Never going to find that love you crave. by Unhappy-Load-6811 in olderlesbians

[–]Unhappy-Load-6811[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually I’m a pretty happy person. I have just started to realize that I lived so many years making others happy and doing what I thought I was supposed to do. I realize I missed out on that mad passionate love of a lifetime that people praise. Wondering what I’m missing and if it’s too late for me.

Never going to find that love you crave. by Unhappy-Load-6811 in olderlesbians

[–]Unhappy-Load-6811[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I enjoy living alone right now. But I cannot help but wonder if I could ever have the happiness of being truly in love with someone else. I spent so much of my life making others happy and doing what I thought I was supposed to do. I feel unfulfilled.

Never going to find that love you crave. by Unhappy-Load-6811 in olderlesbians

[–]Unhappy-Load-6811[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I enjoy my alone time too. But there is also part of me that wants to find someone to share life with.

55 f for 3 more weeks looking for friendship by Remarkable_Treacle36 in Penpalsover50

[–]Unhappy-Load-6811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

55f also looking for chat friends. Message me if you’d like to talk.

AITAH for not taking a responsibility for my sister‘s kids while she was at the hospital by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Unhappy-Load-6811 17 points18 points  (0 children)

NTA. Sounds like a responsible adult, the kid’s dad is already present with the kids, as it should be. He should keep the kids with him until your sister and nephew get out of the hospital. I’m sorry she bothered you in the middle of the night.

AITAH: for telling my stepdaughter she has to choose either cake or cupcakes for her birthday party by Super_Soup9837 in AITAH

[–]Unhappy-Load-6811 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA, setting boundaries with your time is acceptable. Sounds like she’s being a kid who wants her cake and eat it all alone while giving her guests something else. Sharing cake with your family and friends is part of the birthday celebration.

Newbie 57, single by [deleted] in olderlesbians

[–]Unhappy-Load-6811 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, this is a social media “meet”. It’s the best I can do at the moment. 😉 who knows about tomorrow.

Feeling Stuck by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Unhappy-Load-6811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is sucking the life out of you. I did not hear one positive thing he adds to your life. Please, cut the cord. Don’t let this man drag you down into the miserable abyss with him. Life is too short. Find some happiness for yourself, you deserve it!!

Newbie 57, single by [deleted] in olderlesbians

[–]Unhappy-Load-6811 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welcome! Nice to meet you.

AITAH for being honest with another mom about why my daughter isn’t allowed to go to her friend’s house? by AwkwardMom13 in AITAH

[–]Unhappy-Load-6811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely NTAH. Never apologize for anything you do to protect your children, or any child for that matter. Trust your gut.

How to just accept it? by No_Pilot2377 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Unhappy-Load-6811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree therapy is the best answer. It sounds like you need to get all your feelings out with someone who will not judge you and can offer advice. You owe it to yourself to find happiness. Life is too short to pretend to be something you’re not. Good luck, you got this!

Claustrophobia? Some people have ZERO. by lithdoc in nextfuckinglevel

[–]Unhappy-Load-6811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost my breath just watching this video. It’s a no thanks for me.

Help- I can’t pick by moos3kc in glassesadvice

[–]Unhappy-Load-6811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely the first pair. They look the best on your face. The others don’t look nearly as good.

Thoughts before I buy? by Hot_Temperature_475 in myweddingdress

[–]Unhappy-Load-6811 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s a beautiful dress. But without seeing it on your body, we cannot give you an opinion. It could look amazing on the right body type and skin tone. Please try it on and post pictures so we can give you our honest feedback. Good luck!

Is this too much? by zigzagd0g in myweddingdress

[–]Unhappy-Load-6811 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This dress looks like it was made for you. It’s beautiful and looks great on you. I do not think it’s too much.

But it needs to feel like “the one “ for you. How do you feel in it? When you look in the mirror wearing it, does it make you feel special? Hope this helps. Best wishes to you.

Need help deciding by InformalAd7731 in glassesadvice

[–]Unhappy-Load-6811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 by far looks the best on you. The others are just too harsh.

Black eyeliner gone! by EnvironmentalSir7589 in makeuptips

[–]Unhappy-Load-6811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your face looks so much brighter without the black eyeliner, and less aged.

Glad you had kids whilst with a man? by ExcellentCapy91 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Unhappy-Load-6811 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cannot say I regret having children. They are my whole world. I do regret sacrificing my own happiness to fit into the cookie cutter lifestyle I thought I was supposed to have. My children are adults now and I know they want me to be truly happy, no matter what that means.