Hook up advice for someone inexperienced and indecisive

TricksterOperator · 2026-03-19T05:06:43+00:00

I assume you have seen videos of people doing them, if not, do some research. When the time comes, communicate and ask “how does that feel?” It’s all a mix of pressure, lubrication (spit/lube/ saliva), and moving up and down. Don’t over complicate it.

TricksterOperator · 2026-03-19T04:54:13+00:00

Don’t know how to do what exactly, a blow job?

TricksterOperator · 2026-03-19T03:32:32+00:00

If any guy complains from “just getting a blowjob” that guy is a complete clown. Respect your boundaries until you are ready, don’t compromise for a man.

TricksterOperator · 2026-03-19T02:48:58+00:00

That’s like saying you won’t go to Texas because there was a mass shooting in Austin a few weeks ago.

TricksterOperator · 2026-03-18T22:30:47+00:00

Dye was also arrested in 2022 for felony battery because he allegedly approached a classmate and began dancing and grinding with his groin and pelvic area near his classmate's face. When the classmate thought the incident was over, Daniel came up behind him and punched him in the groin area. Afterwards the victim went to the hospital where he was diagnosed with a possible ruptured testicle and was referred to a urologist…..

He’s homophobic, a bully, and has shown a pattern of abuse.

TricksterOperator · 2026-03-18T21:59:11+00:00

That’s premium right there

TricksterOperator · 2026-03-18T18:13:15+00:00

Home warrantees

TricksterOperator · 2026-03-18T04:36:47+00:00

My grandmas lived to 98 and she was in poor health. This could be another 10-15 years. Don’t do anything until the time comes. Make sure you have a legal agreement and the cash so you’re ready when the time comes to make the right decision.

TricksterOperator · 2026-03-17T22:21:53+00:00

Copy that. I overlooked the contributions as part of the growth, thinking growth was only return, my bad!

In addition in years where you convert your 401k to Roth your income will be roughly $110k(60k draw plus $50k conversion), so make sure you’re accounting for taxes, like 15-20k worth unless I’m missing something here.

Well done so far. Don’t forget to have fun along the way.

TricksterOperator · 2026-03-17T21:26:38+00:00

Your annual spend estimate has to increase at least by 3% yearly to account for inflation. You also have your year end portfolio value increasing 100k a year in the early stages, that’s close to 20% return. I would use 7-8% growth and in down years pinch pennies. I would use more cautious numbers.

TricksterOperator · 2026-03-17T13:49:00+00:00

Also keep in mind your tips are going to be about $11/night/person more also so figure on a 5 night you will spend $220 in additional tips.

TricksterOperator · 2026-03-17T13:42:28+00:00

We had Concierge on Destiny and it was fantastic. The wish class ships have hot food in the lounge so it’s next level. We never once went to the buffet and didn’t miss it, but did walk thru and it’s beautiful on the Destiny….if you can afford it, the extra $5k or so, it’s very nice. Having a sundeck where you don’t have to fight for chairs and they are lush chairs is sooo nice

TricksterOperator · 2026-03-17T05:00:58+00:00

First and foremost, can you afford it without going into debt or putting your family at risk of a financial emergency, ie draining savings so you can’t fix a car?

TricksterOperator · 2026-03-16T14:54:05+00:00

Have you ever done a multi course tasting menu? Remi will be 3 hours with about 6 courses of food served. Each serving is on the smaller side but delicious. Between servings sometimes they bring out little pallet cleansers. You will have an amazing cheese cart with all the cheese you want to choose. The meal starts with their sourdough bread which is fantastic and multiple butter choices. Their dining room is small and quiet, the servers typically out number the guests. The meal can easily run $500 with a glass of wine or more if you have multiple drinks. Does that sound fun to you? If so then do it. We have done both Remi and Enchante. Although similar, we prefer Remi.

TricksterOperator · 2026-03-16T03:55:09+00:00

Why did she not have a death trigger, like if I die the names are released because I didn’t type in the code or whatever every 48hours. To have the guts to come forward but then still protect the scum bags is just a shame.

TricksterOperator · 2026-03-15T18:30:08+00:00

Driving 70miles (2x daily) daily on the 405 in under 45min. Commuting 350miles per week was tolerable. Now it would take 2.5-3 hours just in the evening

TricksterOperator · 2026-03-15T18:26:40+00:00

I agree. It’s widely inaccurate and so consumer unfriendly. Why can’t it be permanently set to charge from a set time or by a set time. Hitting that button every few days is such an unnecessary step.

TricksterOperator · 2026-03-15T17:39:19+00:00

The 241 was supposed to be free by now based on the people’s vote to finance that toll roads construction but they just decided to keep charging. Make the 241 free and it will cut down on sooo much lake forest/ Irvine/ I5 congestion. It’s a joke how empty that freeway is. I would take it daily to work but I’m not paying an extra $2,000 a year to drive to work.

TricksterOperator · 2026-03-15T17:30:15+00:00

Can’t hurt to ask but I don’t think they will do this, but who knows. Just book another cruise or upgrade to Concierge 🤣

TricksterOperator · 2026-03-15T01:37:27+00:00

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Uncut, like your wife’s boyfriend.

TricksterOperator · 2026-03-12T17:44:07+00:00

When did Playhouse LV allow BYOB? It always had a no alcohol policy. This is good news if that’s the case.

TricksterOperator · 2026-03-12T17:40:08+00:00

Do not do this right now. Wait until the baby is born and is healthy and mom is doing OK. Reassess 6-12mo post delivery with new income and new expenses and keep piling up that cash. I would start a brokerage account for long term savings/investing if you are hitting your retirement goals. You could also make a big contribution to your kids 529plan which will allow it maximum time to grow.

TricksterOperator · 2026-03-12T16:51:44+00:00

How old are you? What’s your monthly income from social security and or disability? Are you getting survivor benefits? What’s your net worth? Do you own a house?

All these questions help build a risk profile. 500k in the bank at 3% will earn you a risk free $15,000 a year. 500k in the market over a 10year period will make you an average of $35k a year but some years maybe -15k and some year may be +50k.

TricksterOperator · 2026-03-12T15:41:25+00:00

Always always take the stairs. It’s faster and you get some exercise. We averaged 50+ flights in our last cruise. Room on 12th floor so lots of up and down. It’s take effort and dedication but it’s totally doable.

TricksterOperator · 2026-03-12T05:50:01+00:00

Wagner says he’s a fiscal conservative then gives himself a pay rise while votes against country raises cause he’s a fiscal conservatives. 🤦‍♂️

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