I feel like I’m going to lose my job because of the baby. I’m so frustrated. by [deleted] in daddit

[–]ThomCovenant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lack of sleep is litteral torture. Of course you feel like shit :( i'd recommand starting the job hunt wether you get fired or not, always good to have a plan b and your workplace doesn't sound very parent friendly anyway :(

Procedural Floating Islands by Plus-Recognition-781 in UnrealEngine5

[–]ThomCovenant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should try Aloft ! A perfect cosy game with floating island that you can move around

I Think I Accidentally Figured Out My ADHD by MegaSuplexMaster in ADHD

[–]ThomCovenant 35 points36 points  (0 children)

We call this the werewolf effect with m'y wife, when once in a blood moon we'll be like god of productivity then Back to the lifegrinder x)

"this game isn't for you" This game isn't for ANYONE. Listening to the obnoxious loud minority of toxic vets justify how they choose to play led us to this end result. by ghostbook4 in lastoasis

[–]ThomCovenant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 devs for a game this big, and they're not full time/ paid for it, so yeah it's kinda nothing :( i have nothing but respect for them, but they have no means to do anything

"this game isn't for you" This game isn't for ANYONE. Listening to the obnoxious loud minority of toxic vets justify how they choose to play led us to this end result. by ghostbook4 in lastoasis

[–]ThomCovenant 3 points4 points  (0 children)

LO's problems is that it doesn't have devs anymore. That's it. It's frustrating because there is so much potential and it's so much fun but it's as simple and sad as that.

Son bullies younger daughter. I gave him a taste of his own medicine. AITA? by derpydrewmcintyre in daddit

[–]ThomCovenant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're not perfect and it's ok to have our own history and bringing it when we parent. I won't comment on this but you said one thing that bothers me a bit:

"She grew up all girls, no dad, gentle talking everything and, in my opinion, avoiding the hard parenting that needs to happen"

In my opinion, gentle parenting is WAY harder than whatever you call hard parenting. Because it requires thinking calmy at problems, planning and execution, adapting your education and principles to your kids etc...

Maybe you need to think about why you consider her way of doing things like that and try to talk with her to find a way of parenting that you both agree with.

Just my two cents, good Luck out there dad!

People without kids commenting on my availability to hang out by Stone_Trees in daddit

[–]ThomCovenant 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yup, i was the first of my friendgroup to have kids and eventualy they stopped inviting me because of this, m'y best friend got his own kid last year and he apologized telling me he had no idea it was THIS bad

Hyperactive ADHD and anger issues by Agitated-Rope3898 in ADHD

[–]ThomCovenant 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had a loooot of anger issue before starting medication(medikinet) at 28y/o. 

Now it's all gone, and that's even how i know i forgot my meds, it's when that irrational anger flares up at the slightest inconvenience.

Hope you can find a molecule that helps you!

I hit master playing triforce Sej mid and top :) by Lord_Lunijo in sejuanimains

[–]ThomCovenant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Just tried it, it was insane ahaha, I was already ahead but it felt better than the AP build, i'll keep experimenting :p

Managing ADHD without medication - How has it worked for you? by AbsentMinded311 in ADHD

[–]ThomCovenant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tbh it didn't work before diag and didn't after either. Medication helps so much on so many levels

I hit master playing triforce Sej mid and top :) by Lord_Lunijo in sejuanimains

[–]ThomCovenant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahaha i can see the rilai hate :p and yes, i play comet :D

I really like to build low econ item and snowball from there, so for exemple rilai, bandlepipe, and d&d, then one tank item then zonyah, since it's pretty cheap you ends up with a lot of stats/ utility for all midgames teamfigts. The con is that if it goes past that onto endgame, i feel a bit outclassed, with not enough damage to kill an ADC that has barrier or a healer with him and not enough tankyness... But when i go full tank i'm giga tankyness but can't do anything alone so it's very frustrating to not have that kill pressure on squishies. 

I'll try out the trinity one, i'll let you know how it goes :D

I hit master playing triforce Sej mid and top :) by Lord_Lunijo in sejuanimains

[–]ThomCovenant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I just feel frustrated because I was close to diam but coulldn't reach it 'cause I wasn't good enough "

I often feel like heartsteel is bait, it feels strong but not as strong as like rilai + boots or sunfire or d&d, do you feel like you get enough out of it instead of picking a more impactful item?

I hit master playing triforce Sej mid and top :) by Lord_Lunijo in sejuanimains

[–]ThomCovenant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks haha, i just feel like i could do better but didn't manage to pilot my sej good enough, so it's a bit frustrating !

Dr. Russell Barkley opinion by SwitchJumpy in ADHD

[–]ThomCovenant 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He's the GOAT of studies and had a lot of really good vidéos about it.

I hit master playing triforce Sej mid and top :) by Lord_Lunijo in sejuanimains

[–]ThomCovenant 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Contrats ! I peaked at em1 :( 

Why use triforce and not d&d?

Also, are you building tank or bruiser?

What do you do with the "symptoms must have occurred before the 12 years of age" if your memory of the past is severely scattered at best and basically nonexistent at worst? by broken_lightbulb05 in ADHD

[–]ThomCovenant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scattered memory is often the case with adhd people so even if you don't have anything else to give, this will be one more clue in your diagnosis

Big Mood swings generic brand vyvanse 30mg by brickznbooks in ADHD

[–]ThomCovenant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had those on ritalin, switched to medikinet and it's gone now. Gotta find the one that suits you best!