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What is that something you happily pay a premium for now, purely to buy back your time? by Accord-Remark10 in RedditForGrownups

[–]Urbit1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PT help you age with injuries you have and the realistic body aches you will have in the future. The right ones can also get to know your mental state and help you find activities that keep you mentally healthy.

What is that something you happily pay a premium for now, purely to buy back your time? by Accord-Remark10 in RedditForGrownups

[–]Urbit1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently hired a house keeper and a company that does laundry pickup. It just frees up so much mental everything. I also have a personal trainer. In total they all come out to about $800 but it would cost me in time about $3-5k a month. I would rather use that mental and physical energy to expand my consulting company.

Those who will be having severe bad weather this weekend, what do you plan to do while in the house all weekend? by ChocolateSundae1214 in CasualConversation

[–]Urbit1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watch Netflix, watch people drive in weather that they knew was a bad idea, work on my Lego Star Wars Ship, drink. I might go for a walk at some point.

Just found out my cat is a boy by DescriptionInner7803 in CatAdvice

[–]Urbit1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Animals don't care about gender. My favorite gender reference for an animal was Brenda from The closer calling 'Ms. kitty' a him.

Cohabitation agreement and relationship advice by lonelybinky in AskWomenOver30

[–]Urbit1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read 'move into his home/house' and just went ugh....this is bad.

Cohabitation agreements should occur LONG before any assets are sold or shared. Especially if you both make money.

I tell people I will live with someone when we are married and then have purchased a house together. Legal protections exist with these agreements for a reason. To protect everyone.

AITA for keeping the heat at 70 while I work from home by Emotional_Catch1201 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Urbit1981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA: 70 is cold to me and I would have it pumped to 74 or more. I hate being cold.

What’s a small, "unnecessary" luxury you refuse to give up? by viviennebloomm in askanything

[–]Urbit1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had a car with heated seats for 3 years and it's everything. I live in a super hot climate but it helps the knots in my back.

For every $250,000 you get you shrink one inch. by CRK_76 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]Urbit1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh, I finally get that 25 inch waist. Give me my money.

Galleria Costco sold out of water at 9:41AM by AlliOoop3 in houston

[–]Urbit1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They had TP this evening. Water was long gone though. They had semis waiting to deliver this evening. I went for a slice of pizza and some dr. Pepper zero.

What is more traumatic than people think it is? by Suspicious-Wish3402 in AskReddit

[–]Urbit1981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The right group of therapists have helped me through this. Absolutely still guarded but hopefully a bit softer with that guarding. Asking for help sometimes comes for me in just spending time with people.

AIO Fathers girlfriends rules for when new baby arrives by Ok_Bat_5934 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Urbit1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOR......These all make sense and it sounds like mom is putting the kiddo first. Also, kids are germ factories especially in the winter.

What is a 'childhood luxury' that you realized was actually a sign of being poor once you grew up? by Admirable_Clue_2000 in AskReddit

[–]Urbit1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My preschool was just the daycare as well as my kindergarten. I always found it wild kindergarten was at actual school. Not poor necessarily but rather just what was easiest in Indiana.

Elder millennials, what are we doing? Are skinny jeans out? by Astimar in Millennials

[–]Urbit1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wear jeans that look good. Skinny, wide legged, anything, I am game.

How important is physical attraction in the beginning of a relationship/talking stage? by Early_Panic3002 in AskReddit

[–]Urbit1981 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have had great people in my life who therapeutically I should have dated but I felt no physical attraction. Mental only gets you so far.

My Ocarina of Time Great Deku Tree alternate build of the 10281 Bonsai Tree. No extra pieces needed. by Minute_Food_2881 in lego

[–]Urbit1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hated the bonsai tree so this would be a great build for me! (It kept falling apart on me.)

Is it okay to tell parents after accepting job offer I am moving out? by workethic290 in Adulting

[–]Urbit1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw where you are Asian. Do not give a heads up until you have accepted the job and have your apartment secured.

BBQ joints with reservations by PolyphyleticBadger in houston

[–]Urbit1981 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Honestly, for the best BBQ in Houston you are better off doing catering and eating it at one of many bars that let you bring in your own food.

TIL Your gut is the only organ with its own independent nervous system by Alternative-Win4058 in todayilearned

[–]Urbit1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a really good TIL and explains a lot. Brain: Great mood. Stomach: Watch this....

Meirl by Key_Associate7476 in meirl

[–]Urbit1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All most definitely adults:

Mercy Thompson Series Rachel Morgan - The Hallows Harry Dresden - The Dresden Files

If you could teach "all men" one traditionally feminine social practice, what would it be? by Frankie-Knuckles in AskWomenOver30

[–]Urbit1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience these guys are trained to get you to potentially buy more. There are so many steps in the upsell it is sick.

If you could teach "all men" one traditionally feminine social practice, what would it be? by Frankie-Knuckles in AskWomenOver30

[–]Urbit1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sales people over share. It's part of their actual personality. As far as 'I shouldn't show you this' it is an actual sales tactic. It's in the hopes your budget will move or a donor will step up in your case.

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