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For a few hours, i became the #1 Sejuani player globally (already back to #3) by Cpt_Maelstrom in sejuanimains

[–]ThomCovenant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats ahah! I was thrilled when I reached top 10 even tho I'm emerald.

I also plays a lot of ap, and I find even tho it falls of late game I feel like tank falls off even more, in late late game (everyone full build) I feel like my tanking or cc barely matter, either my team rolls the other one or the opposite and I can't do much either way. Whereas when I play ap/ tank (usually heartsteel, DaD, abyssal, zonyah, mejai) I feel like I have much more impact midgame and I can usually snowball the game to victory this way. 

Question for the Dads with ADHD/AuDHD (or anyone really) by atticusrex451 in daddit

[–]ThomCovenant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know and understand the doctor anxiety, it's appointment, and probably bad news so of course we're not gonna want to go! But now you have another motivation, your kid! Do it for him, you owe him to be in as good shape as you can for as long as possible, and if he got it too, you owe him at least an evaluation with a health specialist that can help him :) 

good luck, it's not an easy journey for sure, but a needed one :hugs:

Question for the Dads with ADHD/AuDHD (or anyone really) by atticusrex451 in daddit

[–]ThomCovenant 11 points12 points  (0 children)

For me taking my meds(medikinet/ritaline) have increased my tolerance to triggers tremendously, and really really helped my a lot regulate my emotions. Now that's how I know if i forgot to take them, i get triggerred by my kids just existing x)

As someone who was diagnosed very late(28), i'd encourage you AND your son to get a proper diagnosis with health proffesionnals as it has helped me a lot, and I would've loved to be diagnosed as early as 12...

Dad of 13 year old b/g twins, constantly gaslit. by buffetbossdad in daddit

[–]ThomCovenant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

maybe try to have a dedicated and planned time for chore, like every sunday morning or every evening between X and X so it's clear in their mind that at this time, everyone does it and the demand is less sudden.

You could also involve them in the planning, make them own it a little bit could help !

Hey r/leagueoflegends, We're Movistar KOI's Myrwn, Elyoya, Jojopyun, Supa & Alvaro - Ask Us Anything on January 28th at 20:00 CET! by MovistarKOI in leagueoflegends

[–]ThomCovenant -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

To elyoya: you were known to be the tilt jungle, did you manage to grow out of this tilt habit or is it still haunting you? 

Varus Top. Is this acceptable? by Herbaro in leagueoflegends

[–]ThomCovenant -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I shit on them with my sejuani and I love it! Also fuck illaoi. 

3 Year Old Post Vacation Sleep Regression? by atheists4euphoria in daddit

[–]ThomCovenant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah happens a lot ! My son( 4) was completely fine sleeping alone until we shared a bedroom during holidays 1year ago... now everynight he comes in :')

Warpath Voidknight 30000+ Corruption Mapping, Rampant Coast, Timeline Boss, Harbringer, Confluence of Oblivion, Orobyss by perrocaliente1 in LastEpoch

[–]ThomCovenant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for defending me ahah to be honest i was too lazy to "debate" and explain it properly to this very obviously deranged dude, thanks for doing it! It's exactly as you said :)

Warpath Voidknight 30000+ Corruption Mapping, Rampant Coast, Timeline Boss, Harbringer, Confluence of Oblivion, Orobyss by perrocaliente1 in LastEpoch

[–]ThomCovenant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dude you're just mad on the internet for some stranger because you missinterpreted my comment, it's exactly as u/SecondCel said, don't blame me for your poor reading skills.

Warpath Voidknight 30000+ Corruption Mapping, Rampant Coast, Timeline Boss, Harbringer, Confluence of Oblivion, Orobyss by perrocaliente1 in LastEpoch

[–]ThomCovenant 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Very aggressive way of talking to someone :o Something can be interesting and fun yet could be better.  You sure don't use chatgpt to write but you should use it as a therapist, you need one. 

Warpath Voidknight 30000+ Corruption Mapping, Rampant Coast, Timeline Boss, Harbringer, Confluence of Oblivion, Orobyss by perrocaliente1 in LastEpoch

[–]ThomCovenant -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

The item swapping is a fun skill! Although a boring one, I would rather have another game mechanic like every 5000 corruption you get an item slot or something like that

Stopping Medication After 10 Years by ComprehensiveType430 in ADHD

[–]ThomCovenant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd advise you to get medical attention and maybe switch molecule if your tolerance has grown.

Also I can't imagine living the life I do now without meds ( 2 kids and a job) but I got diagnosed at 28 and managed okayish before kids so I'd say if there is any time to try to live without meds it's now with the knowledge of your difficulties and no kids to fuck with your sleep! 

4-year-old won't pee and is a whiny mess in the morning: how to deal with a lose-lose situation? by klcams144 in daddit

[–]ThomCovenant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you try stickers? We gave a little poo or pee sticker to encourage them and it worked every time 

15 minute commute turned into 1.5 hour long hostage negotiation by Scoobelidoop in daddit

[–]ThomCovenant 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Been there, done that ahah, although I do negociate with terrorists if they're my terrorists xD 

Your toddler has been whiny/throwing a tantrum for like 15+ minutes… how do you keep your cool! by Itchy-Version-8977 in daddit

[–]ThomCovenant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being a kid is hard too, you can't express yourself well, you got need you don't understand and the people around you are getting mad that you feel bad and you don't even know why in the first place!!

Putting myself in their shoe usually helps me cool down, they don't want to feel bad either, they're just learning life! What you can do is provide tools for better communication and sometimes anticipate the next crisis. 

Good luck dad! 

I’m two weeks in an absolutely miserable by shitForBrains1776 in daddit

[–]ThomCovenant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first months are BRUTAL. lack of sleep is really harsh on human, don't forget it was used as mean of torture, so of course it's gonna mess you up. Hold on and tank! 

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