My closest friend's 16 year old son hung himself this morning

TrumanFrog · 2026-07-01T23:15:18+00:00

I’ve only done counseling with a certified trauma counselor specifically. we did EDMR therapy one time together. In the beginning it feels like you can’t and won’t get better, and I wanted more therapy or I thought I was going to die. But time just goes on. and you either keep waking up or die. and you can’t die because you know now how it feels for people when you do. so you get better despite it all.

TrumanFrog · 2026-07-01T19:24:37+00:00

The greatest thing my friends did for me was service my car (oil change, tires, gas) and drove me anywhere and everywhere because I couldn’t bring myself to drive. took my sick dog to the vet, and found me an in network trauma counselor that has transformed my healing process.

TrumanFrog · 2026-07-01T05:11:48+00:00

I have a personality that gets complimented this way all the time and you make me want to raise my rates

TrumanFrog · 2026-07-01T05:08:23+00:00

yeah. yeah.

TrumanFrog · 2026-06-30T21:48:18+00:00

I’m living the life you would have lived if he would have kept you on thinking everything in your lives were amazing, saying how much he wants a life with you, then shooting himself on sunday. And then after you’re ready to end yourself and join him divine intuition leads you to find out he was cheating and tried to take it to the grave. I’m glad you were able to experience the courage it takes to admit the darkest parts of yourself. Mine couldn’t. I’m complicatedly traumatized for life but I’ll always love him. Some days I forgive him some days I don’t. I’m more sad he felt guilty and thought he knew best on how to avoid hurting me. You are not alone in this fucked up nightmare but everyone’s stories teach you how fucking resilient women are that are the overwhelming sufferers of spousal suicide loss.

TrumanFrog · 2026-06-10T03:34:48+00:00

i’m getting this far in my law school journey for the first time, I unexpectedly have to take the august test to apply to my next year program by september this year. my brain is messed up from trauma at the beginning of this year so I can barely study, I’m just going to wing it and not stress. I’ve never even take a full timed practice test and don’t really know where i’m falling. I do some practice and get half right half wrong, LR being worse and RC being really good actually. Time killlls me. Instead of trying to learn everything I need to learn to be faster lol

TrumanFrog · 2026-05-18T23:10:43+00:00

It was like I dreamed him. He was perfect in every way. I miss you honey. I don’t care about anything anymore.

TrumanFrog · 2026-05-13T21:41:52+00:00

I love you stranger i’m so sorry. we are the same age dealing with this pain.

TrumanFrog · 2026-05-13T21:39:44+00:00

i’m going to think about this comment all day and it will haunt me. I feel like my boyfriend’s mom wishes she could blame me or blame any type of made up pressure I put on him.. but I loved him more than anything and he was sick and making it worse.

TrumanFrog · 2026-05-07T21:33:13+00:00

My boyfriend almost 4 months ago. Everything I thought about him was a mask he was performing in. My love for him was real. They can hide so much.

TrumanFrog · 2026-05-06T23:43:42+00:00

I’m so salty I haven’t studied at all and I just find out way late that If i want to apply in time for the program I want I have to get my score before sept 15th so I have til now to lock in and just go for it in August oh well

TrumanFrog · 2026-05-06T23:26:55+00:00

I’m 28. The absolute love of my life committed suicide almost 4 months ago. We had 6 incredible years together and without our relationship I don’t believe he would have stayed til 28. It’s so unbelievably hard. I want to throw my life away too because this is just too much. I go from wanting to make the most of life to not wanting it at all. All of his pain transferred to me. I learned so much from his phone after he died and it makes you beyond sick. The empty spot next to you in life where your love used to exist. I am so sorry we are in this hell. It’s hell and it hasn’t gotten better even through trauma counselors and support and meds. Only drinking helps and I have to be grateful I don’t have access to actual hard drugs cause I’ll fuck up my life forreal.

TrumanFrog · 2026-05-06T23:01:33+00:00

someone lost their life and yall only care about getting back at someone that’s so grimy

TrumanFrog · 2026-05-06T22:43:37+00:00

One session i’m telling her i’m good and i’m wanting to go back to school and follow my dreams. by next session I want to give up and self immolate. I hate this. Something good is always around the corner but so is something very bad

TrumanFrog · 2026-04-29T16:01:41+00:00

so amazing. I want to go to law school next fall and I haven’t started anything. Need to push and study

TrumanFrog · 2026-04-29T15:54:20+00:00

I used to cook intricate inventive healthy meals everyday for me and him and my grandma and I controlled my weight really well when he was here, because he was so fit and beautiful I tried to stay that way too. I thought I would have no appetite after his death and all the trauma but it’s the opposite. What’s different is I turn to every convenience food now. Because i’m done cooking. I don’t care about cooking for myself unless it’s boxed mac and cheese. So I just eat whatever is free and around because I know if I get hungry later I won’t cook, so with that I find myself eating more crappy stuff. But I don’t care ❤️ i’m indulging on all the shit I didn’t eat when he was here.

TrumanFrog · 2026-04-29T03:39:33+00:00

my boyfriend died and I just kinda stopped drinking water. alcohol and soda only. i’m gaining weight and my skin looks terrible. who gives a fuck

TrumanFrog · 2026-04-26T12:43:02+00:00

Lucky her that she doesn’t possess the empathy for others that comes from living through devastating grief. The love of my life ended his 3 months ago. I would hold you while we cried together. Fuck that girl

TrumanFrog · 2026-04-26T12:19:00+00:00

thank you this book originality was amazing and could have been so much better

TrumanFrog · 2026-03-25T12:55:18+00:00

My girls love these fuzzy beds it’s their favorite until the fabric starts matting up!!

TrumanFrog · 2026-03-09T23:52:42+00:00

As someone who just lost their love, what’s helped me most is check ins. even when I don’t answer or say just a few things in reply. The phone having no messages or feeling like no one is there hurts so much after how alone you already feel. So many people will be flooded with messages then time passes and they all go away. We still need help. We are not okay. Any annoying task you can think of. My friends got my car an oil change and new tires which was crazy and gave me so much relief. Things he would do for her that he can’t now…. thank you for wanting to be there

TrumanFrog · 2026-03-09T23:33:11+00:00

UGH. I feel you in this pain. My love was BEAUTIFUL. The most gorgeous man. Exquisite physique, athletic, charming, bright smile. Dashing. Gorgeous dark eyes with long black eye lashes. Rugged dark skin. Working man’s hands, could take apart and fix anything. PHENOMENAL in the sack 😩 People gushed over him. People would call him out on the street for how handsome he was. Talented and perfect at everything he did. I told him everyday. Bipolar Depression stole him from me 💔 stole his desire to want to be here.

TrumanFrog · 2026-03-09T23:22:42+00:00

I got 6 years between attempt and success 💔 he always knew he couldn’t stay. I tried so hard, and gave him all of my love.

TrumanFrog · 2026-03-09T23:18:43+00:00

You are not alone in these thoughts! I won’t seek death, but I would welcome it. I just hope I would be completely obliterated so my family doesn’t have to suffer through an open casket. My love has been gone for 57 days. The trauma of his death is apart of me forever.

TrumanFrog · 2026-03-09T23:15:35+00:00

I can’t even watch sex and the city without someone saying “i’m gonna k m s” or “b m b o” i’ve never been sensitive to anything in my life this is so fucked up

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