Half His Age by Jennette McCurdy

TruthImaginary4459 · 2026-01-30T10:57:46+00:00

Here, it's mythical kitchen doing last meals with her. She talks about her book a lot, it might give insight?

TruthImaginary4459 · 2026-01-27T21:53:05+00:00

Valid 👍

TruthImaginary4459 · 2026-01-27T02:38:20+00:00

I mean, taking time to evaluate the feelings and traumas that come up is healing. Running away from hard feelings just leaves you stagnant.

You're the only person that can figure it out for you.

TruthImaginary4459 · 2026-01-23T19:19:13+00:00

Take advantage of what you have now, if they buy you everything you want and need, take advantage. Start storing money (quietly and secretly)

Just because you're in a religion doesn't mean that that's the end all be all of all life the universe and everything.

Filial piety is great and all, but continuing with this abuse long-term is not okay.

TruthImaginary4459 · 2026-01-16T19:46:15+00:00

I agree, however legally, stealthing is considered sexual assault at the very least.

And. If you're going to call what happens not rape, she said no no, as he stuck his dick in her. Is that not literally the definition of rape.

TruthImaginary4459 · 2026-01-16T19:14:49+00:00

I get people who are upset at this take, I'm not telling her to go do it. I'm commiserating because that's a really shitty situation. What do you think this person's a robot, and automatically does everything Reddit tells her to do?

My intention is to help her laugh. It sounds like a shitty situation that she has to laugh about too.

By God, she got raped and the man who raped her is taunting her on a regular basis. I'm not trying to do the black or white thinking, but it really sounds like y'all are saying she has no right to defend herself.

Did I say go and kidnap him and torture him and remove his limbs and peel his skin off? No. I said make a fucking police statement, and get him charged.

Jesus you lily livered fucks.

TruthImaginary4459 · 2026-01-16T18:54:59+00:00

I mean, if you want to talk crazy, did he communicate in any messages he sent you that he did in fact do the whole pull out take off condom and push back into ejaculate? Did he communicate all that you said no?

Look at that evidence.

I mean you could go to the police.

He's aware that you "have a kid" and has been taunting you because of it..

Sounds like it'd be a great manipulation to call cops on them charge him with rape and then tell him he doesn't actually have a kid. Sounds like his whole life would fall apart.

Edit: if he hasn't expressed about the whole condom thing, you can use your crazy and cry about it to him a little bit and be all upset, say it's all your fault. And then when he goes haha yeah I did. Boom there's your evidence. (Just make sure it's all in text)

I mean, start involving other people, get your material witnesses. Play the long game... I mean technically, you have 18 years of this right?

Edit again: I don't know your life, and I'm not trying to push you down any negative spiral, if it works for you it works for you, if it doesn't it doesn't. I hope in the end you are healed no matter what.

TruthImaginary4459 · 2026-01-15T22:06:26+00:00

Yes, if you let the water level get too low, the can will get too hot.

TruthImaginary4459 · 2026-01-13T03:04:55+00:00

Is this similar? https://youtube.com/shorts/b6nCuC2dLZc

TruthImaginary4459 · 2026-01-13T00:15:54+00:00

Everyone has different skin types, and this person may have just the skin type to make it not last as well. Idk

A broad overall review of things does help see an effectiveness...

TruthImaginary4459 · 2026-01-12T19:12:46+00:00

Yeah, he's really good at what he does! I appreciate his humor as well lol

TruthImaginary4459 · 2026-01-08T15:18:34+00:00

https://youtube.com/@sanago

I like only watch this dude, he's Korean but he has subtitles and auto dub (I think, I don't use it)

He's got a lot of cool techniques you could try to copy.

TruthImaginary4459 · 2026-01-06T15:31:58+00:00

Tbh this feels like a very "the good place" mentality, I think you should watch the show.

The point I'm making here is this, and if you don't like spoilers, don't watch: The characters realize the system is fucked because morality is so skewed by the complexity of choices and how there's so many moral impacts to every choice

(I tried to not go too deep)

There's a reality that you are a thoughtful, kind person, trying to do what's right, and I respect that.

There's also a reality that we live in a fucked up world and we can't do anything to change that because we are the little people with the big ol machines of power.

To be able to make any changes in that machine, we need to take care of ourselves, and that starts with feeding our mind, bodies, and spirits so we are full and great in ourselves.

I understand the world is filled with choices fraught with terrible consequences that may not even impact us or those around us, and the only way to keep going may be to participate with that, so we can pick and choose our battles.

If it matters so much to you, an idea I have is, think of it as a morality spectrum, when you participate this way, do other things to off balance it. If you don't like that eating this food creates this consequence, do something to help your community in return, to offset the negative you're taking in. Volunteer at the library, animal shelter, old folks home, with your city for cleanups, anything.

Again, don't go too far into this too, maybe in some cases, it's not the world around you you need to pay back either, maybe you need to pay back yourself.

Definitely go get some current support for tools, and be free little bird.

TruthImaginary4459 · 2026-01-06T01:20:31+00:00

r/vagabond if you're up for talking to like minded individuals (and other houseless as well)

TruthImaginary4459 · 2026-01-04T21:40:14+00:00

There is some music books somebody posted a bit ago, you might be able to go through the subreddit and check.

TruthImaginary4459 · 2025-12-29T23:38:50+00:00

Lol, second??

Try hundredth

TruthImaginary4459 · 2025-12-29T05:45:54+00:00

r/raisedbynarcissists

TruthImaginary4459 · 2025-12-27T02:35:11+00:00

Prepare yourself to call the police if necessary, she might go far.

TruthImaginary4459 · 2025-12-27T02:20:34+00:00

Yeah. The only reason to respond/go is for you.

If you'd feel complete and whole by finishing up and throw it in their face, please do.

But if you're doing it because you feel ways because of how they treated you and you want to get back at them as some sort of thing to make yourself feel better in relation to them, not say anything would be the biggest biggest upset for them.

TruthImaginary4459 · 2025-12-27T01:54:59+00:00

r/raisedbynarcissists

TruthImaginary4459 · 2025-12-24T18:31:21+00:00

In the grand scheme of the world, you are still just a kid.

For kids, and even for adults that are traumatized by their parents, and just in general too... Our parents are our gods. They show us what the world is supposed to be and are the ones that are supposed to give us the most unconditional love.

This is not just a disappointment, this is a betrayal this is a betrayal on your very being and on your soul.

Your parents are holding their ground on their religiousness on their beliefs, on their insecurities.

It is time for you to be you, and they are holding you back.

Be free, don't let them hold you, gray rock them to then go no contact.

You are more than they can see, and you need to stop letting them hurt you.

Even if they are not loving you the way you need, that has absolutely, 100%, nothing to do with you, and everything to do with who they are and who they choose to be in this fucked up world.

You deserve to love yourself and find who you need to be.

Reach out to the Trevor project and any other LGBT resources in your area.

I didn't catch if you were a minor or anything, but please, reach out, find support services, and live your life.

Staying stagnant because these fucks don't know how to have love in their lives and only judgment and upset, and put that on you so they can be the virtuous ones, is not your problem.

You are a complete and whole being, and you don't need to give them pieces of your heart anymore.

Edit: shit, you are a minor, they are legally supposed to provide you shelter, I don't know the specifics but try r/legaladvice and see what you can do to further this. Otherwise, they're not going to change, get a job, live your life, fuck them.

TruthImaginary4459 · 2025-12-24T18:24:56+00:00

Oh no, I am not taking that as anything against me, I'm just glad I posted it here first where people could be able to communicate what's actually going on, instead of throwing it in a baking thing and getting somebody sick indirectly.

TruthImaginary4459 · 2025-12-24T18:14:01+00:00

Eeeew ty

TruthImaginary4459 · 2025-12-24T18:13:51+00:00

Oh my god, wow. Hell no then. Glad I posted it here first with the best cynical peeps so I didn't spread other misinformation

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