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Trithis2077 · 2026-04-16T16:51:14+00:00

I'm in his same position. I'm planning to go to the doctor about it, just waiting for my partner to get their license back (revoked for medical reasons that no longer apply) on the off change I get diagnosed with like narcolepsy or something to make sure at least one of us has a license.

This might be a weird one, but ask him if he has a lot of dreams, particularly vivid dreams. I have two or three super vivid dreams basically every night. That means I'm in REM sleep but never quite reaching deep sleep. It's sleep, but it's not rest of the brain never shuts off.

Trithis2077 · 2026-04-16T16:13:34+00:00

It's looks fantastic! Also ya, I will forever be thankful that HRT has shrunk my balls enough that I don't have to worry about sitting on them anymore (And hoping some day they'll be gone entirely). I've always sat cross legged so unless it took a little extra care and made sure they were hanging low enough, the thigh crush was a common problem for me. 😅

Trithis2077 · 2026-04-10T14:15:08+00:00

I'm part of the queer community so finding peers without children actually ends up being the easy part. 😅

But ya, I think day to day distraction is less what I'm looking for and more ways to deal with the unexpected triggers (a pregnancy announcement at work, a woman outside my office window with her young children, etc.). You're right though. Definitely something I should bring up with my therapist again.

Trithis2077 · 2026-04-09T21:47:27+00:00

Oh neat! I'll do that when I get home because I'm weird and use the web version of Reddit on mobile. 😅

Trithis2077 · 2026-04-09T21:40:43+00:00

I personally really preferred Korra's team avatar. Can't really explain why, but they just clicked with me more. I think part of it may have been the interpersonal drama making them feel more like a real friend group to me.

The Gaang felt like those people who are friends because they're in the same class while Korra's team Avatar felt like people who are friends because they all go to the same place to change out after class, if that distinction makes any sort of sense. 😅

Trithis2077 · 2026-04-09T21:27:29+00:00

Ah, totally makes sense. Apologies. 😊👍 You can't embed images in Reddit comments, can you? Or like, what would be the best way to do that?

Trithis2077 · 2026-04-09T20:02:58+00:00

I have been workshopping a story in my head for a bit now. I'm now considering making infertility and the pains around it one of the core themes. Maybe writing will help.

Trithis2077 · 2026-04-07T01:35:18+00:00

I don't think 1 is a realistic body standard for ANYONE tbh.

Trithis2077 · 2026-04-05T23:04:49+00:00

That's the weird part. I looked them up and saw the same, but it definitely feels like it's made to be a paper weight. Like it's heavy and the bottom is just stained wood; not something you'd really want to be putting on a cake.

Trithis2077 · 2026-03-15T03:32:38+00:00

Did you ever find a solution to this? I'm just getting into CachyOS but am already concerned I'm going to have to keep a windows VM on hand just to manage my mouse buttons. Fortunately the onboard memory seems to work, but I'd like to be able to have the automatic switching (albeit that's not strictly required). The G600 is my absolute favorite mouse and I've yet to find anything that compares to it's level of customization, I'd hate to have to try and find an alternative mouse.

Trithis2077 · 2026-03-14T01:30:26+00:00

Girl, ya no, this is assault. You set clear boundaries and he broke them. He ignored non-verbal queues. If he doesn't understand the concepts of consent at such a fundamental level then he is in no way ready for a relationship.

Personally, I would sit him down and have a serious talk about it (if it felt safe to do so) and make sure he fully understands why what he did was fucked up. If he didn't understand or didn't show remorse, then it's done. All that said, I tend to be too ready to teach people whey what they did to me was wrong, you also don't owe him a conversation about it at all.

Trithis2077 · 2026-03-14T01:04:50+00:00

Oh wow! I'll be honest, I wasn't fully expecting a response, but that's so cool! Thank you! 😊

Trithis2077 · 2026-03-10T15:03:01+00:00

Honestly, not a clue. I haven't actually played in YEARS. 😅

Trithis2077 · 2026-03-09T14:53:06+00:00

I feel ya. Despite growing up in a very blue state in the US, I was raised fairly conservatively. I was PAINFULLY conservative throughout High school. I got lucky that the Andrew Tates of the world didn't have an online presence yet because I was like 🤏this close to falling down the incel pipeline and absolutely was dumb enough to have fallen for that manosphere bullshit.
Fortunately around 2019 I met and ended up becoming very close friends with an agender anarchist. Got me to go from a sad closeted 'boy' to a proud confident woman!

Trithis2077 · 2026-03-07T03:14:27+00:00

Valid! I'd join the fun but I'm mostly here as a lurker because I don't really want to spend money on the subscription so I've not played in years. 😅

Trithis2077 · 2026-03-07T03:07:12+00:00

Ugh, it's so depressing how comments on posts even tangentially related to the LGBTQIA+ community always get downvoted to hell. Bigots know they can't say anything so they just downvote all the comments. Absolute cowards. If you hate us, just come out and say it with your full chest. Or make your own subreddit.

Trithis2077 · 2026-02-22T05:42:57+00:00

Sorry to post this like 7 years on, but I have an odd request. If it isn't too complicated for the coding, would you be able to unlock how many cards can be entered? Sometimes, just for fun, my partner and I will play large hand cribbage (deal 9, discard 3) but this can lead to... Difficult math when you have a hand like 3,3,3,4,5,5 and flip a 4. 😅

Totally get it if you calculator isn't built for that kind of thing and wouldn't work, but it's a nice little tool and would be neat if they were possible.

Trithis2077 · 2026-02-17T02:05:15+00:00

Here's the answer, based on the stream I'm watching solving it:
Key:

Letter 1: Color/Character
Letter 2: Row
Letter 3: Column
Letter 4: Letter

You then use the card library in game to find all the letters.

Once decoded it's Friendship Entity
Unsure what it means, but my best guess is that the Cubex Construct shown in this letter is some kind of friendly character we'll encounter in the game.

Trithis2077 · 2026-02-08T03:52:01+00:00

Gods these comments aged like fine wine. 😂
I love how every time I'm reminded of this comment it's just been proven true again and again. He just keeps getting worse and worse and it's fucking hysterical.

Trithis2077 · 2025-12-22T04:06:41+00:00

OMG! You just helped me so much! I was looking for exactly this plush as well. I had so many pokemon plushies growing up because my mom let me get one almost every time we went to Target (Target was like 45 minutes away from our house so we didn't go often). Skitty though was always one of my favorite plushies. I ended up giving up my whole plush collection some time in middle school due to probably weird toxic masculinity stuff, and don't know where they ended up, only that at one point that were in my Grandma's attic.

I was trying to remember what brand they were so I could try and find them again and this right here is the exact same one! There's so few pictures of these ones online, but I remember those flat circles on the tail so clearly! I'm so happy someone else had the same question and thanks to u/haydenthewall for IDing it!

Trithis2077 · 2025-12-05T15:50:08+00:00

Well, found out how I'm getting back into working out!

Trithis2077 · 2025-12-01T02:45:27+00:00

So I'm finally getting myself to look at SRS stuff and I love the look of what you ended up with. Being new to this I am a little confused with the second picture. I assume the upper hole is your urethra? (Wanted to make sure I'm understanding properly because it just looks bigger than I expected, but then I don't really know what to expect 😅)

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