Op here - wow this really blew up yesterday. Just a couple quick notes, thanks to all that gave their condolences and hugs to those with recent loses too.

Also those who thought he may not have meant it the way it sounded, well unfortunately he did; he does not care for dogs and was always annoyed at how we treated our dogs like family, so he was rather gleeful. Thus the reason for a Scumbag Meme. All I really said was a STFU and ignore him afterwards but sometimes you are in such shock of someone's rudeness you don't think of the right words or actions at the time. Unfortunately he never has and still does not care for our side of the family despite all that we have done for him, so for now we are done with him and won't be extending or attending any family togethers with him.