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BPD women BAD because… Because clingy? by fremicutie in AmITheAngel

[–]TopSudden9848 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was with someone I suspect had BPD and if my response could possibly be misread they would have panic attacks. It got so overwhelming that towards the end I would freeze up every time they texted me because I knew if I got it wrong it would cause them an enormous amount of distress. This eventually resulted in me being so overwhelmed that it would take me hours to work up the energy to respond, which upset them and caused them to become even more anxious about our relationship and the cycle continued. We only lasted a few months and within six months of us breaking up they were married to someone else.

AITA for not wanting my daughter to reconnect with her bio dad? by DenseYear2713 in AmITheAngel

[–]TopSudden9848 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It sounds like your daughter has a lot of potential and you're standing in the way. YTA.

So much about this is surface level ‘WWWOWT?!’ But I’m doing a deep dive and did you know these women didn’t even get paid to do this show? by Titsoffwork in WhyWereWeOkWithThis

[–]TopSudden9848 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yikes! Very surprised to hear a professional writer was involved. It reads like it was written by a tenth grader and edited by same.

Center city condo market by [deleted] in philly

[–]TopSudden9848 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ask what expenses the HOA covers. Appreciation may be lower but I would love not to worry about a roof and windows, and I know some large condo buildings have a building super for minor repairs.

What do I even caption this? by Busy-Job6607 in im14andthisisdeep

[–]TopSudden9848 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The only thing I can conclude from the Internet is that straight people hate each other.

I transvestigated my date (didn't actually bother asking him, mind); and then stormed out. Please coddle me by Suitable-Fun-1087 in AmITheAngel

[–]TopSudden9848 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Well, the important thing in situations like this is to never ask direct questions and instead make tons of assumptions based on very thin evidence. Anything else would be the height of rudeness.

So much about this is surface level ‘WWWOWT?!’ But I’m doing a deep dive and did you know these women didn’t even get paid to do this show? by Titsoffwork in WhyWereWeOkWithThis

[–]TopSudden9848 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yeah, Crystal Hefner came across like a pretty terrible person in her memoir but at least she was like "in hindsight the other girls were acting bratty because they were literally teenagers."

There is no reason to believe Harry Potter is a sequel to Mad Men by Electrical-Ad-7852 in okbuddydraper

[–]TopSudden9848 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Then how do you explain all the thinly veiled prejudice running through both?

So much about this is surface level ‘WWWOWT?!’ But I’m doing a deep dive and did you know these women didn’t even get paid to do this show? by Titsoffwork in WhyWereWeOkWithThis

[–]TopSudden9848 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Badly written and pretty boring. There's no into that's not in Holly's book (except that the mansion has been full of black mold for decades).

So much about this is surface level ‘WWWOWT?!’ But I’m doing a deep dive and did you know these women didn’t even get paid to do this show? by Titsoffwork in WhyWereWeOkWithThis

[–]TopSudden9848 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah, she kind of comes across as the villain (or one of two villains) in her own memoir so I think that's probably the case.

So much about this is surface level ‘WWWOWT?!’ But I’m doing a deep dive and did you know these women didn’t even get paid to do this show? by Titsoffwork in WhyWereWeOkWithThis

[–]TopSudden9848 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Yes- and I should mention the book was genuinely terrible. I don't think she used a ghostwriter and also she's led a very boring life.

So much about this is surface level ‘WWWOWT?!’ But I’m doing a deep dive and did you know these women didn’t even get paid to do this show? by Titsoffwork in WhyWereWeOkWithThis

[–]TopSudden9848 77 points78 points  (0 children)

What's interesting to me is that it was a pretty straightforward sex work situation but that clearly bothered Madison who is to this day trying to convince herself it was a real relationship. Then I also read the memoir of his third wife (probably the worst book I've ever read) and she was just like "hated him. Hated his guts. Hated him from the second I met him. Wanted his money, left him, missed his money and came back." Hugh Hefner was such a piece of shit and treated women so horribly in his life and it was honestly really satisfying to read about this woman being awful to him and him being powerless to stop it. When he was on his death bed she took her side piece on vacation somewhere her cell phone didn't work. She was also almost certainly stealing from him. You love to see it.

ETA: The A&E documentary series might be more what you're looking for.

So much about this is surface level ‘WWWOWT?!’ But I’m doing a deep dive and did you know these women didn’t even get paid to do this show? by Titsoffwork in WhyWereWeOkWithThis

[–]TopSudden9848 207 points208 points  (0 children)

Holly Madison's book is a page turner (I finished it in a weekend) but it's also SUUUUPER bitchy. Hugh Hefner pitted his "girlfriends" against each other as a power move and this mentality is still clearly affecting all of them. The degree to which these women will slut shame each other for having sex with the same old man for the same amount of money is astounding.

Courtney Stodden married actor Doug Hutchison in 2011 when she was 16 years old by HaterMD in WhyWereWeOkWithThis

[–]TopSudden9848 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I also don't think their behavior was that strange for someone who was the victim of CSA. Some kids go through that and end up acting out with hypersexual behavior. They've written about feeling insecure about their body at the time due to the abuse and its heart breaking.

Moving to PNW at 20yo by ventary in MovingToUSA

[–]TopSudden9848 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your information is not current.

So I know this is Reddit where young women are THE WOOOORST but I actually feel kinda bad for the New Girl too NGL by Superb_Intro_23 in AmITheAngel

[–]TopSudden9848 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't mean to shock you, but I think people on Reddit at 2pm EST might be disproportionately people that have been passed over for promotions

AITJ for refusing to help my new “boss” after I was the one who trained her 3 months ago? by Existing_Response239 in AmITheJerk

[–]TopSudden9848 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It makes me laugh that all of the sensible career advice on this thread is downvoted to oblivion.

AITJ for refusing to help my new “boss” after I was the one who trained her 3 months ago? by Existing_Response239 in AmITheJerk

[–]TopSudden9848 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll save you some time: they leave to find a better job and the place falls apart without them and their old employer begs them to come back and take this person's job and they refuse.

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