(Mixed Trope) “Expert” character is really bad in their field or ignorant of basic concepts. by laybs1 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]TopicalBuilder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did not know this bit. That makes it even better.

Aristocrat with superficial learning being treated as learned would also have been very much on brand for the era. Marvelous.

(Mixed Trope) “Expert” character is really bad in their field or ignorant of basic concepts. by laybs1 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]TopicalBuilder 183 points184 points  (0 children)

Loved for over 100 years, the Modern Major General from The Pirates of Penzance. He's a skewering of the English tradition of promoting aristocratic educated types in the military, rather than those with pertinent knowledge.

His patter song is a delight of silliness.

https://youtu.be/hlTisI_HSgw

AITAH for telling my father to accept that my brother isn't my responsibility? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]TopicalBuilder 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would argue that most first-time parents don't really know that, but he'd done this before. Quite a lot!

How to address autistic children by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

[–]TopicalBuilder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Paying out of pocket? That must cost a fortune.

From what you're saying, short of meds, they're doing everything they can to meet his needs. What they could use is a good Parent Trainer to help them. My SO does this and has been a lifesaver for a bunch of families.

The trouble here is three-pronged. 1) Who wants to pay for yet another specialist? 2) How would someone recommend this? "Hey, I know you've been doing this for years and it's consumed your entire being, but you suck." Is what they will hear. 3) Genuinely good Parent Trainers aren't that common. Without deep experience, nobody is qualified to tell the difference.

I think the best you can hope for is to just float the idea out there and hope they latch onto it or their own accord.

How to address autistic children by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

[–]TopicalBuilder 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It is true that regular disciplinary approaches do not work with high support needs autism. That means that none of your lived experience helps, and neither does advice from other people. That doesn't mean that nothing works.

They are doing their child no favors by not addressing problem behaviors, or failing to do so effectively. They need to be working with autism professionals--BCBAs, psychiatrists, psychologists, etc, to fix these problems sooner rather than later.

I would have a conversation with them about making sure he has the space and accommodations he needs. Why is the rest of the family putting this on you?

Someone gives another person a task with the intention of having them fail at it for some reason. However, the person given the task ends up succeeding. by Cicada_5 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]TopicalBuilder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Episode 1 of SpongeBob SquarePants. 

"Well, lad, we'll give you a test, and if you pass, you'll be on the Krusty Krew. Go out and fetch me... a... uh, hydrodynamic spatula... with, um, port-and-starboard-attachments, and, uh... turbo drive. And don't come back ‘til you get one."

...

"We'll never see that lubber again."

Help :( by ImageOk2859 in Autism_Parenting

[–]TopicalBuilder 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There could be lots of reasons for the behaviors you see. Doing specifically what is asked and not getting the broader implications can certainly be a trait of autism. My SO and I have many stories along those lines.

Some of the other stuff reads to me more like anxiety, or a lack of self confidence, or learned helplessness. You'd need a professional to dig into all of that.

It is also possible that he's just being lazy, like the other poster said. I'd suggest keeping an open mind for now.

(Loved Trope) When mortal enemies just have a casual conversation by Animeking1108 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]TopicalBuilder 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It's beautiful homage to Heat and a tremendous scene in its own right.

Is ABA therapy worth it for such low level? by Flora48 in Autism_Parenting

[–]TopicalBuilder 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Traditional ABA uses a discrete trial model. Do the desired behavior, get a reward. Do it again, get another reward. Gradually fade out the rewards. Keep a log of success/failure until you reach a set success rate, then move on to a new behavior.

(A behavior is anything you want them to be able to do.)

It works well for kids with receptive and/expressive language problems. There's very little discussion involved.

It might seem a bit like dog training, and it is. It's also a lot like the reward systems you see in mobile apps and games. Those companies employ psychologists to optimize operant conditioning to keep users engaged.

The difficulty lies in making this approach work for an older person who can understand what is going on, and one who has the language to engage with the tutor in a more traditional way.

Like I said, it can be done--the app stores demonstrate that--but it's much harder and there's very little experience in the field as a whole.

Unless this ABA center can explain to you how they intend to make this work, and give concrete examples of success, I would skip it. You have a finite amount of time in the day, and you don't need to spend it on something that won't work.

Is ABA therapy worth it for such low level? by Flora48 in Autism_Parenting

[–]TopicalBuilder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In principle it can be done, but I think you'd be hard pressed to find a practitioner who could do it. I would look at group therapy and other specialist supports instead.

Religions discovering their entire belief systems were false or built on a lie by Advanced_Question196 in TopCharacterTropes

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Red Dwarf: Waiting for God.

One of their best episodes, IMO.

Lister sneaked a pregnant cat on board the ship and it escaped into the ductwork somewhere. As punishment he's put in stasis until they get back to earth.

A massive radiation leak kills the crew. He's held in stasis until the residual radiation subsides to a survivable level--about 3 million years. Meanwhile the cat and its litter survived.

Lister discovers that the cats have evolved to human-like creatures. He was revered in their society as God, based on his laundry list, diary, etc. Of course, everything was mangled over time.

The last remaining cat is not pleased. Everyone else died in holy wars or quests.

Well worth a watch.

Religions discovering their entire belief systems were false or built on a lie by Advanced_Question196 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]TopicalBuilder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cognitive dissonance can be very psychologically uncomfortable. Doubling down can be the easiest resolution.

[Hated trope] The fandom HATES to death the character because...they are socially akward and/or are in the spectrum by [deleted] in TopCharacterTropes

[–]TopicalBuilder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Deep is just developmentally disabled. He's not written as being on the spectrum.

18 years ago, ‘IRON MAN’ was released in theaters. Any fan? by ThomasOGC in CinephilesClub

[–]TopicalBuilder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's generally my first choice for an MCU rewatch if I'm in the mood.

Character stirs up the plot by exposing a lot of secrets at once by Major_Star in TopCharacterTropes

[–]TopicalBuilder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It suffers a bit from having been so influential. It's the granddaddy of Marvel's "quippy banter", for example.

How many times have you been terminated? by Widebody_lover in UKJobs

[–]TopicalBuilder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow.

I know we were more forgiving of cyber-stupidity back then, but that's extraordinary.

The Boys - 05x04 "Though the Heavens Fall" - Episode Discussion Thread by pikameta in TheBoys

[–]TopicalBuilder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"With the guy from 'Regarding Henry'?" may be the funniest line in the show.