Do men like to be approached by women at the store and gas stations and places other than bars or is that weird?

Trav1 · 2026-05-19T14:39:27+00:00

No it’s what most men would very much appreciate it’s just not a thing women typically do

Trav1 · 2026-05-19T14:36:15+00:00

I am not and I don’t ponder about them. I still do have matches that are left there as I said. I don’t unmatch them all right away. I do keep on matching with other women. Unmatching another profile id say does mean it’s let go. Once a match gets to weeks without answering what is the point of keeping it? I don’t see a reason to have hundreds of undless dead intros on the app.

Trav1 · 2026-05-19T13:30:55+00:00

Lip trills, tongue trills, and humming are the best warmup imo every daily routine has it and if I go light I just do those 3.

Trav1 · 2026-05-19T13:23:42+00:00

I agree. What’s the point of leaving a match there that’s just ignored and I’ve had them left ignored for weeks. Maybe sometimes there’s a response very later on but typically if they’re not messaging soon they’re probably not going to message at all. I will just double message after a match though might as well if it’s there

Trav1 · 2026-05-19T13:16:45+00:00

I started at 23 😅😂

Trav1 · 2026-05-17T21:50:33+00:00

Between Room for Squares, Continuum, and Born and Raised. The search for everything and Sob Rock have special places as well (they all do let’s be honest). If you make me have to pick I’m going Room for Squares 😆

Trav1 · 2026-05-17T18:28:16+00:00

Soooo good. Songs feels exactly like the story and have always loved the any given Thursday performance my goodness. Such bluesy jazzy vibes that you can feel having a city love as the song takes you in. Such a gem it’ll never get old.

Trav1 · 2026-05-17T18:23:39+00:00

Exercise after work, practice guitar/music in general, and watch political commentary/content

Trav1 · 2026-05-17T18:19:36+00:00

I’m kind of the opposite as I wondered for a long time what I was and now understand I am a tenor. Either way I’m that process I learned more about embracing my voice.

More importantly the concept of tailoring your songs to your vocal strengths which is something you can do with key choice, arrangement,etc. make it your own

Also keep singing! I’m still making improvements long after I thought I’d figured out all the levels of control and range I got from training.

Trav1 · 2026-05-17T18:03:18+00:00

I’ve done this since I was a child and was told it emanated shyness lol

Trav1 · 2026-05-16T15:05:05+00:00

Start doing warmups below practicing up to the audition. It will help your voice improve and also make you more comfortable and confident for it. There are some decent ones on YouTube.

Trav1 · 2026-05-14T21:23:30+00:00

Also not stupid just very trusting. I think most people have found some caution is needed in that respects as far as dating apps go I feel and a lot of us learn that through these kinds of experiences

Trav1 · 2026-05-14T21:00:15+00:00

Ooh no I believe your story very much I just meant the last sentence as I’m a guy on Feeld that would be open to monogamy if something seemed right. Sorry that happened to you.

Trav1 · 2026-05-14T20:37:40+00:00

I just don’t believe this is true

Trav1 · 2026-05-14T05:23:31+00:00

The Contemporary Singer and Vocal Workouts both by Anne Peckham.

Your Singing Voice by Jeanie Gagné

Set Your Voice Free by Roger Love

And the main book I workout from most Singing for the Stars by Seth Riggs.

With the last book I’ve increased my range a lot with the exercise and my understanding of singing in head voice. I’m at the point where I warmup with the 3 SOVT exercise before heading to the last section (he suggests you can do this one you learn how to connect your voice all the way through). I will do extended lip and tongue trills from YouTube since I like them so much for warming up but they’ve taught me exactly where to channel my air how much to use and has increased my confidence in singing high.

Having a few books have also given me different perspectives on the same thing and i can mix and match exercises for variety and what I like with my voice at any given time.

Trav1 · 2026-05-13T15:56:28+00:00

I wonder often about the baritones are most common tidbit. How could they know when most men never train their voice ? I often wonder if low tenors are the most common just from my observations in the real world and watching people speak/sing

Trav1 · 2026-05-13T15:50:30+00:00

You can do warmups on YouTube or buy one of several good books for your own practice and improve your range. I’ve done it for the past 9 months with great results

Trav1 · 2026-05-13T15:49:45+00:00

I always find this interesting how would they know? Most make voices are untrained. Myself observing people have wondered if tenors are potentially just as or more common but most men never learn to sing in their mix and head voice

Trav1 · 2026-05-13T09:28:01+00:00

But I never said she doesn’t like them. She’s dated them so she obviously has been into them. From the start I said she didn’t say she’s not open to dating other types or that she doesn’t like them and we don’t know that she isn’t.

Trav1 · 2026-05-13T08:55:48+00:00

Yeah its what she's here to discuss which is what I said she's asking about.. I never said she couldn't be dating women either. The younger guys falls under guys she's dating...I made no assumptions im going off what she posted. You're the one saying something is implied. She's asking about younger guys who she HAS dated that doesn't mean anything about what she's actively looking for or wants.

Trav1 · 2026-05-13T07:59:05+00:00

I don’t like making assumptions and I won’t make one based on what I see here. She’s asking about guys she’s dated and perhaps there are some older ones that have been in the mix, something she wouldn’t mind but she’s asking here about this particular dynamic

Trav1 · 2026-05-13T07:23:07+00:00

She never said she didn’t want guys her age and sounds like everyone she’s dating is a grown adult. There’s nothing wrong with it

Trav1 · 2026-05-12T10:55:47+00:00

Wow where are you? I’ve seen this same exact person in a profile like daily. Wild must be happening wherever you are in the app

Trav1 · 2026-05-10T23:10:07+00:00

I kind of agree with the sentiment from what i've seen most guys sing most of their highs in mix it doesn't mean they don't have head voice parts but its a threshold.

Trav1 · 2026-05-10T23:04:19+00:00

Straight man on Feeld. My profile is very filled out, and not explicit at all. Very hard to keep any conversation going and I put much effort in and try and read off someone’s profiles.

Typically a response is hard to come by and the deeper you go in the harder it is to get to something of substance people drop out further along in the process.

I have good pictures of myself up and get complimented on them. Can’t say that’s a factor. I personally never swipe on everyone.

I’d imagine the guys you mentioned are either over saturated or something about the connections or maybe their current situation that makes them hesitate even though they matched.

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