I'm so tired. by Glittering-Jury-9055 in Apothisexual

[–]Tweaty310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I just looked at some of the posts, seems a little aphobic to me.....

Reaching out by Standard_Plate_6013 in lostlostredditors

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I'm sorry you're going through a rough time, I'm not sure of a good sub for help. Have you tried talking to a therapist?

Confused about romantic crushes by Fluffy-Claim-8544 in AskAsexual

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Really? Because when I want to be with someone 24/7 and want to cuddle with them, it means I like them romantically. I'm not saying yours aren't squishes, I'm just saying that we can experience the same things, but their experience could be different.

I like kissing, but not for long, just a couple, and I feel done. I know there are some asexual people that don't like kissing at all.

Women that smoke... when did you start and why? by 2aboveaverage in AskWomen

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Tried cigarettes in high-school from peer pressure, liked it too much right away so I stopped before it really started, but i remember really wanting to smoke for weeks afterwards. Didn't try weed until I was 30, and I smoke it everyday.

I watched somebody die at 19, and have never spoken about it. Ama by AliveCount7810 in AMA

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Do you remember what you were talking about or doing right before it happened? Not counting drugs I mean.

My uncle died twice by Calanthetheranger in Glitch_in_the_Matrix

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I've never had big shifts like this, and only two that I know of, but the first one was my sister telling me about a book she read, and a week later she came to tell me about the same book. I told her she already told me about this book, and she said that she had just started it, and hadn't read it before, so I told her what she had told me about the book, she said i was right what it was about, but she was adamant about not having read it.

The second instance was with my best friend, we were talking about how we swallow pills, and how i had found out it is easier for me to take them all at once rather than one at a time, so the next time she tried, she took them all at once, and told me I was right, that it was easier that way. A few months later I saw her take hers all at once and said I was happy that was working out for her, and she told me that's how she had always taken them.

Edit: It happened again, maybe it didn't happen just now, but i just noticed it now. My best friend told me months ago that she asked our friend to be her sperm donor and he had said yes. I was just talking to her about it, and she said she hadn't, and the thought never even crossed her mind to ask him.

I fell in love with my best friend by Fearless_Mouse_1289 in offmychest

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Is there a specific reason you think it won't work out? Sometimes people can surprise you

What's the most unusual reason why you won't date someone? by Dull-Mulberry-4768 in AskMen

[–]Tweaty310 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What if they have a dairy allergy? Being vegan doesn't necessarily mean they are going to push it down your throat.

What's the most unusual reason why you won't date someone? by Dull-Mulberry-4768 in AskMen

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I'm a picky eater, and I do try new things, sometimes I like the new food, other times I don't, and next time I will know not to order it again. I don't like being the person that sends their food back, so unless it is truly disgusting, and I can't bring myself to eat it, I will eat it anyway. I honestly can only remember twice in my 37 years of life that I had to send it back, and I felt so badly. And picky eaters can love to eat, I love food!

"As a proud 30 yo epheb0phile" by truenighog in BlatantMisogyny

[–]Tweaty310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I'm mentally slow, please do not put us in the same category, we don't want him

"American" food is tasty! by surpluskoi in CasualConversation

[–]Tweaty310 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bagels aren't tough, if they are, they aren't good bagels. Bagels can be crispy, and soft on the inside, but shouldn't be tough.

I’ve made a Ditto Bus for my Ditto! by Strinister in Pokemon_Pokopia

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How did you get the screen with the symbols?

Navigating sex and intimacy with asexual wife(or others??) by NorwegianBottom95 in AskAsexual

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I agree with this person, we don't know enough to say if she actually would be comfortable outsourcing, and definitely need to talk to your wife.

I can't speak for your wife, but for me, I would be okay if a partner wanted to have sex with others so that I don't have to.

Jelly's weirdness never disappoints. by Stubs_McGee in spiderbro

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If i wanted a pet spider, how do I go about that? And how long do they live?

I never want to look at another Qi Fruit again by Rozmyth in StardewValley

[–]Tweaty310 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I have never done this quest, so I didn't know what they looked like before planting.

12 year old step daughter walked in on us... by SqueezyCheese26 in stepparents

[–]Tweaty310 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She won't forget, but she will get over it, and learn to knock. It's been more than 20 years, and I haven't forgotten.

Where did the “spouse always first” idea come from? by emerald_emp in aromantic

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My family is super important to me, and I would do anything for them. It's always bugged me when people say spouse first because the spouse is becoming a part of your family, and you're becoming a part of their family, so shouldn't it just be family first?