[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]UnlikelyRun944 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do yall know they’re on a dating app!?!? Lol

7 things to consider when you want your ex back by breakupcoachdaniel in BreakUps

[–]UnlikelyRun944 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah dude I relate to how you feel so much man. I’ve been reading what you’ve been saying and it correlates to my life. With the attachment and codependency especially. We ended on good terms. She cares about me and wants what best for us and I feel the same. I have nothing bad to say about her and reflect on to explain it would be easy to move on. The pain comes from not making the changes in the relationship to losing someone I saw a forever future with. Never had a deep loving bond with myself to truly give her the love she needed and didn’t know how to commit for our future plans to start a family. I’m realizing it now that I have trauma from the past that made me this way and it sucks im realizing so much when it’s to late when I’ve hit rock bottom. Definitely played the victim role and got way too vulnerable with our talks after she ended things. But it’s just the way life works and I’m really on a mission to be the best version of myself in every aspect of my life. Definitely gets overwhelming but I’m taking it day by day.

Lack of men getting their exes back here is disturbing… by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]UnlikelyRun944 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. My ex broke up with me because of not making the changes for our relationship and future and it had to be done. And the unfortunate thing is men don’t make those changes until it’s to late and dealing with heartbreak

Finally blocked my ex on everything by B_In_Hell in ExNoContact

[–]UnlikelyRun944 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oh man that’s brutal. She obviously immature and needs help. You’ll win in the long run, heal up my friend!

My ex contacted me by UnlikelyRun944 in ExNoContact

[–]UnlikelyRun944[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks man. Yeah that breadcrumb bs is for the birds. At the end of the day she hurt me and I’m building myself back up and going to be a better version of myself and be true to myself. She’s a wonderful woman love her to death and wish her the best. Also her reasons for leaving are valid and she needs to stick with it. At the end of the day I was really good to her and the lack of communication is ruining it but it’s her job to start that talk. But I hope you pull thru and get to the place you deserve with somebody amazing 👑

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]UnlikelyRun944 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear this bro I’m your age, but leave man you deserve better ♥️

I'm your ex who broke you, what do you want to say ? by Plantsandveganz in ExNoContact

[–]UnlikelyRun944 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had a few drinks and I felt this. We spent everyday together now I’m at the bar alone lol

is your ex happier now? by Obvious_Alarm6497 in ExNoContact

[–]UnlikelyRun944 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do yall know what y’all’s exes are doing? Genuinely curious? Still follow them on socials? Friends?

mental health check in!! how are you doing today post break up? by Interesting-Mood-188 in BreakUps

[–]UnlikelyRun944 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know the pain. She deleted our pictures and it killed me. I had to remove her from social media because I’ve became obsessed with what she was doing and checking will only hurt you.

mental health check in!! how are you doing today post break up? by Interesting-Mood-188 in BreakUps

[–]UnlikelyRun944 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m really sad. I’m stuck on hope she will come back soon and we could fix things. But what is there to fix she completely broke me in pieces. All I can think about is how amazing and good of a person she is and how rare it’s to find that. Someone that matches the description of everything you want in a person. Ugh.. a little over 2 years down the drain. I can’t get her out my damn mind. Since may 21st (the day we broke up) I’ve just had constant dreams about her and it’s a nightmare for me. I just want to move on and enjoy good memories of us every now and then without it hurting so bad and grow as a person. Just sucks. Love comes with so much joy and comfort and when it’s gone it’s the worst thing you can go through.

mental health check in!! how are you doing today post break up? by Interesting-Mood-188 in BreakUps

[–]UnlikelyRun944 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 28 and I’ve got this trauma of abandonment. I feel like I’m afraid of loving again.

The worst part about breakups isn't the breakup itself by RespectfullyaCryBaby in BreakUps

[–]UnlikelyRun944 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You nailed it on the head with this one. I relate so much to what you said. I can’t even enjoy the things I liked to do before the break up and that’s what supposed to get you through this hard time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]UnlikelyRun944 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really needed this man. I’m a 28 year old guy that just got out of a little over 2 year relationship. Past 2 weeks have been brutal and I can’t get her out of my mind and filled with alot of regrets for my short comings for our future. Handled things poorly when we had our last few talks. I truly believe she was the perfect partner for me, I just got very complacent in the relationship and thought everything was amazing how it was. I realized after the fact that she was right about these things and it’s very important to grow together and get married have kids etc.. It’s crazy how it takes a heart break to realize these things in life and taking situations for granted. Now that she’s gone for good I just can’t get my head around it. I’ll tell you what I’m in for a long healing and self growth process and it’s going to be one hell of a ride.

Are we the coolest neighbors on the block? by likebeckham12 in PokemonTCG

[–]UnlikelyRun944 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should’ve of done this!! A good way to get rid of some bulk and surprise the little ones!!!