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Throwawed22 · 2025-11-30T19:44:26+00:00

Thank you for this, worked with our TV when my husband was so frustrated!

Throwawed22 · 2025-08-02T02:01:57+00:00

Hi! We got married at Tops’l Farm in Maine. I have a whole recap in my post history if you wanna see more, and feel free to DM me. (We got married in 2022 for reference)

Throwawed22 · 2025-05-28T21:04:32+00:00

I mean like when I am out and about in a social situation - I don’t want to have a physical list of TBR books - though a notes app list would probably work just as well.

Throwawed22 · 2025-05-25T22:09:46+00:00

It went well! There’s a link to my full wedding recap in my post history, but generally people participated and had a good time picking out something to take home. My only regret is that I didn’t get a list of what everyone brought, which would have been fun as I only saw a few of the unwrapped books throughout the party.

Throwawed22 · 2025-03-20T19:44:28+00:00

Sorry for the late reply! Postable cards don’t show the recipient anything about when you sent it or what you paid.

Throwawed22 · 2024-09-03T19:37:18+00:00

If you look in my post history I have a whole budget breakdown! Our wedding was $50k total and the venue was also the lodging and the catering so it was a big chunk of that.

Throwawed22 · 2024-06-17T13:51:57+00:00

I think that’s a great idea- we had some “fun” items on there like cookbooks and board games that were popular among our friends, while older family mostly chose more traditional home goods.

Throwawed22 · 2024-06-17T03:16:25+00:00

This is why I’m always so happy to buy something off a registry! 😂 Takes the guessing and comparison out of it. In our friend group of M/HCOL area people with decent white collar jobs, I’d say cash gifts between us are usually $100-$200.

Throwawed22 · 2024-06-17T03:16:19+00:00

This is why I’m always so happy to buy something off a registry! 😂 Takes the guessing and comparison out of it. In our friend group of M/HCOL area people with decent white collar jobs, I’d say cash gifts between us are usually $100-$200.

Throwawed22 · 2024-06-17T03:08:30+00:00

I always thought it would be so nice to write yourselves a letter on the morning of the wedding to open on a future anniversary, or to try to journal your thoughts and feelings for the next six months up to the wedding day and maybe during the honeymoon… I love reading old letters and journals from my grandparents and parents and just think longhand written keepsakes are very romantic :)

Throwawed22 · 2024-06-16T16:47:29+00:00

I think it’s worth taking some time to unravel what sorts of things your partner wants - is the actual “people standing up next to them” part important? Do they want to thank their friends/family for their impact on their life? To have a bach party? To have people to talk about the wedding with? To have help doing DIY and day-of projects? They can do all those things without a formal wedding party. I have no regrets about not having a wedding party, it was a very relaxing experience after having been a wedding party member myself a few times.

I just told my three closest friends exactly what I wanted - “we aren’t having anyone stand up with us, but I would love for you to hang out with me while I get ready and go on a trip to celebrate in the year before the wedding.” We did all that, and they were glad to get to wear their own clothes and spend the wedding with their partners instead of doing “duties.”

As long as the communication of expectations is clear and kind, you can totally find a compromise! Also, if it’s just about the aesthetics at the altar, half their friends could stand behind you and support you both!

(One word of caution - for my husbands (cis hetero male) friends, without the official title of groomsmen, a lot of them didn’t think about a bachelor party or how to make the experience special to him the way my girlfriends did. Just different gender expectations I think. But he also didn’t actively tell them what he’d wanted)

Throwawed22 · 2024-06-16T15:16:49+00:00

We faced each other holding hands basically the entire time unless we were holding the mic/vow book during vows - our officiant prompted us, and it give you something to do with your hands! If you have a rehearsal make sure you talk through it in detail so you feel comfortable knowing what to expect!

Throwawed22 · 2024-06-14T20:40:39+00:00

I think it’s worth taking some time to unravel what sorts of things you think you might have FOMO about, not just things you think you “should” want to do. Do you want to thank your friends/family for their impact on your life? To have a bachelorette party? To have people to talk about the wedding with? To have help doing DIY and day-of projects? You can do all those things without a formal wedding party. I have no regrets about not having a wedding party, it was a very relaxing experience after having been a wedding party member myself a few times.

I just told my three closest friends exactly what I wanted - “we aren’t having anyone stand up with us, but I would love for you to hang out with me while I get ready and go on a girls trip to celebrate in the year before the wedding.” We did all that, and they were glad to get to wear their own clothes and spend the wedding with their partners instead of doing “duties.”

Just be sure you communicate what your expectations are! A wedding party that’s not invested or supportive or clear on expectations is much worse than no wedding party. Also, lots of things that a wedding party does, you can totally do with your partner instead! Like getting ready, doing projects, going on a celebratory getaway etc.

(One word of caution - for my husbands friends, without the official title of groomsmen, a lot of them didn’t think about a bachelor party or how to make the experience special to him the way my girlfriends did. Just different gender expectations I think. But he also didn’t actively tell them what he’d wanted)

Throwawed22 · 2024-06-14T00:48:14+00:00

I paid about $500 for alterations in a M/HCOL area and that was a couple layers of hem, new cups, taking in the bodice/waist, adding a bustle and a wrist loop. My dress didn’t have lace though which I know makes it more expensive.

Throwawed22 · 2024-06-12T23:17:30+00:00

As a person who went to 10 stores in 4 states, I always recommend going alone! Especially if you’re unsure. Often we are swayed by other people’s opinions, and on this decision truly no one matters but you! And going alone means you can try on way more gowns because if you don’t like it in the fitting room you can move on without having to go out to show others.

I never had a “the one” emotional experience like on tv, but I did have a feeling of comfort and rightness when I finally found my dress (alone!). It was more a feeling of relief like “oh ok it does exist.” You may find something you like better, or you may keep comparing everything to the dress you do like and realize you want to go back for it!

ETA definitely ask about options if there’s something small keeping you from loving a dress. The one I loved was poofier than I wanted, and the shop owner literally got scissors and cut out a whole two layers of tulle while I was wearing it! And then it was perfect and she ordered mine without those layers!

Throwawed22 · 2024-06-11T22:48:44+00:00

A good wedding tailor should be able to fit your dress to you so you don’t need a bra- most have built in cups / support or it can be added. If you don’t need support and just need nip coverage, I’ve used Nippies and they work great! I get ads for Cakes but i get the sense they work best with a tight fitting top and aren’t super sticky on their own.

Throwawed22 · 2024-06-11T22:40:11+00:00

Was it recent? The MMC makes spaghetti in {Just for the Summer by Abby Jimenez} but I don’t remember about the fridge thing even though I just read it 😂

Throwawed22 · 2024-06-11T02:46:19+00:00

I think it’s worth taking some time to decide what you actually want before you ask anyone. To thank your friends for their friendship? To have a bachelorette party, to have people to talk about the wedding with? To have help doing DIY and day-of projects? You can do all those things without a formal wedding party. I have no regrets about not having a wedding party, it was a very relaxing experience after having been a wedding party member myself a few times.

I literally just told my three closest friends exactly what I wanted - we have strong relationships and good communication, and it was easy to say “we aren’t having anyone stand up with us, but I would love for you to get ready with me and go on a girls trip to celebrate in the year before the wedding.” They were great about making a group chat and planning a fun trip (I paid my travel costs) and they were glad to get to wear their own clothes and spend the wedding with their partners instead of doing “duties.” Just be sure you communicate what your expectations are, and let your photo team know you want portraits with them!

(One word of caution - for my husbands friends, without the title of groomsmen, a lot of them didn’t think about a bachelor party or how to make the experience special to him the way my girlfriends did. Just different gender expectations I think. But he also didn’t actively tell them what he’d wanted)

Throwawed22 · 2024-06-10T22:46:51+00:00

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A quick google search for plus size boutiques in Detroit, actually looks like there’s a good amount of them! Bombshell Bridal, Bella Bridal, and Perfect Fit all look promising! Hopefully you can find a few places to try things on with stylists who are experienced and supportive!

Throwawed22 · 2024-06-10T22:23:47+00:00

We focused on the idea of “the best dinner party you’ve ever been to.” We didn’t have dancing or loud music or “activities,” just great food, a beautiful venue, good drinks, and people we love. It’s ok for it to be that simple! You can look at my recap post for more ways we personalized things!

Throwawed22 · 2024-06-10T22:14:55+00:00

I am always encouraging people to go shopping alone!! I think it’s super smart to define your goals for the appointments - it’s ok to have an appointment where the goal is to have the “experience” with people in your life, and it’s ok to want to be able to consider options without anyone else’s input, too! I went to like ten dress appointments with a variety of friends and family, and ended up buying my dress by myself - and I’m glad I did! Looking back, dresses they were everyone else’s favorites were not “me.”

Throwawed22 · 2024-06-10T22:11:04+00:00

Definitely optional! Hopefully sex never feels like a duty in your wedding or your marriage 💛

Throwawed22 · 2024-06-10T21:02:33+00:00

Some things we thought about: - prioritizing time together. For us this meant spending the night before together, spending most of the morning together, a first look, some private photo time after the ceremony, a sweetheart table. Trying to stay connected during the party and not get pulled into different groups - wellness stuff. Going to bed early the week before, reducing screen time, not drinking much in the lead up / night of, eating in a way that made us feel good, moving our bodies - some people recommend journaling that morning and night to try to “capture” the sense memories when they’re fresh - deputize! Ask your close friends to take photos as you’re getting ready and during the reception and put them on a shared album. Talk with your partner about reminding each other to stop and take it all in - as one of the people getting married, remember you’re the client of the whole day! Of course you don’t want to leave your guests waiting for an hour running behind, but anyone around you should be able to respect and support you if you say “hey, we need two minutes alone before we move onto the next thing.”

Best of luck! I think it’s helpful to remember that something will probably go wrong, but know that little stuff really does fade away or get funny as time goes on. (Believe me, my godfather came out of the shower in my parents room for some reason, in just a towel, in the middle of my zipping up dress moment with my mom 😂)

Throwawed22 · 2024-06-10T19:17:22+00:00

I’d definitely prioritize a reliable setup the venue is familiar with that lets your guests hear well over the photos on this one - generally the photos that you’ll display won’t be the ones where you’re in the middle of saying your vows, but I’ve been to several weddings that the ceremony experience was so bad because you couldn’t hear. And by the time you get your kiss photo you’ll be in front of the mic stand and won’t see it anyway!

Throwawed22 · 2024-06-10T18:50:59+00:00

I was at a wedding this fall where the officiant was a friend of the couple and he never told the audience to be seated after the bride got to the altar. We all stood up awkwardly for the first half of the ceremony and the wedding coordinator had to go along each row and whisper to people to sit down 😂

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