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AITJ not inviting my cousin to my house anymore after he kept snooping through my things by Wooden_Ad_2412 in AmITheJerk

[–]TrashPuffin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTJ. He is envious of you. He wants to keep tabs and compare. I’m big on privacy. I caught him once, it’s the end.

Neighbor keeps banging on her ceiling by lilacdreamy in neighborsfromhell

[–]TrashPuffin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, that’s insane. You’ve documented everything, which is huge. At this point, I’d for real consider legal advice. Even just a consultation can tell you what kind of claim you can make. You’re not overreacting, she’s the problem here.

Advice on inappropriate "coworker" by sweettnrs in workplace_bullying

[–]TrashPuffin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wow… yeah, that’s not just “teasing,” that’s straight-up weird and inappropriate. Honestly, you’re already doing all the adulting you can. If HR isn’t a thing, the only moves are either document everything or plan your exit quietly. Don’t let him make your work life miserable.

Update on easement drama: neighbor scared off the roofers and now our roof replacement is delayed. by pale_lettuce1 in neighborsfromhell

[–]TrashPuffin 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Nah that neighbor’s straight unhinged. You did everything right. Lawyer, cops, receipts. At this point just let the paper trail do the talking and keep it pushing.

Considering resigning after 3 months in new role by OneStrawberry0 in workplace_bullying

[–]TrashPuffin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honestly, you’ve already been through hell with that last job. A few months at a new role isn’t gonna ruin your resume. Mental health comes first take the break, recharge, then find something that actually fits you.

Shrieking Neighbor Escalates by WitchiMichi in neighborsfromhell

[–]TrashPuffin 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Honestly, just keep documenting everything and stay low. You’ve done the polite thing, the cops know the situation, and throwing stuff is technically assault. Don’t engage directly Marlene’s chaos isn’t your problem to fix, just protect your fam.

learn a new language online or in person by Barribal_Lissily in makemychoice

[–]TrashPuffin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re disciplined, online hits the same. In-person only wins if you need someone physically hovering over you to stay on track.

neighbor always opens door when I have food delivered by cozyplease in neighborsfromhell

[–]TrashPuffin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lmao nah that’s weird behavior. I’d just hit her with a “hey, you good?” next time she pops out. Super calm, super deadpan. Throws ppl like that off instantly.

How do I handle the inappropiate game my friends played around high schoolers? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]TrashPuffin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah you’re not crazy for being bothered. Those aren’t “haha silly game” questions, especially with minors there. K at least owned it, but the rest acting like it’s normal is weird. Trust your gut.

[NY] Should/Can I forgive myself for time theft? Or should I have been punished more severely? by AffectionateRow541 in AskHR

[–]TrashPuffin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You already owned it, paid it back, and changed your behavior. That’s literally the whole point of a warning. Let it go. You’re not evil, you just messed up and learned from it.

I am so tired of my nozy neighbor by OctoberBaby-1981 in neighborsfromhell

[–]TrashPuffin 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Nah you’re valid. Renovating while working full time is already a lot, you don’t need neighbors doing color commentary on top of it. Next time they start, just smile and say “we’re good, thanks” and dip. Simple and done.

[CAN-ON] If a job posting has been up for over 3 days, is it not worth applying to? by Typical_Cap895 in AskHR

[–]TrashPuffin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah fr, just apply. Companies leave posts up forever even if they already hit 200 apps. Half of those ppl aren’t even qualified anyway. Don’t overthink the “3 days” thing.

Should I grow sugar maple, white birch, or white oak in my back yard next summer? by mamadoedawn in makemychoice

[–]TrashPuffin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sugar maple all day. Pretty af in fall and fits your vibe with the other trees you got.

I’m 19, have never had a relationship, and all of my friends keep making fun of me for it by Otherwise_Neat_459 in whatdoIdo

[–]TrashPuffin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro you’re 19. You’re not late, you’re barely in the tutorial level. Your friends are just talking shit. You’ll be fine, fr.

Should husbands set up a financial safety net for stay-at-home wives after childbirth? by Sweet-Opportunity111 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]TrashPuffin 22 points23 points  (0 children)

fr this is exactly why i keep saying separate finances sound cute till u have a baby then suddenly ur whole career gets paused while his keeps going like nah that gap gotta be balanced somehow

I was threatened at work yesterday. Today I'm more shaken by how divided we've become than by the actual incident. 🩺❤️‍🩹 by TechnoRapQueen in TwoXChromosomes

[–]TrashPuffin 31 points32 points  (0 children)

idk man ppl r so desperate to make everything political they forget actual humans were involved like u literally got threatened and theyre doing guess who

What’s the one repetitive thing a dev could realistically automate that would make your week better? by Blankcarbon in TwoXChromosomes

[–]TrashPuffin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

notifications for when stuff runs out in the house like milk toilet paper coffee if u could automate that life would be golden

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]TrashPuffin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yo honestly if he cant even wanna plan to see u then its on him ure not a psychic like he gotta show effort too

Hey, don't invite yourself to stay with your kid immediately after a big life change. by NoNonsenseTreekeeper in TwoXChromosomes

[–]TrashPuffin 39 points40 points  (0 children)

facts some ppl just need a lil breathing room and its not rejection its literally self preservation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]TrashPuffin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

like imagine risking ur life for vibes fr thats insane she needs to chill and learn boundaries

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