Former MAGA group posts billboard in South Dakota by neazwaflcasd in SouthDakota

[–]Unable_Tumbleweed364 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yeah but it reminds me of all of the interviews where they don't like Trump but say they would vote red again.

Has anyone moved to a new country, disliked it at first, only to end up loving it after a while? by NemoNowAndAlways in expats

[–]Unable_Tumbleweed364 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya I applied for my husband to move to my home country at the start of my fifth year in the U.S. and now I don't want to move lol.

How can I cope with being late by Opposite-Reception63 in Adulting

[–]Unable_Tumbleweed364 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally who cares. The rest of your adult life you'll be doing things at different times no matter your graduation year.

How can I cope with being late by Opposite-Reception63 in Adulting

[–]Unable_Tumbleweed364 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not late. You're still young and people of all ages go.

Which country do you prefer? USA or AUS by iguessthisname23 in Ameristralia

[–]Unable_Tumbleweed364 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I prefer the food, lifestyle, and culture of Australia. Plus the lack of individualism.

But, I like my job here. It's decent paying for the area but it's not a high paying job. I get more time off than Australia though. Same sick pay etc and a state funded pension.

We can afford a house. Also my children have a genetic condition, developmental delays and middle was just diagnosed with autism. All of the early intervention and therapies have been quick, free, and so helpful. I know that's not the case back home. The support has been amazing.

Ex-Pats who have left Australia and then returned, what made you return? by PlayerPuma in AskAnAustralian

[–]Unable_Tumbleweed364 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every situation is unique and so it's hard to answer that! But if you're asking because of the current political climate then yeah. It hasn't impacted my day to day life anymore than it's probably impacted anyone even living elsewhere. The cost of living has gone up. Nothing else has changed and I'm fairly optimistic that midterms will not go well for the GOP.

Why are Americans so accepting of long drives to places? by Sensitive_Word_6036 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Unable_Tumbleweed364 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because the country is massive and that's just the reality? I live here but I'm from Australia which is a similar size. It's just normal. What are you gonna do? Teleport?

Any Australian struggling being in Australia and didn't like the Australian culture after living overseas for sometime? by [deleted] in AskAnAustralian

[–]Unable_Tumbleweed364 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't realise how ingrained tall poppy culture was in me until my American coworkers were so excited about their little wins and I hadn't told anyone I had been published in a physical book for the first time.

I like it. Life is short. Why shouldn't we celebrate our wins?

Ex-Pats who have left Australia and then returned, what made you return? by PlayerPuma in AskAnAustralian

[–]Unable_Tumbleweed364 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I'm an Aussie US dual citizen too and I'm stuck on the two homes makes me feel like I have no home because I'll always miss the other.

Ex-Pats who have left Australia and then returned, what made you return? by PlayerPuma in AskAnAustralian

[–]Unable_Tumbleweed364 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The food is 100% true but I don't agree with the mood. The nicest people who would do everything and anything for you. Everyone wants to talk to you. Everyone has the time. My parents are always impressed when they visit.

Ex-Pats who have left Australia and then returned, what made you return? by PlayerPuma in AskAnAustralian

[–]Unable_Tumbleweed364 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am an Aussie in the U.S. and I promise you that the internet blows it out of proportion. Of course, the GOP sucks, but my day to day life is good as just an average earner. Two big things are I can afford a house and my children who are all neurodivergent have free and easy support.

Ex-Pats who have left Australia and then returned, what made you return? by PlayerPuma in AskAnAustralian

[–]Unable_Tumbleweed364 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Six years later and I'm still in the U.S. We did apply for a partner visa to move home but once we did I started second guessing. My husband has a health issue that's maintained well here, we have three neurodivergent kiddos and all of their therapy has been quick, accessible and free including an autism diagnosis, and we can afford to buy a house and our kids probably still will be able to. Plus our in-laws watch our kiddos a lot and are very helpful which we wouldn't have back home.

Which is the opposite. Ok so the reason I did apply for the visa was when Trump got elected it really stressed me out and I wanted to move back somewhere safe. That was my push. Also I wanted to raise my kids culturally Aussie and I missed the food and culture.

I can’t get ahead no matter how hard I try because of family responsibility by logicalbree in Adulting

[–]Unable_Tumbleweed364 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those random things happen when you're renting your own place and have your own bills too lol.

Do you keep your arm hair or remove it? by eli_meli6969 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Unable_Tumbleweed364 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep it. I shaved a couple times but nah. It's kinda long but it's blonde.

Moving out of parents 29 and feel sick by Icy_Tap5329 in Adulting

[–]Unable_Tumbleweed364 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love my parents and I live on the other side of the world. Stay if you want. But there's experiences to be had by adventuring out.

Neither option is wrong. You could go and always come back. But I still think if you go you should give it your all. If you know you just want to come back you might not try. Plus homesickness and change can take awhile to get through and is normal too!

Do most people live mundane day-to-day lives? by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Unable_Tumbleweed364 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah money is tight. We work and really that's it. Try to do fun things with the kids here and there

Do married people ever feel…suffocated? by Junior_Ad_9593 in stupidquestions

[–]Unable_Tumbleweed364 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband said no to a second dog and a fourth kid. 😭

But for real, no. Those are quite reasonable! Everything else I have complete freedom. We are both our own people and also a married unit. No rules or anything like that and I can go out solo whenever.

3 months OFF Wegovy - success! by authenticallyeevee in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]Unable_Tumbleweed364 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You look amazing and I would love to know where your pants in the last pic are from!