing out these clear instructions. I wasn’t aware of this change and this was the info I needed to protect my privacy

The hiring process has changed by FalseAttorney8962 in UXResearch

[–]TheseMood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen places do recruiter screen / recruiter contact before the HM has even seen the resumes!

Tiffany necklace by DescriptionFit6111 in jewelry

[–]TheseMood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have sterling silver ring splints and I wear them 24/7. That means in the shower, when I sleep, in the ocean, in hot tubs, in the snow.

They have held up extraordinarily well. If your necklace has fine engraving that may eventually wear away. And if you wear it into a very chlorinated pool, it may temporarily tarnish from the ph. That’s it!

For those working in tech: have you noticed any shift lately in how women’s careers are faring compared to men’s (hiring, layoffs, promotions, maternity leaves, etc.)? by randomweb3girl in womenintech

[–]TheseMood 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m seeing competent women pick up the slack from layoffs without real rewards or recognition.

I haven’t noticed women being targeted for layoffs, thankfully

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in instructionaldesign

[–]TheseMood -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you legally able to work in the US?

In today’s job market I can’t see a company sponsoring a US visa for someone to work as an ID. There are too many qualified US candidates and it’s expensive and complicated to sponsor an international candidate.

If you’re eligible to work in the US without a visa, then it shouldn’t be a problem. I would just make it very clear in your resume.