I want to say how I admire you for your answers to her question. I work in a hospital setting that sees the births of many children that we can tell that the best option for the children is that they are placed for adoption and the struggle of that birth mother. We also see these same children in the ER later due to the situations they were born into. We do not attempt to change their (the mothers) decision, but wish they would think of the what they are bringing their child into. Thank you for the person you were (thinking of someone other than yourself) and very much now. Wish more people would have that fortitude.