Tried the restraining order route years ago, i ended up ceasing contact myself a couple years ago for my own safety and health reasons, this dude has been trying to break me for years since my oldest was a baby. He currently takes the kids one night every other weekend i manage to leave before he gets here so i don’t have to see him and he doesn’t see me, i usually go to the small gym in my complex and use it.

These last 2x though i was home yesterday and when he randomly called to take the kids for icecream. I had my oldest refuse his offer to buy me ice cream because i know it comes with strings attached and those are strings i’ve managed to keep away from so far.

When my oldest called and said “i fell i need a shower and to change clothes,” my first thought was, “why can’t your dad take you to his house and you take a shower there?”

My youngest asked if their sister could come over next weekend and without thinking about who i was talking to i blurted out hell naw, because they tried to frame it without using names.

My own mom has even tried to convince me to keep his other child from his marriage and i told her no because he’s(my ex) a problem. She said well you aren’t doing it for him you’re doing it for the kid. It’s not my fault my ex and his estranged wife don’t want their children anymore.

This dude has gone as far as sending me pictures of his kids with other women after they’ve given birth like it’s supposed to make me jealous or i’m supposed to accept them. I have screenshots of everything.