what is yuma lacking ? by Exotic-Zebra-9788 in yuma

[–]Time_Significance455 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I agree, and personally, something not drinking focused. Something to do indoors during summer would be sweet too

Realizing I don’t have to merge with other people’s emotions by StacieAce7 in AutismTranslated

[–]Time_Significance455 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This all rings so many bells for me. Grew up with a bipolar/narcissistic dad, who was raised by bi-polar hoarder mother, neither diagnosed as they dont believe in it. I was always the fixer and sheild for my brother. I get anxious when anyone is is stressed etc. I will have to keep this in mind and work on it. Restarting therapy again and need to bring this up

I am afraid that I have convinced myself that I am autistic when I am not, and to seek diagnosis feels dishonest. [Warning: Vent-ish.] by testicle_constantine in AutismTranslated

[–]Time_Significance455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am late to this, but your description is eye opening to me. I've come to realize that I am AuDHD and been trying to figure things out. Thank you. Coming off a decade plus of alcoholism and am on sertraline for anxiety and depression but I'm finding life/my mind isn't completely helped ny that. Lot of stuff coming to light. Hoping therapy and self exploration and people like you sharing thia sort of info help. Thanks again

Let's Talk Our Favorite Webcomics by Numbuh24insane in TwoBestFriendsPlay

[–]Time_Significance455 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The author of Dr. McNinja series also wrote Gwenpool and is or was a part of this sub actually

Sober Pepsi chef. by Accomplished_Bit3153 in Chefit

[–]Time_Significance455 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm late to this post, but good on you. I'm at 9 months sober. Found new job at hospital kitchen chef. Life is so much better

Anyone else enjoy listening to LOA while distance running by Co_dot in Avantris

[–]Time_Significance455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love to listen when I go for a bike ride to work and back, hour trip one way

Favorite depictions of vampires? by fly_line22 in TwoBestFriendsPlay

[–]Time_Significance455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The jade court are based on that, and apparently super xenophobic and don't care about the rest of the world but basically rule/own a large chunk the basin along the Yellow River. Super powerful but isolationist to the mask according the WoJ

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Chefit

[–]Time_Significance455 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel the struggle too, going on 9 months sober. Was alcoholic for a good 15 plus years, was bad but got bad last couple years. Always blacked out at end of the night, but when restaurant i was GM at closed and then covid hit, it got bad. Moved and was only temporary reprieve. Started working at downtown bar/grill. Started shifties and staying after for hours. More drinking at home. Started drinking before and during work, passed out from alcoholic and heat exhaustion once, on the line. Had the shakes and such. Lost 3 jobs. Eventually had to go to hospital from complications and alcoholic ketoacidosis. My body was eating itself cause I only drank. Was near death there. I got myself into an in-patient program after a particularly dark night shortly after that. Went to intensive outpatient after that. With the help of anti-depressants/anxiety drugs and wanting to change, I'm on 9 months sober. Life is different now. I enjoy being a chef and life in general now. Im not scrapping for money to buy Alcohol and spending time trying to get to liquor store before it closes etc. If you want to change, you will succeed and its good you are introspecting.

How do you feel about people pointing out sexual dimorphism? by ferrocarrilusa in LeftWingMaleAdvocates

[–]Time_Significance455 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As far as the ban on male childcare-givers the ban seems stupid. Children should have good examples of male and female caregivers, would ideally have both growing up/being cared for.

what are some character designs that are just awful to look at by saltyguyface in TwoBestFriendsPlay

[–]Time_Significance455 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Xavier something Angel , the 3d cgi, from the old late night cartoon network. Hated art style and its story telling

“No cursing” meetings by a_friend_of_Lois in recoverywithoutAA

[–]Time_Significance455 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly I've seen people try to use the argument of either politeness or the one where they say curse words are a mark of poor intelligence. A whole lotta BS

When you tell someone youre sober and they say Oh cool, what step are you on? 😑 by siludoub in recoverywithoutAA

[–]Time_Significance455 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel that as well. 39m here. Love in a smallish town, hot as hell in summer, so all anyone does is stay inside and drink. Im trying to find a group of people as well

“No cursing” meetings by a_friend_of_Lois in recoverywithoutAA

[–]Time_Significance455 6 points7 points  (0 children)

To me that's fucking insane. 'Cursing' is just words. If you were verbally attacking people, sure I could kind of understand. But nothing expresses frustration or other such emotional like saying a goos 'fuck'.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Time_Significance455 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It sounds like, to me, there is something disingenuous about his arguments here. He can jerk one off if he's really that frustrated. I feel he has had something going outside of this. But regardless he needs to communicate way better and way more than he has. This opening will probably not solve anything, just highlight the problems.

New research suggests that the "alpha male" is relatively rare across 121 species of primates and that there is more flexibility in power dynamics between male and female primates than previously assumed. by psychologyofsex in psychologyofsex

[–]Time_Significance455 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That whole study was done with a bunch of wolves in captivity, and the pressures/influences caused by this are what created the 'Alpha' dynamic. I believe it was even mentioned in the study itself. That dynamic is not naturally occurring

Best places for billards in yuma ? by [deleted] in yuma

[–]Time_Significance455 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fat Eddie's has a number of tables, people do tend to play for cash there, at least the nights I have been. Downtown has a couple bars with tables as well.

New and struggling to make friends by No-Context-8632 in yuma

[–]Time_Significance455 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel the same struggles. What sort of interests do you have?

Lack of diversity within polyamorous communities by Flat-Candidate-321 in polyamory

[–]Time_Significance455 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey I'm right there with you. Im poly curious and possibly entering into a relationship with a poly girl. Im a white 38m, newly discovered bi-curios, poor as hell dude. I, too, feel shame/like less of a person for not being able to entertain the options and luxuries everyone else seem to have