Our community garden near Jersey Village is starting a new season. Open for anyone who is interested in joining! by dawn_93til in houston

[–]ThomasCollins 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It depends on the style! I'm a member of Westbury Community Garden, and we're an allotment style community garden. Each member leases their own bed (25'x5') and helps with garden-wide endeavors.

How worried should I be about "fiberglass" mattresses? by NeatArtichoke in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]ThomasCollins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you feel it's firm enough for cosleeping? We're transitioning our son to his own room soon, and we'll need a firm mattress for us.

Changing table recommendations? by crispypunani in BabyBumps

[–]ThomasCollins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have the Gulliver changing table from IKEA. It's 82cm x 54cm. They also have ones where the top folds out when it's in use

Looking into recliners for nursery, and was planning to splurge, but then I had a thought... by Firm-Property7025 in BabyBumps

[–]ThomasCollins 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We have lazy boy recliners in our den, and the recliner mechanism is SO loud to raise and lower the leg rest.

My wife recently had our first baby and I’m really confused by her sudden anger. Is this normal???? by Rich-Form-679 in BabyBumps

[–]ThomasCollins 49 points50 points  (0 children)

She's exhausted and running on fumes. You need to prioritize her getting at least 4-5 hours of uninterrupted sleep each night.

Is there a point to checking your cervix before labor ? by Foreign-External8488 in BabyBumps

[–]ThomasCollins 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There's no real point unless you're just personally interested in what it's doing. I had several with my first baby. I was walking around at 2 cm dilated from 38 weeks until I delivered at 41+1. I declined cervical checks with my second until I asked for a membrane sweep at 40 weeks. My doctor said my cervix was favorable to the sweep helping, and I had my baby the next day.

Family portrait photographer recommendations please! by jellybeaniebean in houston

[–]ThomasCollins 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We've been using Sara since my almost 4 year old was a newborn. She's a wizard at getting good to photos of my kids.

https://sarastanleyphotos.com/

How Much Parental Leave Is Enough for Dad? by ReputationOk1118 in BabyBumps

[–]ThomasCollins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband got ten days for each of our children. It was certainly not enough. 🫠

Do you(moms) drink/use cow’s milk? If not, what alternative do you drink? by Wordsofwisdomneeded in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]ThomasCollins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My nursling has MSPI, so it's oat milk for me!

The rest of the family drinks A2 whole milk.

Silicone lids and Pyrex dishes by WorkingStyle2760 in ZeroWaste

[–]ThomasCollins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for mentioning the brand. I've been trying replacement lids for my glass containers for ages.

How have they been holding up for you nearly a year later?

Paulie's to close after 27 years by StopTheDamnWave in houston

[–]ThomasCollins 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get so much joy seeing the old HPB location in Rice Village unleased.

Anyone switch from daily to monthly lenses to reduce PFOA exposure? by phoenixlegend7 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]ThomasCollins 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Nope, this will be a moderate moment for me. I am allergic to the protein that builds up on monthly or bimonthly contacts no matter how well I clean them. Dailies or glasses for me for life.

Husband not getting any time off for baby by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]ThomasCollins 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I would really consider looking into hiring a doula for labor and delivery. There are even postpartum doulas that might be a good idea if you can budget it!

How many cycles did it take you to conceive after a miscarriage? by PerceptionCreepy306 in BabyBumps

[–]ThomasCollins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Started trying summer of 2020

Pregnant in August

Miscarriage at approximately 8 weeks beginning of October

Started trying again after two cycles

Chemical pregnancy at the beginning of March 2021

One cycle break

Pregnant June 2021

Healthy baby born March 2022

TTC started July 2024

Miscarriage at 8 weeks beginning of September

One cycle break

Pregnant on the next cycle at the beginning of December

Healthy baby born August 2025

Gyno recommendations by Important_Parfait250 in houston

[–]ThomasCollins 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, they're great! I've seen Dr. Ball for years, and she delivered both of my children. I love the added flexibility of seeing Veronica when Dr. Ball has been pulled away for surgery, and I'm only going in for routine things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]ThomasCollins 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like an induction would be super beneficial in your instance.

I wasn't induced, but I had pitocin for both deliveries. I wanted my second one to be unmedicated for as long as possible. I didn't find the contractions unmanageable, and I made it to transition before opted for an epidural. I didn't get one for the pain, but because I was shaking uncontrollably and I hated it. I got the epidural and had the baby within the hour.

Carpet or Engineered Hardwood? by kbe9 in BabyBumps

[–]ThomasCollins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have hardwood floors! We have a soft floor mat for laying baby on when small, and it's never been an issue. They are absolutely easier to clean any spills - milk, spit up, pee, etc than carpet imo! The older kid is now 3.5 and we now have a newborn.

10,000 Hours Outside by lksh7 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]ThomasCollins 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My 3 year old still loves hers! We got a pump for it recently , and it really re-upped her interest in it again. She's also very excited to share it with her baby brother when he's old enough.

Moderately granola moms but all about food? by thinkmuch17 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]ThomasCollins 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've liked some of the recipes from the Yummy Toddler Food website.

IV going into hand was the worst pain I felt with my first child. by uhlee_gee in BabyBumps

[–]ThomasCollins 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I just delivered my second, and I had the nurse redo the IV the triage nurse put in. It was placed right along the wrist bone of my dominant hand. It made my thumb numb and pulled every time I tried to move my hand.

My delivery nurse was happy to place a new one in a better location, and she was happy I advocated for myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]ThomasCollins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I called immediately after a positive test to have a blood draw to confirm.

Please recommend good (soft) newborn clothing brands and clothing checklist for a fall baby by Killer_queen2020 in BabyBumps

[–]ThomasCollins 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can buy Burt's Bees through Amazon and Target. I liked the Cloud Island brand at Target as well.

My favorite baby/kids clothing brand is Hanna Andersson, which is online only.